I hear ya. When that CRS kicks in it can really do a number on you. I was stalking somebody but I forget who it was.

Sex in later life may not be the same as it was in your youth, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. In fact, sex can be more enjoyable than ever. As you find yourself embracing your older identity, you can reap the benefits of experience. The independence and self-confidence that comes with age can be very attractive to your spouse or potential partners. No matter your gender, you may feel better about your body at 62 or 72 than you did at 22. And it is likely that you now know more about yourself and what makes you excited and happy. Your experience and self-possession can make your sex life exciting for you and your partner.

I agree with your comment. I want to find some one special before we go on to the sex thing. Its important to discuss things that people both like in the bedroom or any other room.

Well to be honest, at my age, yep it is still a part of my life, given half the chance that is ;) hehehe
On the other side of the coin, I would like to be involved with a genuine guy, but it appears that most of the so called genuine ones are only afte one thing - money:( What happened to good ol fashioned interest, then more interest then the forbidden L word ??
C'mon world, don't be so politically correct with yourselves - be yourself, it is worth it...and hopefully we will all find who we are looking for..

Of course.
Sex will always be an integral part of any relationship.
Its the how often and how hard that is going to change...

Nylonman, are u saying you want to discuss what she likes or dislikes about sex before taking her to the bedroom?

I still think about it everyday/several times a day...

(I still practice LOL - if you dont use it you loose it)

''Sex is good for you,'' says the 63-year-old Blank, a sex educator for more than 25 years. ''You should continue to have good sex for the same reason you should continue to get good exercise: It's taking care of yourself. Wake up your body again if it has been shut down. Do it whether you feel like it or not.''

Totally agree here! Provided it is with the right person for the individual!

with the right person

and only then....no exceptions :)

Of course.

I feel like it but it's not the most important thing in a relationship.

However I can and want to.

i like how u think Im in the same way creativity counts

With all the Medication out now Viagra, Extends,etc.etc. i see it in my spam advertised daily? And not being in a relationship, not needing to make it rise,bigger thicker,longer just another gimmick to spend on a product that's not needed? (Just saying) At 59 all is needed is the Relationship part, the rest Nature still works too well for me! I've learned from past relationship's its best to leave that problem hanging. MONEY,MONEY,MONEY------- MONEY!!!LMAO

You have a GREAT attitude about this subject ! Gives me reason to hope . THANK YOU !!!

yes please thanks

Once,twice a day if possible and I'm over 50.....♪☺♪ Some women may have a problem with that though. ☺

Just for the record, I am almost 57 and can't seem to get enough. Every individual is different no matter what age. although it is a very important part of a relationship there are also many other important factors in any relationship.

Why should we enjoy..sex..i like intimacy better word..more fun..

Try it with your wife then.