I know not all men want just sex from women I guess ive just had bad experenice with men! I had a nice man once but it didnt work out We are still friends

is sex all i think about? no sometimes i think about lack of sex.

Just think of moment u missed someone badly and thought how much he/she hated to have sex when she wants to express something other than sex

Understood It seems people are so fixated with sex that they forget there is more to that person. Don't get me wrong sex is enjoyable but what happens when you get to the age that you lose your libido? I suppose you could pump your body full of drugs to try and keep the Libido going but really its mother nature's way of saying you are not able to procreate anymore which is why you lose your sex drive. So what is left? Me, personally I have had better relationships with guys that I could share things outside of the bedroom like traveling, cyling, talking about life, etc. I got into a relationship with a guy that only wanted to have sex and although the sex was great; I was bored. Even sex can be boring if you have nothing outside of the bedroom. I hope you can meet a man that can respect you as a person and not treat you like a peice of meat as you deserve no less.

Some men do not want a relationship, that is their Choice. Everyone does not need a parnter in life. Actually, some people really shouldn't have one because they do not know how to treat them when they do get one. Many are not made for a partner relationship as a couple.

ok Im gonna shut this conversation down with my opinion, is sex all men want? well let's do some math. is it harder for men to find women to love them, or women to find men? well in the old caveman days the men had the power. But now it's 2013 women have analyzed men for a very long time, and khow what to do to hit our buttons. (We actually killed our power ourselves with television, sex, tv ads, slim women, hell even beer commercials, sports. pretty much everything) so it seems like we are not even equal to women anymore. they have the power.

So this brings up the issue that it is harder for guys to be happy. It now takes longer to find love. I strongly believe that not having sex, confidence, company, can lead to depression. which makes it even harder for men to be with someone.

Is sex all that men want? no, but since it takes a while, when we finally feel that we might be happy again, the sex trigger kicks in. once the sex is over and the relationship started, and the man feeling confident and happy again, then sex is not the only thing on the mind.

Anyways Im new to this site, and Im super passionate romantic, devoted, and yes sex is a strong power in my mind. Im sure once I can hold the special someone in my arms, and release those emotions, I wont only think of sex either.

There you have my opinion. maybe makes sense maybe doesent. but thats my way of thinking. Take care ladies!

You sir are mistaken. Personally, I enjoy the emotional parts as much as anyone. But, I do not want ANYONE in my bank accounts ever again no matter how much I care for them.

Wait, I thought it was just about sex and that's it? If you enjoy the emotional part as well, then you understand some of the reason why many enjoy relationships.

Okay team, to sum up what we have discussed thus far: (wait, who made THIS A$$H0l3 a moderator!?)

Relationships are somewhat tricky, finicky engagements which take hard work & dedication, and not to mention caring, modesty, a loosening of pride, restraint, compassion, and understanding. By now, you must know that no two relationships are the same, regardless of the similarities. This is a only small part of the enjoyment of being with someone > making yourself a better, well-rounded person. Sometimes, however, you just want to put tab A into slot B, and some will do, say, OR pay anything to make it happen. This won't stop until the end of time, and all you can do is be sincere and a little cautious, and quite possibly mr or mrs right will be in your life.

Great Post! Should be more men in the World that think like this.

Whoa, someone who gets the big picture. I was beginning to lose hope.

Naturally,man gets incredible feelings when with the opposite sex. That is the raw truth about relationship.

Only up to a certain point. I don't think either party should have to compromise on anything or mingle assets. That means both must maintain their own homes.

You don't like my TV show? Go home and watch your own TV. If I don't like your's, I'll do the same. You want a dog? Fine, keep it at your house. You need to borrow money? Go to the bank.

Everyone has preferences. Those are yours. I'm sure you'll find women who have the same kind of preferences.

That's just Dating, well maybe for some people.

That's why I don't call it a relationship.

Women always want more. "Where's this going?" "Am I just your **** buddy?" "When are you going to ask me to marry you?"

You mean there's more??

Is this "man haters" vs "woman haters" thread still going??????

Thought it would have worn itself out on the first page.