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Is this "man haters" vs "woman haters" thread still going?????? Thought it would have worn itself out on the first page. I didn't. Best troll thread I've read in ages. |
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Haters? I hope no-one here is really doing that. The opposite sex is just that - opposite - which (IMNSHO) means there will ALWAYS be some strife while dating, in a relationship, just bangin, and so on; It's human nature. I remember my relationship with my first soul-mate, and I don't remember not so much as one problem. I am sure there were some, but the good far outweighed the bad. My wreck of a marriage is mostly bad memories. Maybe my first-love was it...? Too late now, sigh.
So as to the original original question: Yes, I think most of what we want, at least initially, is sex. Let me get deep-> How many of you honestly (really, cut the crap) met your current or previous mate, and strictly thought of his/her personality? Really? And by sex, I am speaking broadly, i.e. you thought they were "cute" or "handsome" whatever. The brain (?) secretes nearly the same ooze for sex as for infatuation, don't it? Not speaking for our entire gender, but I think generally - yes. Next question please. |
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It seems to me all men want is sex!The amount of men iv,e had that just want sex! well i want more than that! Yup! with an interlude of sports and food!! 
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Some do, some do not.
You're really not getting a much better answer than that, honestly. |
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Edited by
YungCiara
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Sun 01/20/13 09:03 PM
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lol I'm bisexual so I see a lot of things. One thing I notice is that women are a lot like men lol There are women who only want sex lol I try not to stereotype one gender because most characteristics can be found in both sexes lol
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It seems to me all men want is sex!The amount of men iv,e had that just want sex! well i want more than that! Understood It seems people are so fixated with sex that they forget there is more to that person. Don't get me wrong sex is enjoyable but what happens when you get to the age that you lose your libido? I suppose you could pump your body full of drugs to try and keep the Libido going but really its mother nature's way of saying you are not able to procreate anymore which is why you lose your sex drive. So what is left? Me, personally I have had better relationships with guys that I could share things outside of the bedroom like traveling, cyling, talking about life, etc. I got into a relationship with a guy that only wanted to have sex and although the sex was great; I was bored. Even sex can be boring if you have nothing outside of the bedroom. I hope you can meet a man that can respect you as a person and not treat you like a peice of meat as you deserve no less. 
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No, I like romance too, but I think about a lot of things, sex is only one of them.
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Yes, you come off very bitter and very unhappy. And, not all women want relationships....
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Yes, you come off very bitter and very unhappy. And, not all women want relationships.... If she is bitter and unhappy; she is justified in feeling that way. She obviously wants a loving relationship not to be used for sex. I think she just may be frustrated as she is having trouble finding a decent guy. |
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Tex, are you always so bitter? Why do you try to shoot anyone down who enjoys more than sex with the opposite sex? I'm not bitter. Do I come off that way? I'm asking questions, trying to understand what people get from relationships. Why are they so important to so many? Everyone keeps saying I'm wrong. I ask them how and I get nothing back. If anyone could give me one good reason for relationships I'd turn my views around in a heartbeat. But,so far, no one has. I guess if you are truely happy with yourself now, you wouldnt be questioning other's happiness just becoz what they want is different. |
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Yes, you come off very bitter and very unhappy. And, not all women want relationships.... If she is bitter and unhappy; she is justified in feeling that way. She obviously wants a loving relationship not to be used for sex. I think she just may be frustrated as she is having trouble finding a decent guy. Oops; I think the bitter comment was meant for Texas Scoundrel and not the op. I screwed up again. 
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Some women only want sex from men.
It depends on the view of the person. It can also depend on their emotional state of being at the time. Emotionally unavailable people tend to just want sex or see sex as the only purpose for the interactions with their attracted partners. If they only want sex from you, they are doing you a favor in letting you know that right up front. You then know you are dealing with a person who is unavailable to you emotionally. Take it or leave it at that point. |
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Some women only want sex from men. It depends on the view of the person. It can also depend on their emotional state of being at the time. Emotionally unavailable people tend to just want sex or see sex as the only purpose for the interactions with their attracted partners. If they only want sex from you, they are doing you a favor in letting you know that right up front. You then know you are dealing with a person who is unavailable to you emotionally. Take it or leave it at that point. i agree with this, it would be worse to be lied to if they only want sex and led you to believe something different... |
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Maybe I'M all goobered up but I still say that that initial meet, whether it be in person or online, has some degree of sexual overtone to it. It might not be, "aw man, I wanna git all up in dat" but just being fascinated with their eyes, ears, breasts, etc. Hormones produced by multiple glands secrete all the same.
One converse to this idea is that when you meet someone or you've known them for a while, is "man, I think she'll be a great mother/wife/soulmate" which may be the case, but me still tinks that s-e-x in some way, form, or fashion is running around in the subconscious... Or it might just be me - ha! |
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I don't think that ALL men only want sex from women,
however I do believe that ALL men think about sex more often than women do. |
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I don't think that ALL men only want sex from women, however I do believe that ALL men think about sex more often than women do. No argument there, but I seriously doubt that all men that do think about sex, think of having sex with a woman... Just too many other options and opportunities out there. I also seriously doubt that the same can be said of women... |
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Only in the morning.
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Some women only want sex from men. It depends on the view of the person. It can also depend on their emotional state of being at the time. Emotionally unavailable people tend to just want sex or see sex as the only purpose for the interactions with their attracted partners. If they only want sex from you, they are doing you a favor in letting you know that right up front. You then know you are dealing with a person who is unavailable to you emotionally. Take it or leave it at that point. This is true but when a woman tells you that she just wants to have fun and nothing serious she may want more than just sex from you. She might want you to take her out on dates and she may even act as if you are in a relationship. Someone tells you that they aren't really looking for anything serious right now and you think that if you romance them they might decide that they do want more than just a fling. I do think of sex as an intimate experience that you share with someone that brings you closer to each other. I have tried to get women to love me by making love to them. They say that women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex but as much as I like sex it isn't all that I think about or all that I want. I want to be in a relationship with someone that makes me happy and I have known happiness although my relationships haven't worked out. I don't get what you find so hard to understand about why people want to be in relationships Tex. If you are one of those people that feels happy with your life and being on your own then I almost envy you but you say that you do want the emotional stuff and if you get emotionally involved with someone it is a serious relationship. You may want your relationships to be on your terms but unless you are kidding yourself about your relationships with women being emotional you do want to get involved and you do get why people want to be in relationships. It doesn't just count as a relationship when you marry someone or give them your credit card. |
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Some men do some. Don't. It all depends on hOw u were brought up and with whom. That and mental stability worth and other things come in. I think about sex but its not number one. My happiness comes first. Sex just helps with the endorphine rush and makes things so much more different with that special someone. That and procreation. What man doesn't want a boy to keep his legacy afloat? So it all depends since it also seems like u might be giving that vibe. If it walks like a duck aNd quacks like a duck it must be a duck. No disrespect intended.
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What is sex anyway? O, I know! It is that new number between 5 and 7 that replaced 6.
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