Ill take this one. Im romantic passionate love to please, looking for hapiness, and to feel free.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irds1L7f7dw

"the world is ours" Eleven past one

interesting. I read that and thought it didnt make sense. but logic states that you can make yourself happy, you dont need anyone for that. I guess what Im trying to say is you deserve to share your happiness with someone else. and if you say your not interested in doing that, that would make me wonder why your on a singles site. lol

im feeling better. actually this describes my mood :)

http://vimeo.com/56907718

im just saying giving up is not the answer. everyone deserves to be happy. you too.

come on ladies. are you kidding? you know something I wrote a post a while back saying I was depressed found it hard to believe in myself blah blah, and you people in these forums are who helped me get out of it. now Im ready, to be the best I can be, and make someone special happy. and all I did was say, well lets help each other, and you guys are saying well Ive had bad luck I cant find someone, or I can't give advice on love. I see a lot of good people here, that believe in others, but not themselves. Thats ok I get it, I felt that way. But maybe it's time, so stop feeling sorry for bad experiences, ourselves, fate, fear,and just go for it. Now your gonna say yea well I could get hurt. Yep, you could. But can you honestly say being alone right now is not hurtful? Your here for a reason. Ok let's assume you do get hurt in a year, or 2 even. 2 years of happiness is worth 2 months of hurt no? Im just saying Im done, your all worth it. Its scary. But dont give up. Cause if you do Ill find you. then youll have to deal with me, lol and you dont want that. LOL WE WILL FIND LOVE TOGETHER. all of us. some will be faster than others. in the mean time Im here, if any of you wanna talk, even privately mail me.if your shy. Now that Im tackling life, im ready to help, as I was helped.

lol no i dont need help for myself. im not perfect but im a damn good guy. someone will notice. IF i did ask all of you just to help me, then ya that would be lame. lol but rest assured, i dont need help loving others. if i can love on my own, i can find love on my own. im good looking (at least i think) im nice, caring considerate, funny. all i need help with is removing the negitive thoughts around me. im working on that. sorry i snapped at you :

thanks leigh, no i didnt know. im sure that willl help a lot of newcomers

desprate? no no, its to help everyone, doesent have to benifit just me. im glad its your opinion, and i respect that, but im sorry your wrong. And to toodygirl, i said if you werent interested in said person. wow nevermind i said anything. i got a judgemental answer from 1 person, and a defensive answer from somone else who missed my point. must have been a bad idea, or im a too good a person. was just trying to help. nevermind, carry on.... lol WOW

I was thinking, it's hard finding the right person. So i want to find a way to start a connection. For example i'm from Gatneau quebec. you view my profile, but your not interested, so normally you move on. I wanna change that mentality. Maybe i dont apply to you, but maybe you have a family member who is single that does? A friend or co-worker? Id like us to start a thread here with the city, and what we want. And i want us thinking of people we know that can find love, and get them registered here. In essence im trying to increase everyones chances, and telling people to set us up with others, if we arent for you. Just an idea.

Im male, 33, gatineau quebec, looking long term. know anyone who might be interested? set us up!

i know. ill relax love will come. thanks guys.

guess im sick of being alone. all my life, ive saved women made them feel good, wanted, respected, loved. especially if they were down. but its my turn now to be happy. I will get what i want. but until i do, i got you guys who care. means a lot cause my emotions are 100 times intensified. been alone too long. LOL the lady that has sex with me when i see her, will be in for 1 hell of a treat. i got a ton of feelings to release. But i wont give up being happy.

good advice. thanks everyone. trust me i remember the good times. actually i remember every smile, detail, situation... im in a bad place. being emotional as much as i am, has been both good and bad. passion, romance, love, caring, are things women love. And im awesome, cause i feel it. but then... wow i just realized a problem. i need a woman i can help. She has to be insecure scared, unconfident. those women i can help. and they help me. all stable outgoing relationships have failed. They didnt need my help so i felt bad not giving anything back. (even though i was). Wow. writing helps me think. Its hard finding women who need help. They are shy and don't go out like me. Oh well who knows what i will realize next. but this is helping.

how? who? i didnt know was curable, except for pills. thought it was in the brain only. i just dont know the steps

today, ive been feeling down. Been a long time since ive been with a girl. im depressed, and too shy to go out and look for love. rejection is burnt in my sub concious. Even though i quit smoking, eating better, and trying to enjoy life, im scared to be happy, worried it wont last, or that i be accepted for me. Any advice to get my thought process changed? I know im a great guy and can make a girl happy.

nevermind I found it. wow went through 50 first pages all of them over a month log in. oh well time to go out to clubs I suppose. LOL

and where do we see their last log in date/time?

good point about one nighters or dates or long term ill fix it. as for scary, yea I kinda knew but I didnt want somone to assume Im 1 way and get suprised. Im trying to be honest too, but ill fix that. as for me being cute well thanks, I know. lol I dont have a cam, I can take pics with my cell, but dont have a wire to upload to pc, so that will take a while, but Ill look into it.

There, changed what I could verbally at least, still has how I feel, but less scary. take 2.

And yea I have a question. I sent a lot of emails with no responses. its possible Im not getting answers, but its also possible maybe some members are inactive? do you know if they get taken down if there is no activity? would seem dumb searching and liking people that might have been offline for 2 years lol. anyways thanks love.

please rate my profile, once this gets going Ill be asking a lot of advice and ill be sharing a lot about me :) lets dive in the mind.... of a spiritual man. good luck people!

ok wasent trying to hijack I was trying to avoid 20'000 new threads LOL but no problem my bad!

rate my profile too. yay seems like fun! please and thank you.