Understood It seems people are so fixated with sex that they forget there is more to that person. Don't get me wrong sex is enjoyable but what happens when you get to the age that you lose your libido? I suppose you could pump your body full of drugs to try and keep the Libido going but really its mother nature's way of saying you are not able to procreate anymore which is why you lose your sex drive. So what is left? Me, personally I have had better relationships with guys that I could share things outside of the bedroom like traveling, cyling, talking about life, etc. I got into a relationship with a guy that only wanted to have sex and although the sex was great; I was bored. Even sex can be boring if you have nothing outside of the bedroom. I hope you can meet a man that can respect you as a person and not treat you like a peice of meat as you deserve no less.