You know I'm surprised and a little irritated that this thread got so much attention when apparently the OP doesn't even keep up with it, he was most likely just posting to see if any women will hit him up for a roll in the hay.

Finally, my 2 cents, I would love to have a lover who didn't want to control me and be up in my business 24/7, but I wish I could get action multiple times a day and it's hard to do that without practically living together so... sigh, too bad we all can't live in fantasy land huh?

Multiple times a day? I assume you are referring to sex? If you want it that often you'd better be looking for 18 year olds or get used to the idea of multiple partners.

Nah, you don't have to be with someone that young or multiple partners to have sex multiple times in one day. Just gotta find those guys with stamina.

I'll soon be 51 and I can go about four times a day for about two weeks. After that I'm just spent. When I was 18 it was a different story.

I kind of doubt that "no strings attached " ever meant anything more than anonomous sex in any context in the last four or five decades. It is one of those inuendo kind of phrases that sneaky people use.
That said I do find it kind of sad that dateing declined so badly that the concept of just going out and it just meaning a nice time out with adult company of the other sex with out it meaning you were going to get hustled for a sale, a job, to be a room mate, or some lunatic idea that a mild attraction makes you their instant soul mate seems to have drifted from the definition.

Sorry double post

I think that is actually possible.

You might get along better too, if you each have your own space, your own house, your own bank account, etc.

There's a lot in between 18 and 51. I prefer someone with a bit more experience than an 18 year old, too.

in your dreams..............no "chick" is going to settle for that sooner or later she's going to want some kind of committment , be it marriage, living together, or both of you dating others.She's not going to want to wait around 10-15 years while you decide if she's relationship material.

No strings attached...

To me it sort of meant, "Let's have sex and play Mario and we don't really have to ever talk about this again unless it's good and then maybe we'll do it again the next time we get bored."

There's always emotion involved. Otherwise... that would be REALLY awkward.

The group of close friends that I maintain regards this issue with a lot of different perspectives. There's sympathy sex (pity ~~~~), goodbye sex, it was nice seeing you sex, "we're not good as a couple or friends but I still love you" sex, this song is really good so let's have sex sex.

I mean... you know. Sometimes sex is just kinda fun. It can be with a friend or something. Usually is, that's how I figured.

Otherwise it's just called picking someone up.

Yeah, that's the kind of thing that comes to mind when I think of "no strings attached."

Not actually. Ive been doing this for the last 3 years.

So Mark tell us your secret and since you have my fantasy, then why are you here on Mingle2?

And Scoundrel, I'm sorry. Now you have me really wanting to avoid older men, my age of men have had no problems in the multiple times arena. :D

youth and maturity both have advantages - I'd look to the individual irrespective of his age

I think of

'dont count on me for anything past today,,,,'

basically

I dont know what my secret is. It started with Shaelene. Then I met a few other Bi girls. Shaelene moved to Arizona. And I ended up with a couple of part time girl freinds that dont want a relationship.
But as far as strings go they all want something dinner rides fix stuff the list goes on.

So there you go...there are some strings...however thin they are.
when I think no strings ...I think anonymous sex..no strings to bind...not even a name.

Not my cup of tea..but I don't judge.

how surprised???

I have to disagree.. i say honest no drama no strings.. just means i will not be having expectations from the encounter. except for the pure pleasure of enjoying the beauty and the eroticism of the female body. for me ot is never meaningless or you lost the sure fun and experience of it.