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No strings? What about ropes, scarves and handcuffs?
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What about the notorious String Theory?
No, I don't mean the G string....
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I want someone there for me; that cares about me and my feelings. Maybe I would like to get married some day. A no strings attached means you can see and date others which is the correct meaning of it. Sorry; I don't deserve to be treated like that. I have way to much self-respect for myself. As I said; if it works for you; then go for it. You will never convince me that I could be happy with a no strings attached. No strings doesn't mean you're seeing others. It means there are no legal ties between you. I'm not trying to convince you of anything. I'm trying to understand your need for strings. I think that those who use the term "no strings attached" mean just having sex and maybe going out once in a while. No relationship. No falling in love. Not dating exclusively. I wouldn't assume it just means no marriage. I agree it is devoid of love. there fore it is not something I'd consider the time together would not be meaningful if one or both were being used as sex objects.. |
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I have to disagree.. i say honest no drama no strings.. just means i will not be having expectations from the encounter. except for the pure pleasure of enjoying the beauty and the eroticism of the female body. for me ot is never meaningless or you lost the sure fun and experience of it.  please don;t tell me there ar women who fall for that cr@p |
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   Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. Well that kind of woman usually doesn't need a man and is probably not all that interested in sex either. And if all you have to or want to offer a woman is sex, then it better be pretty damn good sex, and don't expect her to fix your breakfast afterwards. Just put your pants on and get out.  
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Hello.
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I like the sound of that. Lol
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