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Your Kidding right a big guy like u
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Women who fall victim to a lying pick up artist thinking she is going to snag a husband with her looks and sexual talents should not be too surprised when he is not there in the morning and never calls her again. And if the women become pregnant as a result . . .  Or there is a nasty disease transmitted. A guy that says no strings; says I am open to whatever diseases are out there and will possibly give it to you. 
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Or there is a nasty disease transmitted. A guy that says no strings; says I am open to whatever diseases are out there and will possibly give it to you. I must take issue with this. Just because a man (or woman for that matter) doesn't want the entanglement that goes along with a traditional relationship doesn't mean they're sleeping around. Maybe they simply like their life as it is with out the drama that always seems to accompany relationships. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Tue 12/25/12 02:16 PM
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Or there is a nasty disease transmitted. A guy that says no strings; says I am open to whatever diseases are out there and will possibly give it to you. I must take issue with this. Just because a man (or woman for that matter) doesn't want the entanglement that goes along with a traditional relationship doesn't mean they're sleeping around. Maybe they simply like their life as it is with out the drama that always seems to accompany relationships. Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. Well that kind of woman usually doesn't need a man and is probably not all that interested in sex either. And if all you have to or want to offer a woman is sex, then it better be pretty damn good sex, and don't expect her to fix your breakfast afterwards. Just put your pants on and get out. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. I agree I been around a few no strings guys and they are jerks plus no strings, as Ive said is just denial of reality and/or a mental illness - that much detachment is a disorder |
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"I am the first one I deceive.
If I can make myself believe, then the rest is easy." |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. Well that kind of woman usually doesn't need a man and is probably not all that interested in sex either. And if all you have to or want to offer a woman is sex, then it better be pretty damn good sex, and don't expect her to fix your breakfast afterwards. Just put your pants on and get out.  
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. I agree I been around a few no strings guys and they are jerks plus no strings, as Ive said is just denial of reality and/or a mental illness - that much detachment is a disorder 
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"I am the first one I deceive. If I can make myself believe, then the rest is easy." and the seasons they go round an round the painted ponies go up & down we're captured on the carousel of time we can't return we can only look behind from where we came and go round and round and round on a circle game (judy collins circa mid 1970s - paraphrased or I have got it exactly - not sure) 
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You look like a girl scout in that photo... If you had pigtails you could be in the centerfold for barely legal.... I hope you are not referring to me and my uniform.  Ya want me to hold ya back from slapping the snot out of this one or hold him so you can? lol Personally the latter came to my mind first but ehhh no sense trying retraining for stupid right? |
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You look like a girl scout in that photo... If you had pigtails you could be in the centerfold for barely legal.... I hope you are not referring to me and my uniform. Ya want me to hold ya back from slapping the snot out of this one or hold him so you can? lol Personally the latter came to my mind first but ehhh no sense trying retraining for stupid right? He He; yes; you can hold him while I slap him. Thanks for the offer. |
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Just going by the Op's own words. Sounds like sleeping around to me. You'll note he put the phrase "use someone for sex". That's what a person that sleeps around says. "That just says I want to use someone for sex. its sex without all the hassle of relationships, have been hurt far too many times in the past n we all have needs." No, that's what you're reading into it. He may simply want one woman to have sex with once in a while. One that won't trouble him with all the needy things so many women come with. I would love to find a woman that only wants sex from me. She'd understand that all that love stuff in nonsense and have her life so together she'd want to avoid all the same issues I want to avoid. Just imagine a person that doesn't need anything. Someone that has their life so together they don't want to risk screwing it up by getting involved with someone else's problems. I can tell you that women like this are few and far between. A woman can have her life together and not want to be used for sex. I have my life together and I don't need a man for anything as I am completely self-sufficient/indpendent; but I also have enough self respect to not be used just as a booty call. I am a human being and I think I deserved to be treated as a person; not just used for sex. Just like men don't like to be used for money; women don't want to be used for sex but then again we were mentioning women being attracted to jerks; so maybe this ties in with the other thread. Not "used for sex." Sharing a pleasurable, sexual experience. Think about it and I'm sure you'll agree. If you're life is perfect, why would you want to risk that by getting involved too deeply with another person that may ad a chaotic element to the mix? It just doesn't make any sense to me. Two people can enjoy spending time together and having sex with out "using" each other. Well that kind of woman usually doesn't need a man and is probably not all that interested in sex either. And if all you have to or want to offer a woman is sex, then it better be pretty damn good sex, and don't expect her to fix your breakfast afterwards. Just put your pants on and get out. laugh laugh Yes! Exactly! I live my life and she lives hers. We come together and enjoy each other when we want. But, she's not in my home, my bank accounts or anything else I don't want her in and I'm not in hers. |
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No strings? Is that normal?
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No strings? Is that normal? It should be. Can you even imagine a relationship where your partner asks for nothing? No demands or emotional blackmail? No nagging or power struggles? Each one maintains their own home and lifestyle without asking the other to contribute? You'd get all the best parts of a relationship without any of the nonsense. It would be true equality between the sexes. |
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No strings? Is that normal? not in my opinion... if there's no strings.. what happens to kids and grandkids? the mindset today of some is extremely appalling.. I can't believe that everything is so "disposable" these days.. maybe we should all just walk around with THIS tattooed on our respective foreheads 
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No strings? Is that normal? not in my opinion... if there's no strings.. what happens to kids and grandkids? the mindset today of some is extremely appalling.. I can't believe that everything is so "disposable" these days.. maybe we should all just walk around with THIS tattooed on our respective foreheads
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No strings? Is that normal? not in my opinion... if there's no strings.. what happens to kids and grandkids? the mindset today of some is extremely appalling.. I can't believe that everything is so "disposable" these days.. maybe we should all just walk around with THIS tattooed on our respective foreheads I think this is an awesome idea! Many women could use some reducing and I don't have a problem with recycling and reusing other men's girlfriends. |
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