/sigh

I am a gay man AND I have morals.

I do not sleep with any guy that will pay attention to me as the fact that I haven't had sex in almost 12 years will attest.

I am very picky about who I date and NO ONE gets to that base on the first date.

BTW 100% of the population is not gay so that arguement is pointless.

I have enjoyed most of this discussion but it has turned into one giant christianity vs gay rights thing. So I am going to bow out and hope that someday ALL people will be able to look past their own noses and see that even gay people have morals and are still human.

IS IT RIGHT TO BAD MOUTH A CHRISTIAN FOR THE CHRISTIAN'S OPINION?

THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.....AGAIN CHRISTIANS ARE VERY ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINIONS AND DO NOT HAVE TO CONFORM TO NON CHRISTIANS.......

LINDYY

YOUR POST IS 100%++++ CORRECT.......

Just look at what they say to me.....they do not like what I post and try to mute my voice....it will never happen....and they claim everyone should respect each other's opinions....well what they mean is respect THEIR opinion and the rest are to shut their mouths.

Lindyy

that's about dominance...and...not sexual in nature...

Yes, but I am not a (quote-unquote) "non Christian"...

Opinion is one thing.... on and on and on in arguments about religion day after day after day show me something about an arguers personality. I will know you by your fruits.

If I did not have the Spirit of God in me, then you may possible blow me off, but since I do (read my profile), what I am doing here is holding you accountable for all the bitter garbage you allow to spew out of your computer and into the eyes of the innocent. Not everybody here is some ultra-terrible demon-possessed person who needs to be beat up by your constant arguments. I wonder how many good people were actually considering Christianity as a life choice, but after seeing you and other like you who post constant bitter rags in the name of God, perhaps you have made them choose differnelt, at which time you ceased to be doing God's work, and blindly begand working for the Enemy of God.

Obsessive arguers are showing signs of severe bitternes, very little peace, and in my opinion, are making a mockery of the God they claim to love.

It isn't anything more than feeding the flesh.

Why not be posting somewhere else to add something that is uplifting? Instead it is a constant woe of strife. Why always be in some situation showing people how much you can hate them with your words? Is this how you plan to show Christ's love? Wow.....

"Jesus wept."

Check your heart... it appears there is something drastically wrong with it if a person compulsively and obsessively posts nothing but arguments day in and day out.

Where are the beauties in life? Where is your peace? Where is your compassion? Where is simply... your love"

"God is love."

Is life a non-stop, drama filled argument? That is all people here get from you. It is the testimony of the obsessive arguer, it causes people to hate God because of your example, and you don't seem to care. It seems more important to you to perpetuate the hate in your flesh and to feed it by posting more and more and more argumentative comments.

This is the Christ you are presenting by example as people who may or may not be Christians are watching through the screen of their computers.

I have the freedom to kill someone, and I could feel I am entitled, but that does not make it right.

You may feel you have some kind of freedom to go on and on and on endlessly in arguments, but that does not make it right.

It typically gives people the wrong impression about Christianity when you claim to do it because it is (in your words) "in the name of God", etc.

I do not think Jesus would be on an Internet site everyday arguing about anything. He would be out doing good works, like healing people, or teaching with love and compassion. Perhaps you need to follow His example and get away from your computer for a season and do some of those types of good things. Arguing contains no healing, only strife and bitterness, and it seems like the world is your victim. The same world Jesus died for on the cross.

If that is your view of Jesus, I really pity you.

Bitterness, hatred, contempt... for people of all types... in the name of Jesus... if I did not have my faith, I would run for the hills from your example. Have you considered stopping the arguing because you, by posting your bitter opinions, are actually doing the Devil's work by driving people away from Christ by the hordes?

You are so far from the truth of Christ, that you cannot see any truth whatsoever, that is what I think. I think you are back-slidden and lost, and basically very close to the Biblical Pharisee and hypocrite.

I am actually trying to help you, but I think you are so lost in this obsessive online arguing stuff, that it would take a lightning strike to force you to repent.

There is such a thing as being addicted to being online. Sort of like being addicted to gambling or any other activity.

Arguing feeds the flesh. It is vain. You should stop, and I don't mind posting the truth about it that many more will see and acknowledge. It is what someone needs to stand up and say, and I have said it openly and with no fear.

Repent.

If you would have READ my posts, then you know I was talking about real life minding your own business. Not on this stupid thread.

Since this is a dating site...

... I was wondering if the people who compulsively and obsessively argue are lonely?

... I was wondering if they had given any thought to the idea that constantly bitterly arguing was not all that attractive to the opposite sex or potential partners?

Nobody wins when people argue. You don't win some kind of Mingle prize for having the most cruel argument. There is no victory at all.

Only a feeding of the flesh for one's own selfish means.

Vanity, vanity, all is vanity. There is no new thing under the sun.

that's about dominance...and...not sexual in nature...

That's not quite true. I had a female dog that kept humping my child a week before the dog went into heat.

Some dogs even hump items that aren't people. Are they trying to dominate them? No.

The vet said that dogs hump for 3 reasons: to mate, or to play or to dominate.

I would never use that vet for any of my dogs I have had over the years.............PLAY???????? News to me.....

I have always been extremely selective about my vet (1) because I love my dog(s) and (2) I had shown dogs and I also bred dogs.....thus I needed a credible vet......

IS IT RIGHT TO BAD MOUTH A CHRISTIAN FOR THE CHRISTIAN'S OPINION?

THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.....AGAIN CHRISTIANS ARE VERY ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINIONS AND DO NOT HAVE TO CONFORM TO NON CHRISTIANS.......

LINDYY

You are right that you are entitled to your opinion and that everyone has the right to free speach. But, having read what you've said in most of your posts- the world has to conform to your opinions- including your christian ones.

Basically (after reading the whole thread) one can only come to that conclusion...

I won't fight with you anymore as it's pointless, but I'll leave you with a bit of wisdom I've learned.

"What works for one person does not always work for another." Or in a more simplified way: Not everyone will come to Christ by the same means.

Your opinions on homosexuality might not work for others and if you don't want to be called out on it then quit posting on threads that involve it- it's that simple. I'm not trying to silence you but don't play the victim here.

If you didn't want to be singled out then you wouldn't. That's called personal responsibility. And people who know what that is change the channel on the television when something they don't like or a program that attacks their belief's come on that station.

I am glad you admitted you have been "fighting" instead of debating.

And as I have stated before, if one does not like my posting, simply do not read my posts....and I will continue to post according to my Christian view point....no one has the right to tell me to stop posting

I do NOT tell others to leave the thread and go to another....that is an attempt to dominate....


I have yet to bash anyone, I have simply posted scripture from the Bible which is how I base my opinions and live my life.....perhaps others do not like my opinion because it is in total contrast to what they believe....but just the same...I am entitled to my opinion and state it without this type of a post being made directly to me.....


Lindyy

Lindy's problem is she is quick to strike out with her own beliefs, but when countered gets all huffy and cry's foul.

You have the right to your own ideas, and beliefs, and to express them all you want and really in whatever way you want (irregardless of forums policy even this isn't about consequences but about what you CAN do) But so does everyone else, so get over it already!

Lindy if you never mention your right to make these comments, then no one will reply about your right to make them . . . come on lady figure it out already . . . .