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Topic: Do nice guys really finish last?
JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/13/08 01:02 AM



Nice guys DONT always finish last, IF you are to nice of a guy a girl thinks of you more as a brotherly type. you have to be nice.. but also agressive and show that you are a Man that is interested instead of a nice guy who seems more like a brother.. but you cant be to agressive cause then you will seem like a jerk. you have to be somewhere in the middle


Pretty good first post. :-)

But where is that fine line between jerk and too nice??

That depends on the girl....


Yep. And that's where guys are put into the proverbial " no win situation ". lol

sparkleplenty424's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:01 AM




Nice guys DONT always finish last, IF you are to nice of a guy a girl thinks of you more as a brotherly type. you have to be nice.. but also agressive and show that you are a Man that is interested instead of a nice guy who seems more like a brother.. but you cant be to agressive cause then you will seem like a jerk. you have to be somewhere in the middle


Pretty good first post. :-)

But where is that fine line between jerk and too nice??

That depends on the girl....


Yep. And that's where guys are put into the proverbial " no win situation ". lol
I don't agree.

Just be yourself, and some people will like you and some people won't. You can't tailor your behavior to attract the maximum number of women. If you are yourself, you will simply attract that right woman.

franshade's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:23 AM
We sure have beat this topic to a pulp.

Synopsis:

Men - If you walk around proclaiming to be a nice guy, chances are you're not, you just think you are or just want to say you are.

The best compliment is one that is paid to you, not one you give yourself.

flowerforyou flowerforyou

cflbikedog's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:26 AM

We sure have beat this topic to a pulp.

Synopsis:

Men - If you walk around proclaiming to be a nice guy, chances are you're not, you just think you are or just want to say you are.

The best compliment is one that is paid to you, not one you give yourself.

flowerforyou flowerforyou

Let it die already!!!!!!! G'morning Franflowerforyou

franshade's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:27 AM
morning sunshine - but I like talking to you winking

cflbikedog's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:28 AM
Cuz I'm not a nice guy!:laughing: :laughing: flowers flowers

franshade's photo
Wed 08/13/08 05:30 AM
You're not a nice guy, you're a great guy flowerforyou

SVImager's photo
Wed 08/13/08 02:42 PM
I am a Nice Guy in Wolf's Clothing.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:22 PM





Nice guys DONT always finish last, IF you are to nice of a guy a girl thinks of you more as a brotherly type. you have to be nice.. but also agressive and show that you are a Man that is interested instead of a nice guy who seems more like a brother.. but you cant be to agressive cause then you will seem like a jerk. you have to be somewhere in the middle


Pretty good first post. :-)

But where is that fine line between jerk and too nice??

That depends on the girl....


Yep. And that's where guys are put into the proverbial " no win situation ". lol
I don't agree.

Just be yourself, and some people will like you and some people won't. You can't tailor your behavior to attract the maximum number of women. If you are yourself, you will simply attract that right woman.


Meh. I can accept that. I don't change who I am for anyone.

Some find me a nice guy, some don't. lol

Depends on how long they have been talking to me....lmao

crlove's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:26 PM
i AM A VERY NICE GUY AND I CANT GET ANYONE WOMAN TO RESPOND TO ME..i REALLY JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE

franshade's photo
Thu 08/14/08 06:13 AM
join the forums

share laughs, ideas, jokes, advise

make friends

and stop typing w/the cap locks feature on

flowerforyou

Mrtap's photo
Thu 08/14/08 06:42 AM
Let it go frustrated frustrated

Us nice gentlemen know who we are and we dont finish last.:thumbsup:


maryelizabeth10's photo
Sat 08/16/08 01:58 PM
honestly i dont push away nice guys. usually the guys i meet who are nice are nice for the first few months then become assholes... id like to find a nice guy whos seriously nice for once

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 08/16/08 02:04 PM

honestly i dont push away nice guys. usually the guys i meet who are nice are nice for the first few months then become assholes... id like to find a nice guy whos seriously nice for once


The ones you have been meeting are the ones who have less than ideal motives.

There are great guys out there, you just have to be patient enough to find them.flowerforyou

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