Yep!!!
Good Post

I used to think that, if they broke up with me because i am nice maybe to nice. and it would get to me. now i look at it like this. wasnt ment to be ,her lost NOT MINE . so i move on :) .

Yeah, but I'm not telling cause I want him for myself!

I think the secret is to be a nice guy but not be a pu$$y about it........

Yes, yes they do!! I've decided to become a jerk, now I will start getting dates!!

I think so, at least as far as my 26 years have taken me and I'm not an ugly guy, just a good guy....

“ Waiting To Be Loved ”

I wear my heart upon my sleeve,
Wanting to be loved;
Waiting for her patiently,
With my chin held high above.

Way too many sleepless nights,
I yearn to feel her touch;
And as I drift to sleep alone,
I wonder just how much.

How much longer must I wait,
To meet that special one;
The woman that will love me,
Not play with my heart for fun.

I know I have more love to give,
Than most could ever know;
So why is it so hard for me,
To find that perfect soul?

Someone to share my life with,
Who wants a truly, honest man;
Women say that’s what they want,
But I just don’t understand.

I’m standing right in front of her,
Not perfect by any means;
But for some reason I’m overlooked,
The best are never seen.

But someday I know,
God will give me what I need;
And finally I’ll find my love
And I too will be happy.

But as for any other woman,
It will be too late;
I’ve been here all along,
Not good enough to date.

So I thank God for patience,
To help me wait ‘til then;
I know that when the time is right,
She’ll be a gift from Him.





Robert Reynolds
April 07, 2008

Very nice poem!

Thanks



Just kiddin

Nice guys DON'T finish last. The guys who finish last seem to think they are nice.... but they aren't.

Mrtap.... you know it's true. Reading this thread I saw a lost of fantastic points.

Women are not looking for doormats, heros, banks, or wimpy passionless folk. Nice has nothing to do with that. Not one thing. I want a man who is confident, who knows what he wants and feels and can express that to me. You know, a guy with some balls, but is not arrogant about it.

If a guy asks me where I want to eat or what movie I want to see.... that just blows. I want a guy to put thought into the date, not just show up and make me choose everything. If a guy picks something I totally am not into, trust me, I'll speak up.

Nice guys are not nice. Overall, they tend to be whiney, passive aggressive, manipulative people who view life as a quid pro quo. Here is the other thing....

If a girl says you are too nice, that just means she either thinks are are of the ilk of above, you you just don't 'do it' for her. Let it go.

So... have you tried this:

Ask her if she wants a drink and than tell her Great... get me one too.
Wait for her to open the door for you.
Look away when the check hits the table... or run.
Talk or Text, after she pays the meal... setup next date... with someone better.
Ask her to spring for the Hotel, so you can have sex.
Finish her drink.
Look at every Hot azz that walks by... whistle a couple of times too.
Talk about your EX and how you ditched her.
Talk about your past conquest and how you ditched them.

You surprise me again, I am just sitting here smiling
ahh your a angel in disguise.

Mrtap

Sat. then

No, but thanks for the tips

NOOOOOOOOOOOO no jerks plz!?!?

what SVImager stated eariler is so correct. us nice guys have to more assertive. "James Bond" type.

But you missed the entire point is that guys who think they are nice rarely are.

It is for others to decide if you are nice.... which by the way never means nice. Generic terms will never accurately describe anything.... well nicely!

You mean sweeping generalizations aren't gospel?

Oh the humanity