another thing to consider when someone kicks you to the curb and tells you that you are "too nice". Maybe they feel that will hurt your feeling less than telling you that your kisses make her nauseous; or your conversation puts her to sleep. Maybe she is just not into you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she says you are too nice.

Just saying.

I'll say it b-4 i'll say it again,

Ah yeah - nice guys do finish last - but the commenter saying 'if they're good looking and have money they won't' - that is very true.

Off-topic, but two equal guys in looks and smarts, the guy with money will always get the girl.

Sad commentary! And I don't think that's necessarily true...not for all women, at least. The guy with the money could be a total JERK and then who cares who cute or smart or rich he is??? Lots of women are fine financially and WANT a nice man and don't NEED a money man... WANT trumps NEED every time, IMO

I hate it when I post a typo...I meant HOW cute or smart or rich...

if they know whats good for them.oh this aint about sex is it?

Cuz then nice guys DO finish last :)

right on ..

or at least make sure it's a tie game...

Havent been in the game for years...

Nope... It is the character. Otherwise, if it is money than the girl wasn't worth it.

A Shallow Girl will go for the money.
A quality woman will go on character.

I guess you are right and if you believe what you stated, than you are setting yourself up for shallow girls.
(ie. enhancing yourself with more money image to attracting shallow girls. OR improving yourself to be a better Man... you will attract Quality woman.)

Law of Attraction... The Secret (book).

h=There was this woman who I thought was really good looking and funny and all the stuff that guys usually look for.

I asked her out twice, and she said she would give me her number and brushed me off both times. She told me that I was " too nice a guy " to date.

Well..I tried once more. She did give me her number the last time. I didn't call her.

The next time I saw her, she asked me why I never called. I told her " because I realized that I am too good a guy to be brushed off. "

She then asked for MY number, which I did give her, and she called me 3 times trying to get me to go out with her. I had to laugh later on because I had to do something ' jerk like ' to get her to pay attention.

I never did go out with her ( although I wanted to ) because I know that I deserve better.

payback is a b*tch. well done well done

Its like I always say.
Girls don't like nice guys they like assholes. they want to ***** and complain about everything the asshole does to the nice guy because we feel sorry for them and listen, and yet day after day, night after night, they go back to him. Women are gluttons for punishment. Honestly, right now, I'm glad Im a single nice guy, because I'm saving alot of money not trying to go after the dumb ***** who's going to leave me/not even give me the time of day because im not trying to control her life or smacking her around.
I'm sorry, I have ****ing class.
So In Conclusion, Nice guys only finish last if you let some stupid woman take control of your lives. Otherwise ****ing deal with it.

They don't finish last. Sometimes they finish next to last.

J/K...!

Don't worry. Be happy! Good luck with this site!

sorry...double post

You sound awfully bitter.

I hope that is not true. I have been seeking a NICE GUY for years, now. Know any? LOL

Rockysmom

If it wasn't true why is it always brought up. Because men are hunters, so only the so called strong guys ended up with the women, because nature takes over and women are like the rest of the female animals and are attracted the one who stand out right or wrong. There are also nice women that finish last !!!!

That's the game and it wont change. Just remeber the movie Hitch. I know alot of good guys that chase women and would've been great together. I even tried to hook them up, but in the end. The women went with some A## and ended up alone or *****ed how much the guys were a jerk.

So yes nice guys finish behind. Because nice isnt in.
Women always say they want a nice guy but their definition of nice is different then mens.

Assertiveness and confidence are in, with asprinkle of nice. Money aslo helps

Good luck pup,