Topic: Sex...1st date, 2 weeks or 3 months.. | |
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I think there is no set time, but its good to know if your physically compatable and if your attracted to each other, I don't see the problem if it happening sooner then later.
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I dont think i remember what sex is
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Depends on persons personality I think. Some of us are alot more free of inhibitions than others. One drink and let the sexlympics begin lol. Others like to see what the other person is REALLY like under all that polite posturing first.
I say as long as you use ample protection get your groove on, we are all over the legal limit |
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I like to look at it this way: I wouldn't pet a dog before I knew if he was friendly, so why should I bed a man before I knew he was friendly?
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i think it all depends on how the chemistry is between you and the other. as said before, there is no set time for it.
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I wait until I'm in a caring relationship. The problem with becoming sexually active only when you're in a "caring relationship" is that sometimes the person can stop caring for you. |
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How long do you wait? I dont |
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Oral sex on the first date, intercourse on the second. Any form of sex on the first day isn't appropriate. |
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Edited by
legalbeach
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Mon 03/09/09 02:36 PM
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I agree!! Sometimes sex is just sex for fun. If you want long term, DON"T do it on the first date!!
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just before I meet her
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This day and age I would never have sex on a first date. I really need to get to know someone first.
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How long do you wait? They usually arrive about an hour after I make the phone call |
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I think it should be on the first. Heck I try see if they will give in on the first. If not I keep trying. Then when they do I go find my second female to fill that fanasty void that I have. I love ladies with legs. I want my cake and eat it too. If my girlfriend doesn't give it up when I want it I normally cheat on her to get what I want. You can say I have a sex problem. Ya think? I can't commit to one woman. Just ask all my ex-girlfriends. lol.
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IM corny probably, but I believe sex comes AFTER love and a commitment. I have yet to love someone after a first date.
I say, when both people are sure they love and are committed to each other,,the right time will present itself. |
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Whenever ya want.......
However ya want..... Whoever ya want.... Wherever ya want.....!! |
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I didnt bother reading all the way through, and yuo probably dont want to hear this, but how about "until death do we part" ?
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I didnt bother reading all the way through, and yuo probably dont want to hear this, but how about "until death do we part" ? does emotional death count...? |
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no msharmony I am sorry it doesnt. Death is death, period. Infidelity and abuse are the only reasons to go seperate ways and look for someone else.
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ok. so that covers emotional death resulting from emotional abuse.
Not all abuse leaves physical scars and we are to love ourselves as well, enough not to be misused. |
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ok. so that covers emotional death resulting from emotional abuse. Not all abuse leaves physical scars and we are to love ourselves as well, enough not to be misused. you are right, and when I say abuse, I am talking in general, whether it be physical, emotional, sexual whatever. BUT, before you go looking for someone else, you need to divorce the bass turds that treats you in such a way, press charges as well, and then get remarried before anything happens. As I said, "till death do we part" is the standard. IMO, anyway. |
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