Topic: Sex...1st date, 2 weeks or 3 months..
jg32's photo
Tue 03/03/09 11:06 AM
I think there is no set time, but its good to know if your physically compatable and if your attracted to each other, I don't see the problem if it happening sooner then later.

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Tue 03/03/09 01:16 PM
I dont think i remember what sex isslaphead

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Wed 03/04/09 03:39 AM
Depends on persons personality I think. Some of us are alot more free of inhibitions than others. One drink and let the sexlympics begin lol. Others like to see what the other person is REALLY like under all that polite posturing first.

I say as long as you use ample protection get your groove on, we are all over the legal limit drinks

sensualsweet's photo
Wed 03/04/09 03:50 AM
I like to look at it this way: I wouldn't pet a dog before I knew if he was friendly, so why should I bed a man before I knew he was friendly?

jester4666's photo
Thu 03/05/09 10:17 AM
i think it all depends on how the chemistry is between you and the other. as said before, there is no set time for it.

Gentleblank's photo
Fri 03/06/09 01:58 PM


I wait until I'm in a caring relationship.



The problem with becoming sexually active only when you're in a "caring relationship" is that sometimes the person can stop caring for you.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/06/09 02:00 PM

How long do you wait?



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Gentleblank's photo
Fri 03/06/09 02:01 PM

Oral sex on the first date, intercourse on the second.


happy


Any form of sex on the first day isn't appropriate.

legalbeach's photo
Mon 03/09/09 02:34 PM
Edited by legalbeach on Mon 03/09/09 02:36 PM
I agree!! Sometimes sex is just sex for fun. If you want long term, DON"T do it on the first date!!

carebear19622's photo
Mon 03/09/09 02:37 PM
just before I meet her laugh

HarleyGuy4205's photo
Thu 03/12/09 07:52 AM
This day and age I would never have sex on a first date. I really need to get to know someone first.

SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 03/12/09 01:43 PM

How long do you wait?



They usually arrive about an hour after I make the phone callsmokin bigsmile

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Sat 09/26/09 01:58 PM
I think it should be on the first. Heck I try see if they will give in on the first. If not I keep trying. Then when they do I go find my second female to fill that fanasty void that I have. I love ladies with legs. I want my cake and eat it too. If my girlfriend doesn't give it up when I want it I normally cheat on her to get what I want. You can say I have a sex problem. Ya think? I can't commit to one woman. Just ask all my ex-girlfriends. lol.

msharmony's photo
Sat 09/26/09 02:44 PM
IM corny probably, but I believe sex comes AFTER love and a commitment. I have yet to love someone after a first date.


I say, when both people are sure they love and are committed to each other,,the right time will present itself.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 09/26/09 03:17 PM
Whenever ya want.......

However ya want.....

Whoever ya want....

Wherever ya want.....!!

daniel48706's photo
Sat 09/26/09 03:44 PM
I didnt bother reading all the way through, and yuo probably dont want to hear this, but how about "until death do we part" ?:smile:

msharmony's photo
Sat 09/26/09 03:52 PM

I didnt bother reading all the way through, and yuo probably dont want to hear this, but how about "until death do we part" ?:smile:



does emotional death count...?

daniel48706's photo
Sat 09/26/09 04:38 PM
no msharmony I am sorry it doesnt. Death is death, period. Infidelity and abuse are the only reasons to go seperate ways and look for someone else.

msharmony's photo
Sat 09/26/09 04:45 PM
ok. so that covers emotional death resulting from emotional abuse.

Not all abuse leaves physical scars and we are to love ourselves as well, enough not to be misused.

daniel48706's photo
Sat 09/26/09 05:00 PM

ok. so that covers emotional death resulting from emotional abuse.

Not all abuse leaves physical scars and we are to love ourselves as well, enough not to be misused.


you are right, and when I say abuse, I am talking in general, whether it be physical, emotional, sexual whatever. BUT, before you go looking for someone else, you need to divorce the bass turds that treats you in such a way, press charges as well, and then get remarried before anything happens. As I said, "till death do we part" is the standard. IMO, anyway.