Topic: Sex...1st date, 2 weeks or 3 months..
KCFriend's photo
Sat 11/22/08 06:39 PM
1st date is too easy, makes you wonder about who was yesterdays choice dejoir? Few dates and you start to become intimate.

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Sat 11/22/08 06:43 PM

How long do you wait?


until it's time

krobin02's photo
Sat 11/22/08 09:37 PM
I don't have a set time but I can guarantee that it won't be on the first date. Come to think of it, maybe I should think about changing my views on that (yeah right) because it's been five and a half years since the last time I had sex. Obviously relationships based on emotions rather than the physical are more important to me than sex.

AzgirlinMO's photo
Sat 11/22/08 10:01 PM
I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also.

KCFriend's photo
Sat 11/22/08 10:06 PM

I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also.


flowers

TelephoneMan's photo
Sat 11/22/08 10:06 PM

I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also.


I wonder if it is mathematical... like, if you would have waited 6 months, maybe it would have lasted 10 years... and maybe if a year, then it would have lasted 20 years... and if you would have waited 3 years, maybe it would have lasted 60 years...

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I believe in friends... long courtships... and being a gentleman for a long time, whatever it takes... Its nice to hear their are real ladies out there....

AzgirlinMO's photo
Sat 11/22/08 10:09 PM
:smile:


I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also.


I wonder if it is mathematical... like, if you would have waited 6 months, maybe it would have lasted 10 years... and maybe if a year, then it would have lasted 20 years... and if you would have waited 3 years, maybe it would have lasted 60 years...

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I believe in friends... long courtships... and being a gentleman for a long time, whatever it takes... Its nice to hear their are real ladies out there....

I have to applaude you sir...that is awesome that you are not one of those men who are just after 1 thing...I practiced celibacy for 4 yrs prior to having been w/ this guy I spent 5 yrs w/. I just think that if you truely are a gentleman and you are not after just a lay....then if you find someone out there who is willing to wait.....then I think they are worth it...

lnghntr's photo
Sun 11/23/08 07:59 AM
Azgirl- Good for you,glad to know there are still a few gals with values out there

Filmfreek's photo
Sun 11/23/08 08:33 AM
Oral sex on the first date, intercourse on the second.


happy

Thomas3474's photo
Mon 11/24/08 02:24 AM
I wait a month now.

ChangeofHeart's photo
Mon 11/24/08 07:54 AM
I wish it was yesterday.
Between two adults, no time limit. Do it while its hot, because when it gets cold, it sours

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Mon 11/24/08 07:56 AM
I don't have a time limit. Just see how it goes and what feels right at the time.

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:06 AM
This is the second time this thread has been brought out of hibernation, what gives?

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Mon 11/24/08 08:08 AM
Maybe people are horny and want to know who gives it up on the first date? laugh

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:10 AM
Ha, possibly....

I have done that.... it was fantastical too! Whoot whoot!

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Mon 11/24/08 08:15 AM
flowerforyou No means NO, until WE decide its right .. have always lived by that rule and always will :)flowerforyou NOTHING beats communication drinker

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Mon 11/24/08 08:19 AM
All I know is I need something fantastical (I like that word!) soon. laugh

ChangeofHeart's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:23 AM

All I know is I need something fantastical (I like that word!) soon. laugh
AMENdrool drool drool drool drool

carebear19622's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:30 AM
I'm easy I give it up whenever I'm asked

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Mon 11/24/08 09:13 AM

I'm easy I give it up whenever I'm asked


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