Topic: Sex...1st date, 2 weeks or 3 months.. | |
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1st date is too easy, makes you wonder about who was yesterdays choice dejoir? Few dates and you start to become intimate.
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How long do you wait? until it's time |
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I don't have a set time but I can guarantee that it won't be on the first date. Come to think of it, maybe I should think about changing my views on that (yeah right) because it's been five and a half years since the last time I had sex. Obviously relationships based on emotions rather than the physical are more important to me than sex.
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I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also.
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I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also. |
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I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also. I wonder if it is mathematical... like, if you would have waited 6 months, maybe it would have lasted 10 years... and maybe if a year, then it would have lasted 20 years... and if you would have waited 3 years, maybe it would have lasted 60 years... I believe in friends... long courtships... and being a gentleman for a long time, whatever it takes... Its nice to hear their are real ladies out there.... |
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I am not into casual sex..so 1st and 2nd date is out for me. I do respect myself and know that I am more important than just a lay. I actually made the last guy I dated (for 5 yrs) wait for 3 months before we had relations. And we lasted for 5 yrs. So I know I am worth the wait......and apparently ..... he did also. I wonder if it is mathematical... like, if you would have waited 6 months, maybe it would have lasted 10 years... and maybe if a year, then it would have lasted 20 years... and if you would have waited 3 years, maybe it would have lasted 60 years... I believe in friends... long courtships... and being a gentleman for a long time, whatever it takes... Its nice to hear their are real ladies out there.... I have to applaude you sir...that is awesome that you are not one of those men who are just after 1 thing...I practiced celibacy for 4 yrs prior to having been w/ this guy I spent 5 yrs w/. I just think that if you truely are a gentleman and you are not after just a lay....then if you find someone out there who is willing to wait.....then I think they are worth it... |
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Azgirl- Good for you,glad to know there are still a few gals with values out there
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Oral sex on the first date, intercourse on the second.
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I wait a month now.
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I wish it was yesterday.
Between two adults, no time limit. Do it while its hot, because when it gets cold, it sours |
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I don't have a time limit. Just see how it goes and what feels right at the time.
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This is the second time this thread has been brought out of hibernation, what gives?
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Maybe people are horny and want to know who gives it up on the first date?
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Ha, possibly....
I have done that.... it was fantastical too! Whoot whoot! |
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No means NO, until WE decide its right .. have always lived by that rule and always will :) NOTHING beats communication
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All I know is I need something fantastical (I like that word!) soon.
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All I know is I need something fantastical (I like that word!) soon. |
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I'm easy I give it up whenever I'm asked
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I'm easy I give it up whenever I'm asked |
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