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| Topic: Sex...1st date, 2 weeks or 3 months.. | |
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AS previously said, it depends on the couple and what you are both looking for. I think the botoom line is as long as you are goth honest, then whenver is good. It will find itself, you need to ask yourself what you are looking for? AS others have said if you just want to get laid, go to the local bar and have fun, if you want more, it is more difficult to say and will determine itself. Usually the women will let you know
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That's a good answer...the key is honesty with yourself first, then with the other party, about what you're after.
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i would like to wait to see if the relationship is worth the emotional roller coaster. especially these days half the population is carrying something. A one night stand isnt worth a doctors bill.
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How long do you wait? until " love "...comes a knocking on my door... 
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Whatever works for you both; but in my humble opinion, it is best to establish real life friendship, affection, trust, and respect first. How long these processes take for any individual person is as unique as themselves.
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I'm a go with the flow kinda guy.... whatever works
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I have never been comfortable with casual sex. I also insist on a current complete STD test before I am exchanging body fluids. So for me, I like to know the person and know I am working towards exclusivity. I may be old fashion and out dated but Sex to me is more than the physical.
So it usually is a while before I am dropping my jeans. I also don't judge others for their preference. |
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hopefully on the first date...lol
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At my age, 3 months is a bit too long of a wait.
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Whatever works for you both; but in my humble opinion, it is best to establish real life friendship, affection, trust, and respect first. How long these processes take for any individual person is as unique as themselves. Of course, this comment was made before it got all hot and heavy with Michael. No comment as to which date that was. 
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Wish I would have read this topic before the second date!
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isnt the first time decided on by the TWO parties involved in the relationship...men can be so inmature and stupid sometimes...and i'm a man..this isn't high school gentlemen...be seeing you
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Definately not the first date, that's what happens when two nimrods get drunk and wake up to each other.
Suppose other than that, it depends on both adults and if they are secure enough for that. One thing learned after a 25 year marriage, sex isn't why you get together....just a fringe benefit. |
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a few dates, a couple of weeks maybe.
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what time does the date start?
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I can usually wait about 10 minutes.... but after that I make no promises
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Mosst women bond through sexual intercourse so you gotta make a move by the third date or so or you end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone".
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Mosst women bond through sexual intercourse so you gotta make a move by the third date or so or you end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone". There's a timeline? |
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AS others have said if you just want to get laid, go to the local bar and have fun, if you want more, it is more difficult to say and will determine itself. Usually the women will let you know Nuff said.........
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Edited by
ImGary
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Sat 01/24/09 05:43 PM
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Guys our opinions are moot on this subject. Isn't the answer to this question up to the women?
I can't answer for them but I do not expect them to place a timeline on this issue. |
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