I am looking for a man that won't play games, will show me the respect that I deserve since I am a true lady. I believe that he should be loyal and faithful to me. Please don't waste your time if you're not willing to be honest. I believe that any relationship needs to have open communication where each person can feel free to tell the other individual how they feel and that way they can both try to work out the problems (if any) they may be having. Since I grew up and lived in Wisconsin I have midwestern values which I consider to be very different than California values.