Topic: How Men Scare Women
MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/20/08 03:35 PM

First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well.....

1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us.....

2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog.

3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do.

4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will.

5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?

6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens.

7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us.

8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum.

9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes.

10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also.

Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man?????
devil I do all these thingsdevil

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Wed 08/20/08 03:38 PM
mirror...you are scary

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Wed 08/20/08 03:41 PM
boys are stupid...throw rocks at them....:angry:

maryelizabeth10's photo
Wed 08/20/08 03:42 PM
oooo i like this one! very true

but i have a few more id add to it!
the only one that matters

"getting quiet and moody when your not normally quiet and moody without explanation"


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Wed 08/20/08 05:48 PM

First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well.....

1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us.....

2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog.

3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do.

4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will.

5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?

6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens.

7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us.

8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum.

9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes.

10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also.

Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man?????


So jumping out and screaming "BOO!!!" won't scare a lady?

t22learner's photo
Wed 08/20/08 05:56 PM
Written rules are sexy and attractive. How they working out?

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/20/08 06:44 PM
There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED

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Wed 08/20/08 07:29 PM
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JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:40 PM

There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?

Unique2468's photo
Wed 08/20/08 08:58 PM

oooo i like this one! very true

but i have a few more id add to it!
the only one that matters

"getting quiet and moody when your not normally quiet and moody without explanation"




That usually means you said something very wrong...

Or they have a dark and troubled past! In that case, every dark and troubled past kinda guy totally digs a woman that is sweet and comforting about it and isn't pushy.

Unique2468's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:04 PM


First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well.....

1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us.....

2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog.

3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do.

4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will.

5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?

6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens.

7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us.

8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum.

9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes.

10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also.

Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man?????
devil I do all these thingsdevil


Between you and me mirror, i think this list is bull****. All of these things depend on women's moods, and the type of girl. If a girl or guy really likes you, these all become 'endearing' qualitys. Besides, i think its cute when a girl gets jelous, as long as there not psycho about it. I know quite a few girls that think its cool too.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:05 PM


There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:

wiley's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:07 PM
E-harmony is a scam. This site is so much better.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:07 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Wed 08/20/08 09:09 PM



There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:11 PM




There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO


Well, if we haven't come up on each other's mutual matches than it's obviously not meant to be. sad

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:12 PM

E-harmony is a scam. This site is so much better.


Thanks, that makes me feel a little better. laugh

wiley's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:12 PM




There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO


Amazingly enough... there wasn't a "Get Bent" option either... laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:13 PM





There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO


Amazingly enough... there wasn't a "Get Bent" option either... laugh


Yep. I looked for that one too...lmao

I guess my " Give a sh*t " level was too low for their tastes.

Unique2468's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:15 PM




There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO


And that is why you fail!!!! (in a yoda voice)

yea, eharmony is known for weeding out anyone who is not christian, makes a certin amount of money, and i think is republician. Ironicly, overall, they have the lowest hookup rate. They inflate their numbers by considering anyone who went on a date at all was legitmately hooked up by them. I was doing a similar project at work, and had to research them. I would be glad you got rejected. It makes you one of the cool people.

wiley's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:18 PM
Edited by wiley on Wed 08/20/08 09:19 PM





There should be a personality test to be in mingle2 so we can take out the undesirables..........................YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED


Yeah...that would be a GREAT thing ( note sarcasm ). And exactly who's the one who gets to determine if someone's personality is " desirable " around here??

Or would it all be done by computer program??

After all...E Har**** basically told me I was beyond help.

Why not add a few more sites to the list that tell me to get lost?


they rejected me, too! Does this make us perfect for each other? laugh :heart:


Dunno. Haven't seen you pop up on my Mutual Match yet.....bigsmile

I know one thing....the questions over there had me scratching my head.

" How often are you happy "?...and yet there was no " When I'm not pissed " option to click on...LMFAO


And that is why you fail!!!! (in a yoda voice)

yea, eharmony is known for weeding out anyone who is not christian, makes a certin amount of money, and i think is republician. Ironicly, overall, they have the lowest hookup rate. They inflate their numbers by considering anyone who went on a date at all was legitmately hooked up by them. I was doing a similar project at work, and had to research them. I would be glad you got rejected. It makes you one of the cool people.


I love how they "match" paying customers with people who don't pay so that you never get any responses. Totally worth $50/month or whatever ridiculous fee they charge.... noway