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no NURSE... if you are one? SPAMMING is when you are here to use the forums to bash people and you aren't here to MEET and DATE it's obvious that you have a problem  I'm not here to date either.. what does that make me...??????? |
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no NURSE... if you are one? SPAMMING is when you are here to use the forums to bash people and you aren't here to MEET and DATE it's obvious that you have a problem I'm not here to date either.. what does that make me...??????? In chuck's world that makes you a problem, LOL |
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ChuckinSarasota Just deactivate your profile... You've blown any chance of finding good woman here. 
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Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!! Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL a valid point? gosh guy pick yourself up.. respect yourself she doesn't... her name implies she wants you to k'nell' down look up, not down. forget her I am not into dominating men. I like to be on bottom most of the time. 
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Well this thread didn't go where I thought it would go. LOL
 I guess what I was getting at is the point in which a person starts questioning "Should I run?" when dating. (And in no way is this considered nursing or medical! LOL) It is the same for men and women alike as I said earlier. I have been on a few dates where my date has gotten the phone number of the waitress for later and talked bad about their ex's all evening. That is what made me run. Everyone has their experiences. I would just like to share. Maybe someone could gain some insight on this. I looked at the list of things that men had listed on the other thread and found that I have done a few. If I can find what I am doing wrong and change it then maybe I will be more successful in finding and keeping someone. |
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Umm, maybe someone is jealous because they cannot fulfill the needs of a woman?? Or maybe they cannot think of a better list? We so need a 'OH SNAP' smiley!!  u hit the nail on the head...
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First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well..... 1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us..... ... ... 4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will. ... 6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens. 7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us. 8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum. 9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes. 10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also. Great points, Nursenell76. Above, I have quoted the ones I fully agree with. I think the omitted ones are essentially useless for men to focus on. Although I disagree with ChuckinSarasota in most of his points (I seriously doubt Dale Carnegie would condone his methods of communication here...in fact, he would probably say that he's trying to take toothpicks out of people's eyes while he's got a log in his), I do think that it would be better to frame these points in a positive way. Instead of "Don't be indecisive," it would be a lot more effective to say "Be decisive." The subconscious mind does not process negatives. Instead, negativity confuses the subconscious mind and creates problems. |
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I am not into dominating men. I like to be on bottom most of the time. if you really want i'll let you be on top too from time to time
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Well this thread didn't go where I thought it would go. LOL I guess what I was getting at is the point in which a person starts questioning "Should I run?" when dating. (And in no way is this considered nursing or medical! LOL) It is the same for men and women alike as I said earlier. I have been on a few dates where my date has gotten the phone number of the waitress for later and talked bad about their ex's all evening. That is what made me run. Everyone has their experiences. I would just like to share. Maybe someone could gain some insight on this. I looked at the list of things that men had listed on the other thread and found that I have done a few. If I can find what I am doing wrong and change it then maybe I will be more successful in finding and keeping someone. I respect that, and i apologize for misunderstanding your intentions earlier  best of luck to you here!  Cheers:
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no NURSE... if you are one? SPAMMING is when you are here to use the forums to bash people and you aren't here to MEET and DATE it's obvious that you have a problem  lifes a b*tch... I'm not here to date either.. what does that make me...??????? In chuck's world that makes you a problem, LOL |
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Gee somone post a thread and there is always someone that has to disagree. There is nothing wrong with that, but to push your opinion on somone else when it's just a simple thread, is just wrong. Sorry people, but if you get upset on a simple thread. I hate to see what you are really like in the so call real world.
This is nothing ment to the person that made this thread. She was just pointing something out and thank you. alot of what you said is true and it does go both ways
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I am not into dominating men. I like to be on bottom most of the time. if you really want i'll let you be on top too from time to time That sounds like a good deal! 
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I find this post quite amazing.. All this woman wrote is so true... Is it asking for to much??..not.. Now a woman wrote this....ok lets turn the table... it applies to men also.... u could say all the same... but a woman posted this first....and what does she get...crap... guys..be open minded to what she is saying... change the she's to he's and vise versa.. does that make sence to u... she isn't bashing men... it's about life... like the 12 steps..they aren't just about alcholics and drug addicts.. the 12 steps of a healthy life.. jmop....  Thank you. That is what I intended. it doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand ur post.. maybe a little more posting..as i have seen them come around to understand... to all u openminded ,intelligent people... 
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That sounds like a good deal!
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Edited by
Calilmarie
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Sat 07/19/08 11:37 PM
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Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!! Amen sister! I'm new to the forums and don't know anyone so am not "picking sides" but from what I read she was just stating her opinion on what scares woman away and Chuck has the attitude problem.I'd be more then happy to read a "what scares men away" thread so I could learn from it because obviously there is a reason I am HERE and not on a date as we speak LOL At least I can admit I am not perfect GEEZ give her a break!!! EDIT: I see there is a thread on how women scare men.....off to read and learn 
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Something else that scares me away, not sure if it is like this for every woman, but....
When a man automatically assumes that you are going to sleep with them on the first date. It always make me think that mmmmmm They are accustomed to doing this, I wonder how many women they have been with this month. LOL That is pretty scary to me! |
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GEEZ give her a break!!! what she said |
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Something else that scares me away, not sure if it is like this for every woman, but.... When a man automatically assumes that you are going to sleep with them on the first date. It always make me think that mmmmmm They are accustomed to doing this, I wonder how many women they have been with this month. LOL That is pretty scary to me! I automatically assume that sex is not the most important thing in a relationship and if it is for her, it's not gonna work for me (i'm not looking for "just" a sex partner) |
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Something else that scares me away, not sure if it is like this for every woman, but.... When a man automatically assumes that you are going to sleep with them on the first date. It always make me think that mmmmmm They are accustomed to doing this, I wonder how many women they have been with this month. LOL That is pretty scary to me! I automatically assume that sex is not the most important thing in a relationship and if it is for her, it's not gonna work for me (i'm not looking for "just" a sex partner) Exactly.... It makes me think that sex is the only thing they are interested in. I want someone to like me for my mind first and foremost. |
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Something else that scares me away, not sure if it is like this for every woman, but.... When a man automatically assumes that you are going to sleep with them on the first date. It always make me think that mmmmmm They are accustomed to doing this, I wonder how many women they have been with this month. LOL That is pretty scary to me! I automatically assume that sex is not the most important thing in a relationship and if it is for her, it's not gonna work for me (i'm not looking for "just" a sex partner) Exactly.... It makes me think that sex is the only thing they are interested in. I want someone to like me for my mind first and foremost. Exactly |
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