Topic: How Men Scare Women
zanne46's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:04 PM
I find this post quite amazing..

All this woman wrote is so true...

Is it asking for to much??..not..

Now a woman wrote this....ok

lets turn the table...

it applies to men also....

u could say all the same...

but a woman posted this first....and what does she get...crap...

guys..be open minded to what she is saying...

change the she's to he's and vise versa..

does that make sence to u...

she isn't bashing men...

it's about life...

like the 12 steps..they aren't just about alcholics and drug addicts..


the 12 steps of a healthy life..

jmop....:smile: flowerforyou :heart:

seahawks's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:04 PM
wanna scare, im not takin ya shoe shoppin tommorrow.!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:06 PM

wanna scare, im not takin ya shoe shoppin tommorrow.!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Darn! I really like shoes too. Especially strappy ones. I promise to be good if you take me to get some shoes. blushing

no photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:06 PM
Edited by Unknow on Sat 07/19/08 10:09 PM

First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well.....

1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us.....

2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog.

3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do.

4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will.

5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?

6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens.

7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us.

8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum.

9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes.

10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also.

Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man?????


This is better than The Other List :thumbsup: :banana: Written with forethought and without malice. Good job!

ThicknDelicious's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:06 PM
Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!

dangurtner's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:06 PM
Edited by dangurtner on Sat 07/19/08 10:10 PM

5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?



I'm a friendly person...why do women always assume i'm flirting????

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:07 PM

I find this post quite amazing..

All this woman wrote is so true...

Is it asking for to much??..not..

Now a woman wrote this....ok

lets turn the table...

it applies to men also....

u could say all the same...

but a woman posted this first....and what does she get...crap...

guys..be open minded to what she is saying...

change the she's to he's and vise versa..

does that make sence to u...

she isn't bashing men...

it's about life...

like the 12 steps..they aren't just about alcholics and drug addicts..


the 12 steps of a healthy life..

jmop....:smile: flowerforyou :heart:


Thank you. That is what I intended.

seahawks's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:08 PM


wanna scare, im not takin ya shoe shoppin tommorrow.!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Darn! I really like shoes too. Especially strappy ones. I promise to be good if you take me to get some shoes. blushing
ok but ya better be on yur best behaviour.!!!!:tongue: :tongue: :tongue: laugh laugh laugh

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:08 PM

Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL

dangurtner's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:11 PM
Can't we all just get along??

ThicknDelicious's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:12 PM
Poor Chuck. With you being new and all(and I am new too, so I aint judging that) you are biting off more then you can chew. Any woman who is reading what you are writing will certainly think twice before contacting you.

seahawks's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:12 PM

Can't we all just get along??
drinker drinker drinker

ThicknDelicious's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:14 PM


Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


Awww, you are sweet darlin!! ANd ummm, I think that you might have stuck a nerve on a certain insecure man.

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:17 PM



Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


Awww, you are sweet darlin!! ANd ummm, I think that you might have stuck a nerve on a certain insecure man.


Yes I agree. Funny how he is all "Off with her head" LOL If ya can't take the heat then get out of the kitchen.

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:19 PM



Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


a valid point? gosh guy pick yourself up.. respect yourself
she doesn't... her name implies she wants you to k'nell' down

look up, not down. forget her


I am not into dominating men. I like to be on bottom most of the time. :tongue:

seahawks's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:20 PM
:tongue: :tongue: laugh laugh :wink:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:26 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Sat 07/19/08 10:28 PM



Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


a valid point? gosh guy pick yourself up.. respect yourself
she doesn't... her name implies she wants you to k'nell' down

look up, not down. forget her


Wow...all I see is a woman with some intelligence, making an intelligent point.

Someone made a thread about how women scare men away, and she decided to do the same and explain what scares women off.

I don't see one single thing on that list that is completely unreasonable.

Check yourself, Chuck. Your paranoia is showing.

Oh. One other thing. Forget her?? Why on Earth would I want to do that? Not like I asked her to marry me or something. Sheesh.

ThicknDelicious's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:34 PM
Umm, maybe someone is jealous because they cannot fulfill the needs of a woman?? Or maybe they cannot think of a better list?

We so need a 'OH SNAP' smiley!!

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:35 PM



Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


a valid point? gosh guy pick yourself up.. respect yourself
she doesn't... her name implies she wants you to k'nell' down

look up, not down. forget her

Ok...i stayed out of this long enough. Although i don't agree with every rule on there...because some can be interpreted differently by one person than by another..example 'flirting with other woman' well that would depend on ones definition of flirting. But i am going to say...i think you are the one that needs to pick yourself up. First this is HER topic..and you CHOSE to come in here. Now if i find something offense to a point i might say something...but if it really offended me, or i thought it was offense in general...i.e. the one guy putting up pics of his um...well ya know. I DON'T want to see that...then i'd report the post..however most of these things are perfectly legit. I didn't see the previous thread 'what scares men away' so i did think she came off as a bit of a controlling type...but now i see that was not her intent. So I say to you, you are the one having issues, oh and if you say one more thing about her name, or it implies this or that...I'LL REPORT YOU! because THAT IS against the rules...A woman having an opinion is NOT against the rules. So chill.

ThicknDelicious's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:38 PM




Oh hell no. DO NOT pick on nell for having an opinion. And do not say that she is not here for dating purposes. The best part of a(any) relationship is starting it off as friends. So do not judge her for wanting to explain what she believes to be something that scares women away from men. By the way, you are becoming a prime example of why I am beginning to believe that men BITE and not in a good way. Get over yourself Chuck!!


Thanks, you are my new best friend. Isn't it amazing how people show their true colors. LOL


a valid point? gosh guy pick yourself up.. respect yourself
she doesn't... her name implies she wants you to k'nell' down

look up, not down. forget her

Ok...i stayed out of this long enough. Although i don't agree with every rule on there...because some can be interpreted differently by one person than by another..example 'flirting with other woman' well that would depend on ones definition of flirting. But i am going to say...i think you are the one that needs to pick yourself up. First this is HER topic..and you CHOSE to come in here. Now if i find something offense to a point i might say something...but if it really offended me, or i thought it was offense in general...i.e. the one guy putting up pics of his um...well ya know. I DON'T want to see that...then i'd report the post..however most of these things are perfectly legit. I didn't see the previous thread 'what scares men away' so i did think she came off as a bit of a controlling type...but now i see that was not her intent. So I say to you, you are the one having issues, oh and if you say one more thing about her name, or it implies this or that...I'LL REPORT YOU! because THAT IS against the rules...A woman having an opinion is NOT against the rules. So chill.


DAGNAMIT..this is where the 'OH SNAP' would be awesome!!