Cheating is NEVER right, but if you both will work at it & want to make it work; you can make a comeback. Been there, done it.
Not all are the same.

cheating is a huge betrayal, but to not forgive can be a lonely angry road. it's best to forgive and then take a road that leads you to a better place.

I can forgive if someone cheats on me because I know I'm a smart guy, and I guess I can't hold it against someone if they wanna do well

Yep! Cheating is like robbing a bank. The 1st time makes a person near sick with fear, disgust and guilt, but it gets easier the next time, and even easier the time after that, and the time after that, and the time after that...

forgive... yes.

forget... NEVER.


but it really depends on the circumstances, how long you have been together, why it happened...

why it happened... ??? There is no excuse for cheating...none. If a person has a problem in a relationship that would "cause" cheating...he/she should end the relationship and move on.

I tried......but couldnt.........I cant forget and that kills everything.......so the best thing is.......if you cheat on me......there are no second chances!!

Yes I have forgiven, twice and now I am divorced. (Which I filed) Would I forgive again for someone else? I honestly don't think I could.

I did, I took him back, and he cheated on me again...with the same woman. So I highly doubt I could forgive again...even if it was a different man.

anyone cheats on me..im sicking my new baby pet turtle on him!!!
go get him Samm !!!!!!!!

Cheatin is cheatin
Why be with someone if your gonna cheat?
>>>>>>>>>>>Just dumb<<<<<<<<<<<<
WTF??????

a agree with you 1000000000000000000000000000000000000 %...cheating is a result of other problems usually.so until u even know those problems even exist,which some peeps dont even realize there is a problem., then try to fix them, and still be happy...between all that time...cheating has most likely already occured and can NEVER be taken back...
for me, just end it if u r not happy and hold onto the morals we all hope to have and keep.the damage to the person it has been done to, theyre irreparable.

I find the forgiving is not the issue .. not nearly as much as the forgetting

Kill them both.

Forgive, but not forget

i have said it before and i will say it again...NO NO NO NO NO!

some say forgive but dont forget...so i have question...can you truly forgive something like that that you have no forgotten ? cause in my eyes, if you havent forgotten that specific act of betrayal, you havent truly forgiven ....jmo..so to me, you can do neither, not truly....jmo again...


whatre ur thoughts on this ?

What's the point in forgiving. They did it in the first place because they didn't respect you. They did not care about you at all. So, there's nothing left to try again for.

no once the trust in a relationship is gone the relationship needs to end. period. end of story.

there are cheaters that cheat for selfish reasons I have found it hard to rehabilitate this type of cheater then there are circumstanceal cheaters that cheat that cheat because they cant deal with the circumstances there the wrong place at the wrong time cheaters with raging harmones and sometimes a little intoxicated who wake up and realize OMG what did I do cheaters.
there is the cheaters that are looking or need attention the vendictive cheaters there is usualy help for this type of cheater if both parties are willing and then more importantly is the definition of cheating any time some one or SOMETHING becomes more important even if only for a shore time can be concidered cheating kinda like brad pasley fishing song.
will start with that se what responce we get.