babe, id never do that to you...

nope , gave somone the 2nd chance.. and in that instance once a cheater always a cheater.

I know not everyone is the same and cant judge people for the past.

My exhusband thought he was a gift for many woman to behold... I forgave him 2 times but not the third.... And the next guy I dated cheated on me 1 time and that was it, never talked to him again. You can forgive but you will NEVER forget....

And STILL love as much as you did,,,,NO!!!

Can you forgive yes, but IT WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND.
And THAT makes it IN-PASSIBLE to any relationship.

Better to just say goodbye and move on...

Unless your NOT wanting a REAL relationship...

I can forgive but the relationship would be over~

exactly.The very first thing to do is forgive,one second later they get the big boot!

forgive? yes
forget? never!

People cheat for all sorts of reasons - probably as many reasons as there are people. Oftentimes, cheating is a symptom of a bigger problem in the relationship. When it happens, its usually not just because of the "moral or ethical failings" of one person, although it can be.

no, no way, nada, once a cheater always a cheater.

Some people have trouble seeing what is right in front of their eyes, unfortunately....

Could not forgive... Time to move on

No no no!..You get ONE chance..if you cheat you're gone!

If I loved her I would try to forgive, before saying the hell with it all and telling her to sod off.

Only after a few days of tormenting myself, you understand.

I don't cheat and a cheater has to hit the bricks!!!!

Never say never. It would depend on a lot of factors. I think I would be able to forgive, don't think I could forget.

Let's face it "Once a cheater, Always a cheater is a title that will brand you for life. If I am cheated on, there is no way in hell I would be able to erase this from my mind and stay with this person. If I was in a relationship and found out that this person cheated in the past that is another thing I would not be able to erase from my mind and stay with. I would always wonder therefore the trust factor is gone. The mind is not a chalkboard and we can't just simply erase things and act as if it's not going to effect you somehow/someway in the future. If your not happy in a relationship........Get Out and then do what you will. Cheating is a very hurtful act and if you care about the person you are with......Hello, you don't hurt them.

was in a relationship she cheated with her ex on me, then 6 months later she wanted me back she was with her ex so I told her until he knows what you want I cant it is disrespectful, we got back together for about 2-3 months she starts going off with him, then tells me she has to go away with her job for 5 days and guess who was with her, I gave her the chance to admit he was there with her but she denied it, what she did not know was her son called me and told me becuse he said it was not fair or right.

How can anyone move on from a relationship without forgiving? forgiveness doesn't mean letting the person back into your life or continuing the relationship; quite the contrary. Yes I have forgiven.

I forgive her and him I just want to distance myself from her now no more hearing her call and tell me she misses me or needs me, I cant go through all the pain again

Ya and what kind of woman would let some guy stick that in your food.