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Topic: Cheating....
sugarjen Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 2265	Wed 05/07/08 06:36 PM
No ...once a cheater...always a cheater Move on

Godschosengirl Joined Fri 09/07/07 Posts: 2491	Wed 05/07/08 06:38 PM
No ...once a cheater...always a cheater Move on AMEN, sister!!

justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Wed 05/07/08 06:45 PM
I have and I can. He cheated and I forgave, because that is what you do. I'm no innocent. I have not cheated on him, but I have done bad things. Who am I not to forgive and not be forgiven in return for the things I have done wrong to him.

Lbarrychevy Joined Sat 05/03/08 Posts: 19	Thu 05/08/08 05:31 AM
forgive yes, or try to. Stay together, no way. A relationship without trust is notheing. I tryed to forgive my ex but it didn't work. Just hope I can trust woman again.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 05/08/08 05:34 AM
no

smuflicker Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 4019	Thu 05/08/08 05:38 AM
nope! once a cheater, always a cheater!!! Not true.... I don't think that is true either

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Thu 05/08/08 05:41 AM
Cheating- can you forgive? forgive yes, trust no and will not give the cheater a second chance.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 05/08/08 05:45 AM
not true once a cheater always a cheater. I have forgiven before. It was HARD

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 05/08/08 08:25 AM
nope! once a cheater, always a cheater!!! Not true.... I don't think that is true either I don't think that is true either. See my previous post about my father.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Thu 05/08/08 10:52 AM
No and despite what people say you can't forget either

rush2001 Joined Thu 04/17/08 Posts: 2577	Thu 05/08/08 10:54 AM
It would be hard to forgive someone for cheating. I'm not sure that I would be a good enough person.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 05/08/08 10:58 AM Edited by hikerchick on Thu 05/08/08 11:35 AM
What a harsh crew. I guess not one of them has ever made a horrible, regrettable, mistake. Never. Not once. How very noble they all are. I wish I could be the same, but sadly I am human, and as such, I make mistakes.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 05/08/08 11:07 AM
What a harsh crew. I guess not one of them has ever made a horrible, regrettable, mistake. Never. Not once. How very nobel they all are. I wish I could be the same, but sadly I am human, and as such, I make mistakes. Hiker~ Not the whole crew. When I was 18, I cheated once. I learned my lesson then and never did it again.

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Thu 05/08/08 11:07 AM
NOPE

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Thu 05/08/08 11:08 AM
never

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 05/08/08 11:36 AM
What a harsh crew. I guess not one of them has ever made a horrible, regrettable, mistake. Never. Not once. How very nobel they all are. I wish I could be the same, but sadly I am human, and as such, I make mistakes. Hiker~ Not the whole crew. When I was 18, I cheated once. I learned my lesson then and never did it again. so you agree that "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a tad harsh?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 05/08/08 11:38 AM
What a harsh crew. I guess not one of them has ever made a horrible, regrettable, mistake. Never. Not once. How very nobel they all are. I wish I could be the same, but sadly I am human, and as such, I make mistakes. Hiker~ Not the whole crew. When I was 18, I cheated once. I learned my lesson then and never did it again. so you agree that "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a tad harsh? Oh yes, if you back in the thread I quoted someone who said that and replied, "Not true".

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 05/08/08 11:40 AM
Cheating- can you forgive? sure I can forgive just about anything, but wont ever stay in a relationship w/someone that cheats. I dont share well

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 05/08/08 11:45 AM
What a harsh crew. I guess not one of them has ever made a horrible, regrettable, mistake. Never. Not once. How very nobel they all are. I wish I could be the same, but sadly I am human, and as such, I make mistakes. Hiker~ Not the whole crew. When I was 18, I cheated once. I learned my lesson then and never did it again. so you agree that "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a tad harsh? Oh yes, if you back in the thread I quoted someone who said that and replied, "Not true". cool, so at least I am not alone in that. It just seems that everyone wants to judge people forever after on the basis of one stupid mistake..as if they themselves have never made one.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 05/08/08 11:46 AM
cool, so at least I am not alone in that. It just seems that everyone wants to judge people forever after on the basis of one stupid mistake..as if they themselves have never made one. I know.... but shhhh. They are trying to seem perfect as they are on a dating site. If they admit fallibility then the fascade comes crashing down and reality sets in.