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Topic: Cheating....
PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 05/08/08 06:59 PM


justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Thu 05/08/08 07:00 PM
HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats a disrespect to your relationship and to you!!! Once you loose respect you can never gain it back, so dont wanna hear I can forgive but not forget crap..thats dumb! "angry much"??? LOL!!!! Shut up before I let you have it I'm sure it'd be quick so not worried about it..

Kravynn Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 1513	Thu 05/08/08 07:00 PM
Forgive yes, forget no.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 05/08/08 07:00 PM
nope! once a cheater, always a cheater!!! thats what i beleive now let me tell you i learned the hard way

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 05/08/08 07:01 PM
That's because it isn't true. I really don't like the word, always I know what you mean Winx...I never say always, and always avoid using never too. Oh, I have learned to eat that word - never.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 05/08/08 07:02 PM
HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats a disrespect to your relationship and to you!!! Once you loose respect you can never gain it back, so dont wanna hear I can forgive but not forget crap..thats dumb! "angry much"??? LOL!!!! Shut up before I let you have it I'm sure it'd be quick so not worried about it..

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 05/08/08 07:03 PM
I think it's the person not really once and always.. but you don't really know and why stick around to find out... Betrayal is betrayal doing it again isn't the issue at the point..

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Thu 05/08/08 07:05 PM
NEVER, although I never would have gotten where I am today if he hadn't and I hadn't filed for divorce. Life is so much better for me, but I still havent forgiven him.

tearsofblood666 Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 7066	Thu 05/08/08 07:05 PM
i did but..

OneLastShot Joined Tue 04/29/08 Posts: 15039	Thu 05/08/08 07:06 PM
i did but..

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Thu 05/08/08 07:38 PM
HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats a disrespect to your relationship and to you!!! Once you loose respect you can never gain it back, so dont wanna hear I can forgive but not forget crap..thats dumb! "angry much"??? LOL!!!! Shut up before I let you have it I'm sure it'd be quick so not worried about it.. It would be LOL!!!!

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 05/08/08 07:38 PM
heh I knew that...

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Thu 05/08/08 07:39 PM
heh I knew that... You never gonna find out though!!!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 05/08/08 07:40 PM
Cheating- can you forgive? That or you could make them walk the plank.

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Thu 05/08/08 07:42 PM
I forgave twice but you never forget, and 3rd time it was past the point of ever being able to again. So no, I learned my lesson the hard way and not care to repeat.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Thu 05/08/08 08:13 PM
I don't know.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Thu 05/08/08 08:15 PM
Cheating- can you forgive? That would depend on how serious the cheater was about repenting. But -for the most part- no. In my experience, cheaters will go back to cheating in most cases.

dwayne576 Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 8	Fri 05/09/08 06:54 AM
i am glad this is a simple yes or no answer because i have some pretty strong feelings toward cheaters. no i would never put myself through that again and i would never cheat no matter what i know the hurt it cause's.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Fri 05/09/08 10:44 AM
Cheating- can you forgive? Sure. It doesn't mean the relationship will continue, however. Cheaters cheat.

joshyfox Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 4272	Fri 05/09/08 01:04 PM
I don't think I could, but it wouldn't come up because I decided My Vixen should have free-reign to do as she pleases. We are one but If I cannot provide what she needs I implore her to find help. Just so long as I am not forgotten in the process, then I don't have a problem.