no, never

cheating is badd, very very badd

Some people think it is not cheating if it is "only" online or by phone. Or, if they don't actually have physical contact. I disagree.

Yes, until cheating and opologizing becomes a broken record/bad habbit. Cheating is wrong, but there are a few unknown times when it's ok. But wether an agreement is to not cheat or or some other matter, it has to be kept.

Not just no but hell no!

cheating is bad for you..you can catch bad stuff..its just badd...


just say no.

Never , honey !.
Cheating is disgusting and filthy in the first degree .

Never , honey !.
Cheating is disgusting and filthy in the first degree .

I TRIED TO FORGIVE AND WORK THINGS OUT,AFTER 17YRS OF MARRIAGE IT WAS WORTH FIXING,SO I THOUGHT. WE HAD JUST GROWN TOO FAR APART.SAD THING. I REALLY LOVED HER WITH ALL MY SOUL

Me too.

yes I could forgive

I forgive freely


It would a learning lesson for the both of us. and yes the trust would still be there.

emotional cheating is far worse then just sex Imho. I'd rather have someone say they where drunk and horny then they fell for someone else.

After someone cheats, and you forgive them, you will always be suspecious. Even if they never cheat again, that problem will still be there for the rest of the relastionship. If it's physical, you question any time there with the opposite sex alone. If it's emotional, you question if they love you. One thing is for certin, they don't respect you.

i'll hop on and I have to agree with these two. I find that only cheaters themselves can forgive other cheaters. Sounds like there are a lot of good people in here, cause cheating is a very very bad thing.

Nope!!!

Or the other person; or themselves....

Ironically, I doubt many on these boards would actually admit to being a liar and cheat.

I've lied before to my first girlfriend, of course that was forever ago. I agree though, the type of people who would admit it, is the very thing that makes them the type of people who wouldn't cheat or lie. They both are dishonest.

The proof is whenever you confront someone about cheating or lieing they always deny it.

I always loved the saying a thief may deny it if you stole something from them, a liar will help you look for it. Or however that goes.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I would forgive them for my sake, but the relationship would be over on all levels.

Common belief is if you want to save the relationship, work at it and disclose all, stopping all contact with the lover. The relationship will never be the same, but it may be stronger in the end.

If you are not both invested in saving the relationship, there is no point in admitting it and it would only hurt your ex. Just be gone.

No!!!!!!!!!!!! End of conversation...end of relationship.........