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Tue 12/30/08 07:03 PM




shades Do you attract crazieswhat


I used to. Took some Taekwondo classes after that last one so the next time someone goes Norman Bates on me, I'll have a plan B.
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Tue 12/30/08 06:45 PM





What's happening to the board? Am I the only one that sees replies are screwed up?huh drinks


My bad. I was trying to take over the world and hit the wrong button. slaphead

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You've been trying to take over the world too?


After that 8th cup of coffee it seemed like a good idea. How are your world domination efforts going? bigsmile


It's a lot easier with military training. . . pitchfork


drinker

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Tue 12/30/08 06:40 PM



What's happening to the board? Am I the only one that sees replies are screwed up?huh drinks


My bad. I was trying to take over the world and hit the wrong button. slaphead

tongue2


You've been trying to take over the world too?


After that 8th cup of coffee it seemed like a good idea. How are your world domination efforts going? bigsmile

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Tue 12/30/08 06:37 PM

i did till i started asking these questions

1 do you have a job?
2 do you have a place to live ?
3 do you have a car?
4 do you have a valid drivers license?
5 have you ever been convicted of a felony?


drinker

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Tue 12/30/08 06:34 PM

What's happening to the board? Am I the only one that sees replies are screwed up?huh drinks


My bad. I was trying to take over the world and hit the wrong button. slaphead

tongue2

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Tue 12/30/08 06:20 PM

am i what they call a natural beauty or fake beauty?

i am in such a good mood right now! plus i know i'm hot hahhh:laughing:


You look just fine Sir. bigsmile








j/k!

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Tue 12/30/08 06:16 PM

smile2 How many chances will you give someone before you've had enough?smile2


2. Then I start kickin' a$$ & taking names. tongue2

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Tue 12/30/08 06:10 PM

I used to make my own oatmeal scrub for my face in high school. I was thinking about making some more homemade cosmetics with some recipes I found from different websites. Does anybody use homemade cosmetics regularly? Would I be able to substitute them for some of the expensive products in the stores without too much of a difference?


Ooh I love finding recipes for homemade masks & stuff! :banana: One ingredient that I try to always keep on hand is Rose Otto. Oh and lavender essential oil.

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Tue 12/30/08 03:29 PM

I think I found the best alternative to this whole delema.
OK, alot of relationships fail after some time, thats just a fact of life. My brother is on his 6th wife ! Yikes !
I tended to get bored with relationships in the past, and I think it's because we dove in before we really knew each other. The longest one lasted only 4 years.
I met my present GF, Maria, who lives in the Philippines, a little over one year ago. We have had our ups and downs, mostly because of the different cultures, but we constantly become closer and closer. Were still looking at 3 to 6 years minimum before we can get her here, but if we can remain loyal and faithful to each other by choice, because of our love for each other, we'll really have it made when we do finally get to live under the same roof together. Feel and smell is the only things we are not able to experience at this time, we got all the rest, and thats good enough for us right now. The game is always changing as we get to know each other better and better. Recently I had to stop using words like angle face, sweetie, hon, babe,a the like, when talking to other women, and i've been talking like that for years to strangers, but it makes her uncomfortable, so I told her those words are just pleasentrys, and it was no problem to stop using them for her. I was also going to try to find a local lady to go riding with me occassionally, and be just friends with, because my landlady /best friend Geni can't always go riding when I can, and riding is more fun with a partner, someone to talk to, but that idea bothers Maria, so I have decided to bag the idea totally. I love Maria, and I don't ever what her to worry. Instead, I put a stereo on my trike, and I not lonely out there anymore in the forset by myself. I got all my favorite artists ridin with me now !
I see married couples, and BF/GF's splitting up all the time, and I think it's because they didnt't know each other well enough before they did the horizontal bop, and then their sexual excitement fogged their judgment.
Blaw, what do I know, im just a stupid mechanic...
At 55, I love my LDR with Maria, and I wouldn't trade my sweetie for anyone i've ever met in person. When we finally get together, we will know each other like a book, and I think thats what makes a relationship work. If you know everything, and your still together, you probably have a great chance of staying together forever. I can wait for the sex, i've already had more than my share in the past, and it never did me any favors. Im saving myself for Maria now. And if im too old for sex then, there's always tv and board games. We need love more than anything smokin


Hey congratulations on finding someone nice! :banana:
Good luck to you & Maria. Thanks for sharing that.:smile:

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Tue 12/30/08 03:26 PM


Hey everyone. I'm new to this site and to the idea of online dating so it's safe to say that I'm not very good at it. I want to meet new people and have conversations with them however I'm not so sure what to put in a first message to get a reply.

What does everyone here do? What tips do you have to offer to help me and others who are having the same problems?


INTERCOURSE!!!

INTERCOURSE NOW!!!!

then again, like dubz, i remain on mingle...


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Tue 12/30/08 03:08 PM

most of my friends are in worse relationships than my marriage was. So when they ask..
I just say.....what ever do you mean....
I'm so lucky we had the sense to walk away......

then I say.....why do you stay...again?????

that sounds mean I know...but we doooo get tired of hearin it, and it does shut them up.



I like that! Think I'll keep that response handy too. happy Naw, it doesn't doesn't sound mean to me. Sounds just about right.pitchfork

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Tue 12/30/08 03:05 PM

What's wrong with me is I know what I want, I know what I DON'T want, and everybody wants to change my mind about it. Like it's any of their business.

Cardboard cutouts aren't known for their ability to think outside the box....seeing as how they're made from the same material AS the box....





It's really kind of presumptuous on their part to assume they know best on what would truly make you happy. Good for you for standing your ground. :smile:

Yeah, cardboard cutouts are boring. Plus I think they're more apt to either fall apart or burst into flames when you have sex with them. (depending on how fast you're going.) bigsmile :tongue: laugh

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Tue 12/30/08 02:57 PM

There is something wrong with me?shocked scared surprised laugh


No.flowerforyou
I was talking about a friend who seems to think there's something wrong with me for being single so long. Thought that'd make a good title for this thread since it was the first thing out her mouth. laugh

Have you experienced something like this with a friend or relative? flowerforyou

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Tue 12/30/08 02:49 PM
Edited by SweetnFunny on Tue 12/30/08 02:50 PM

If you were interested in getting serious with someone and had the opportunity to find out anything you wanted to know, would you do it? If you found out something bad about them or found out they weren't who they said they were, would you tell them how you found them out?

Do you wish you could have had the opportunity to do that with someone in your past, so you wouldn't have had to go through all the heartache you've been through now?

Would you feel it was an invasion of your privacy if someone did this to you?




I think I would. I got burned in the past by not asking enough questions, so I'd definitely want to know about anything that might negatively affect my finances or health before I get serious enough to change my name for him.
I'd certainly talk with him first, though, and encourage him to do the same if he has any questions about me & my past.
I think I'd only get offended if he did it behind my back.

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Tue 12/30/08 02:22 PM
I guess I'd just take it as flattery and let it go at that.

Now if they started humping my leg....we might have to talk about my comfort levels. :tongue:

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Tue 12/30/08 02:18 PM

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laugh flowerforyou

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Tue 12/30/08 02:16 PM

You could always say "My, my! You're so interested in my life when I should think you'd be busy with your own."


I'm gonna keep that response handy for the next time my friend brings this up. drinker

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Tue 12/30/08 02:14 PM


I find it amusing that the ones who ask this are the ones in a messed up relationship! Like they really got a lot of room to talk! noway



For some reason a few people who are in a relationship whether it is bad or not; feel a teeny tiny bit of superiority over people not in a relationship... ohwell

Most likely because their relationships are not perfect and they have a need to validate that they are still in a better place then their single counter parts... laugh

I have my own issues with trust and self doubt... but in the end I think I will be ok... one way or another... :smile:


Oh well said! :smile: I've noticed that attitude too in a couple of my married friends. I bet you're right on why. :smile:

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Tue 12/30/08 08:50 AM

if you you were from a family that had money and you were the so called "black sheep" say your sisters didnt like you and you had never lived up to "expectations" would you continue to be yourself or would you alter your self to get what you think you deserve???


Depends on what their expectations would be...
If they were pushing for me to go back to school, or better myself in some way then I'd have no problem with that.
If, however, they expected me to "keep up with the Jones" or join their country club (despite the costs) or something else equally unrealistic and ridiculous, I'd tell them off.

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Tue 12/30/08 08:39 AM

shopping with my mom...she still buys everything even though I tell her no...she says I love to buy you beautiful things


<--- Jealous!

Can I borrow your Mom the next time I go to the Mall of America?
bigsmile :tongue: