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To make your life easier
Edited by
SweetnFunny
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Sun 01/04/09 11:48 AM
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 What is something a man/woman can do to make your life easier?
A little understanding & kindness goes a long way.
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Agree, or Dis-agree
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Laugh; and the whole world laughs with you. (cry, and you cry alone--most of the time.)  YES,,,but,,,,,MASTURBATE and EVERYONE wants to WATCH!!!!!! 
 
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Do women have an ego??
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I do know a lot of men with ego's. But, what would you-all say about some women's ego?? Notice, i said some women>  Yes, there are women with ego's, and they are called *****es
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Desperately Seeking
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Lex, I think you are on to something. Nobody takes thing at face value anymore. I would like to know what some of these ladies are looking for with out the "try to figure out what I'm saying game" . Why does that need to be the way it is done. Not all are that way but it happens a lot. Well, it's pretty much an epidemic. Most people are so afraid of being perceived as "shallow" that they refuse to say anything other than the standard boilerplate PC drivel about "looks don't matter" and "what's important is on the inside" and "I just want someone decent." But if any of that was actually true, we would be having matches all over the place here. The reason we don't is because the people making these claims are being totally disingenuous. They really DON'T want someone without the looks, money, status, whatever, but it just isn't acceptable to say that -- so they pretend that they adhere to the PC agenda, but they don't talk to anybody except the ones who appeal to the covert "shallow" side of them. It's really just a failure on the part of some to be honest -- with themselves and with others. While I believe that what you say here has merit the problem is when there is someone out here that says what they mean and mean what they say. People are so jaded by the politically correct "Sheeple" that they don't give the honest ones a chance. I, myself have chosen to project what I am, and I will be authentic unto myself way before I will never cow down to someone and not be who I am. I have done that once and I lost myself I refuse to ever do that again. I have also always looked at what is inside. They have to be able to stimulate my mind, make me laugh, be my best friend before anything else is going to happen. I have dated the Trophy eye candy men and frankly they have to work a lot harder for me to even give them a second look. I know I have the last year not really paid attention to pictures on profiles. I pay attention to what a person says. When and if I am ready to meet then I request a webcam session so see who I am meeting. Some of my best dates have been with Shadow's that is one of things I like about Mingles you are allowed to use Avatars here. Sorry not a bash just my opinion. strange to be disagreeing with you I usually always agree with what you post Well said.
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Desperately Seeking
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You've been on this site a week and you're frustrated already? I'm thinking patience, networking, and developing friendships are not your strong suits.... Just a guess whatever happen to just asking someone on a date and they say yes....I guess now you have to network, submit a request, and wait for approval from the IRS? Don't forget to submit it in triplicate. 
Give it time. You'll find someone.
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What would you do...
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End of relationship. In my profession I don't date these three things Anyone that is involved with Drugs or booze. Anyone that has been charge and convicted of a D.V. Anyone that is a convicted felon. Those are absolute deal breakers for me I have no choice in the matter. A social drinker doesn't bother me, I like to have a glass now & then. But the others..yeah, I'm with you on those.
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What would you do...
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ive personally never smoked it, but have friends who do. its not something im interested in but feel that its thier buisness not mine. nobodys a perfect match, but if your 100% anti pot? then i guess your choice is clear for you :) talk it over with them first tho and let them know why! least thats my advice Good advice, thank you.
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What would you do...
Edited by
SweetnFunny
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Thu 01/01/09 07:55 PM
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I guess I'm just feeling kinda disappointed tonight and needed to vent a little.
I met a guy, I really liked him, and then found out that he enjoys doing something that I'm very much against. 
More than likely I'll be moving on. In the meantime, I've got the "What the Hell?" going on right now.
(edited to add: Thanks to all who've responded so far. I appreciate the input! It helps confirm the choice to move on. )
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What would you do...
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...if you've been dating someone who seems really great. Everything clicks, you've got a lot in common, have the same sense of humor, and you think you might be falling for this one.....
and then during a light-hearted conversation about favorite bands, they drop this bombshell.. "Oh I love listening to this band when I'm baked. Yeah..btw, I occasionally smoke a little pot. Just to help with the pain though." What the Hell??? 
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Debts
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If I am just dating the person, then no I don't think it is my business. Now if there is a relationship forming then I believe I have a right to know. I have worked hard to keep my credit in the high scores and well I would like to keep it there. Doubly agrees! |
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Debts
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So would anyone get involved with anyone who did not tell you that they had debts, that they were not making any payments? I would not, as that’s a lie and if there going to lie about that to you then what else are they going to lie about? but if they did tell you would you get involved with them ? This is a serious issue. It also becomes more of a problem the older you become. I think the best way to address this is to NOT rush into a financial commitment with a new man or woman. Keep your finances SEPARATE. "Thou shalt not combine resources or finances" Thats my newly invented commandment. There is no reason to make such a grievous error. If you're new mate is insisting that you share credit cards or bank accounts right away, thats a red flag. I have gold balls credit and the main reason I have this at 36 is I NEVER co-signed for a man on ANYTHING. Agrees! |
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Firsts of '09
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What was the first thing you ate, drank, watched, sang, etc. in 2009? Cheese & crackers, Electra red wine, didn't have the t.v. on...we were playing cards, Sang "I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts" along with everyone else at the table, Kissed my date at midnight, drank some more wine and kicked a$$ at texas hold'em. 
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im a mingler, who else is?
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 Cheers!
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Very important.
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Being reminded
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 Do you run away from things/activities/places that remind you of an ex-lover?
Do songs count? There are certain songs I don't like anymore, courtesy of an ex. |
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What does love mean to you?
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longhairbiker, you just went up several notches on the "Cool as Hell" meter.
I loved reading about your Grandmother and the things you do today because of what she taught you, thanks for sharing that!  
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If things are not going well
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 Is it acceptable to run away or slip off on a date if things aren't going well?
Nah, I'd suffer through the date, but wouldn't put myself through it a second time. Same here. |
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From a stranger or aquaintance, yes. From a loved one, no. They know me too well.
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Why is it
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Why is it that all the amazing guys you meet online live in another state? Like they are perfect and everything but the distance is a barrier between them? Oh gee Methinks most of them might be like Van Gogh paintings. From far away, they're stunning. But up close, they're a mess. 
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Ya hangin out with an ex BF .. 
YOU? Playing cards with friends and a guy I met on here. It'll be our 2nd "date". 
HAPPY NEW YEAR AND MAY YOUR YEAR BE FILLED WITH LOVE AND HAPPINESS You too!
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