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Sun 12/28/08 09:15 PM

:heart: Can a relationship survive if one person has 'fallen' out of love?:heart:


Love-wise, I don't see how it could. Remaining friends is an option, depending on the two people involved. :smile:

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Sun 12/28/08 08:59 PM
I'd probably watch a lot of porn and masturbate like a spider monkey.
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Sun 12/28/08 08:38 PM



I think so... Im not all that excited about sex anymore, but companionship is nice. I've always noticed that the desire for sex with a partner deminishes as time goes on, but the love is still there. Some people watch porn together so that doesn't happen to them. I say take the pressure off ladies ! Were not machines ! hahahaha !
Yes, older senior couples don't get it on much, at least I don't think they do. And they sure love the hell out of each other.


senoir couple most likely don't get it on due to physical limitations, doggy style is not an easy position to maintain! rofl rofl rofl


Maybe thats how some of them break their hips.


rofl rofl
*announcement on the PA at the nursing home*
"Man down in room 4! We have a man down in room 4!"
rofl rofl

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Sun 12/28/08 08:31 PM
Edited by SweetnFunny on Sun 12/28/08 08:32 PM

:heart: Have you ever loved someone from 'afar'?:heart:


Once in high school. I was too scared to ask him out.

(eta: And lost all coordination and grace whenever he was around. laugh )

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Sun 12/28/08 08:27 PM
I agree with what a lot of the others have posted already. Lying, that's a big one for me, too. Mental abuse...I want to add to that one and say if there's abuse of any kind - whether it's mental, physical, etc. - then it's time to get the hell out of that relationship asap.

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Sun 12/28/08 08:14 PM

:heart: Can you really be friends after being lovers?:heart:


Yes. Without a doubt. :smile:

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Sun 12/28/08 07:58 PM
The answer is 5.

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Sun 12/28/08 07:57 PM
I have a weakness for an alpha man in a uniform. Don't know what it is. Put a uniform on, walk like you own the town, and I melt.
Thank goodness I can ignore (suppress) that feeling or I'd probably be throwing my panties at the cute, local cop in our town like he was rock star. bigsmile

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Sun 12/28/08 07:45 PM
Once for me. I wouldn't mind getting married again if the right person came along. Hope they're patient, though. :smile: I'm gonna be very cautious before tying the knot a second time.

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Sun 12/28/08 07:38 PM

So, the sitcom "The Nanny" was playing in the background & I started thinking about what Fran Drescher's lover might hear..."Oh! Do me, do me, do me! Craaaaaaaap! I just broke a naaaaaaaail!" :laughing:

Do any voices or accents make you just want to pierce your eardrums with knitting needles...or is it just me?biggrin


It's not just you. :smile: I have a chatterbox relative who has a very nasally voice. After 10 minutes I want to leave the room.

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Wed 12/24/08 05:37 AM



Posted this in the sex thread. But since that doesn't show up, thought I would post it here, since I think it belongs here anyway....

As I was sitting in a hot bath before bed, a thought crossed my mind and I started to contemplate it and look at past relationships.

Which lead me to this question:

Does really fabulous sex get in the way of forming a lasting relationship?

You've know a guy for a little while, things are going really really great, and when you finally get to the point of sex it is completely fantastic. And as time goes by, you realize the guy has come to think of you in terms of sex rather than a girlfriend or a relationship.

I'm wondering this because I'm looking back and the better the sex, the shorter the relationship. The better the sex, the more the guy stops doing relationship things sooner. And only focuses on the sex.

The better the sex, the soon the guy decides to move on looking for the relationship they started, but with someone else.

And I'm not talking about jumping in bed with someone too soon either. I'm talking about when both of you have invested time in getting to know each other and are really starting something before throwing sex into the mix.

Is this just me or is there something to this idea?


Wow. You have been dealing with some really f*cked up dudes.

If the sex is THAT good, then a smart dude would make sure to KEEP doing the " relationship things ".


Exactly......and might I add that women view sex differently than men. If you have great mind blowing sex with your man, he views this as the greatest compliment and the greatest respect and love you can give him. A man will fall over himself taking care of you if he knows that you love and respect him. IMO, men view making love as you showing them how much you care. When a woman withholds this, it can be viewed as her not caring anymore.

That said, sex too quickly in a relationship can be disastrous. If you haven't had time to form that respect and caring for each other, the sex turns to gratification and nothing else.

Also, I don't believe that you can have "bad sex" with someone you love. Two mature adults can evolve a sexual relationship by sharing what they like and what feels good to them. Someone who's bad in the sack simply doesn't care enough to make it good, or just really needs some teaching!


Well said! drinker

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Wed 12/24/08 05:23 AM

flowerforyou In your opinion can a guy and a girl be best friends?flowerforyouWithout having any feelings for one another.:smile:


Absolutely! My best friend is a guy. There's no attraction, we view each other more like siblings.

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Wed 12/24/08 05:06 AM
Edited by SweetnFunny on Wed 12/24/08 05:07 AM

flowerforyou What role do you play in your family? (ie: the strong one, the smart one, the black sheep, the troubled one etc.)flowerforyou


Most times, I'm the advice column and babysitter they like to call on. Sometimes, though, I end up the black sheep for a short while. Especially when I don't want to take sides in the family drama. Don't know why the phrase, "Leave me out of it, I love you both." should piss them off so much..sad2

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Wed 12/24/08 04:52 AM

When you have to 911 cause it's stuck somewhere it shouldn't be


LOL, that made me think of the "Frank & Beans" scene in "There's Something about About Mary."
laugh tongue2

http://www.fancast.com/movies/Theres-Something-About-Mary/32757/681100975/Frank-and-Beans/videos

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Tue 12/23/08 10:23 PM

smile2 What should your significant other NEVER say to you no matter how frustrated or upset they are?smile2


"I used to be a woman."

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Tue 12/23/08 10:20 PM

:smile: Are you and your family close?:smile:


Not really...too much crap from the past getting in the way of how we interact today. As long as we stay away from certain topics, we're ok.



Oh, and as long as we don't feed Uncle Bob after midnight everyone lives to see another day. bigsmile

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Tue 12/23/08 10:16 PM

WTF i thought this online dating stuff would be cool...i thought i could get to meet locals in my area just for fun or for friendship but i have seriously sent 20+ emails to guys and girls in my city and NO ONE has replied. why do people bother to sign up if they wont reply? am i that ugly or boring to everyone that u cant even just say "hi" or "im not interested??" check out my profile, what am i doing wrong?


Give it time. :smile:

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Tue 12/23/08 10:14 PM

When I find out the handsome guy I'm flirting with has a vagina.grumble


rofl Yep, that would do it! rofl

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Tue 12/23/08 10:11 PM

I am still hung up on the porn and cup cakes....Oh MAmacita!!

But, the writing and drawing woman is definitely onto something too!

Hi Que! Miss ya Baby!


bigsmile LOL, I got that from the Jeff Dunham show...he's hilarious.
I've got to check in on the forum more often. Sorry it took me so long to respond. flowerforyou

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Thu 12/18/08 09:51 AM
Porn and cupcakes.

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