thank you Di, this is what I was wanting to know..
we do need a host site, it is allowed, but this site does not support direct uploads except to our profiles. thank you also bonnie,

if they confided in you, then you should honer their trust.
especially if it might hurt the ones they left behind. if you were to expose it.
if it weighs on you. then do your best to forgive the person and let it pass with them.

watched last blood last night..totaly different then the rambo movies we know.. I kinda would like to see a sequal on this new story line..
I also re watched man on fire .

sounds familier, dont think I've seen it yet though. thanks crystal

LOL. wearing a mask while driving alone, is. kinda like wearing a condom while alone in the shower. no? ;-)

when talking on related subjects. some times I like showing pictures, (like from a fishing trip, or a car show for example.)
to help share the event .. but I'm noticing theres not anything like that being shared by others. unless copied and pasted from the net.
I guess, I'm just wondering if it is because, rules prohibit it, or if the forums just dont support it..

that said, there is definitely some places on earth I would fear going to.
simply because, there are so many people that choose hatred, over understanding.
but even in that.. I believe there are people that would still welcome and protect me ..

some years back, I was in california and I guess took the wrong exit into inglewood,
pulled into a service station to check my map. not really paying attention to anything else.
I seen a shadow and looked up, and there was three big guys leaning against my car .
not doing anything , just leaning against it looking away.. so I rolled down my window to ask what was going on.
the guy closest to me answered, and said that he noticed I was from oregon and white. I then asked if that was a problem..
he replied YES, then explained there was bad feelings in the neighbor hood twards whites. because of a shooting. and they were there to make sure nothing happened to me. he then gave me directions to get me on the correct free way, and suggested I left the area as soon as possible.
if I would have reacted out of fear about those 3 guy's .. I may have found my self in a very bad situation.
but instead, I was directed to safety.

xeno- xenology the study of other races.. .. I believe there is only race of beings populating the earth. humans. so in that regard.. I dont have a fear of them. only their actions.
now.. if we are talking about the possibility of non Terran races. well, we have not been invaded or enslaved. so I'm not concerned..
LOL though, I might change my mind, if they abduct me and do experiments ;-)

in that case, I hope my perspective was of help.

I dont know if women/ girls get judged more easily .
I'ld say it is just differently then us males judge each other.
again just speaking from my point of view:

because I was all ways the new kid in school, I was all ways being challenged. to see how I would react. because, I was just trying to fit in.


but basically male or female, we were still judging and testing each other. by the standards of our piers.

the only 100% safe sex, is no sex.
barring that.. you should all ways use the proper safety equipment,( condoms spermacides, lubricants ect..).
and get regular screenings. both to protect your self, and others that you have been/will be with.

in todays culture I highly recommend abstaining. unless you and your partner can show proof, you have been medically cleared. even using protection.

LOL the good ol' high dear or high sweety, hi daddy(or momma).
I was getting a lot of them.

you can fix a lot of that with your personal messenger setting filters.
it limits / defines the people who can contact you.
so, you wont get as much of what I call spam mail / messages..

you can also do the same with your searches. so the people you view,
will be more likely be, the people you would not mind as much, if they contact you after words.
at least thats how I feel about it..
and theres also the unanswered/ delete and or block option. for those PM's, you really dont want to contact you.

dint the DeVille have self leveling air suspension??.. I cant remember. seams there was something about it , that made them ride like you were on a cloud.
my monty's have heavy duty sway bars..and wider tires. they can out corner a 73 nova on a clover leaf. for as long as they are, they are extremely well balanced

Ah.. should have guessed.. based on you referring to it as a car.. never owned a vette.. I like steel bodied cars, my self. my fox body T-bird is the lightest one I've ever owned. that was not an import. and it is extremely thin skinned. with too much plastic 302 w/ 8 port rail fuel injection. has the open hood scoop hood (like the turbo/super coupes had), and rear spoiler.
as I mentioned earlier, it's a pretty rare car.

LOL, aint that just yoga and polities with out clothes?? ;-)

though it's been a while.. I have never had the problem of falling asleep.. I like to play after.. and usually get chased out of bed or shower or...... LOL;-)
maybe.. I do fall asleep after just a few minuets of turning on any sports... they knock me right out. could that be related to this study??

the grey was different.. if you aint seen it. it is worth a look.
an oil crew in the alaskan out back is going home on rotation.. but their plane Iced up and crashes..

yeeesh.. found a tom hanks movie I dint like... am I the only one that had problems fallowing cloud atlas??. had to watch the terminal , and catch me if you can.. to recover from that one.

reading my account activity, of those who have viewed my profile and also liked me..
they are all at least 20-30 years younger than me, and/ or over 60 miles away..
so there must be a need for men seeking "teen agers" .. if so many younger women are looking for much older men, that live so far away from them. right??
even when those mens profiles state the women are under the age the men are looking for, and also out side the distance the men are willing to travel..

HMM.. a guy asked me a while back, for some advice. I suggested he might try to improve his appearance, comb his hair, get it cut, and try to look/be more possitive. would that count??

personally.. I dont even consider how other guy's look.
their attitude in how they treat others around them. is what I would actually notice. but that only interests me if I have to work around them, or if they are openly being jerks..
I'm comfortable with my self.
so the guy in the mirror(my reflection) is the only one I worry about how he looks. my job is to be the best me, I can be

I have noticed it is different with many women, because are taught from an early age to compare them selves to others. and it takes a lot of deprograming for some..to feel accepted for who they are, not who they should be.

of coarse I'm a guy...so my point of view is that of a man. and my own.