That I just coasted along thinking that things were meant to be instead of taking a more active role and saying-this isn't right. Should have called off the wedding right after doing the engaged encounter but didn't have the guts, strength or wisdom.

I'm a sept of the McLarens-not sure if they were high or low

I've got a 20 year old daughter that pretty much just sleeps at the house so I never see her and I just got divorced so I'm pretty much an empty nester.
I have been doing kung fu for a while so I keep busy with classes and work.
Also joined a adventure type dating group so they try to come up with activities for singles to meet other singles.
I'll confess that it is quiet and lonely the rest of the times though.

Doing rehearsals for a kung fu/tai chi performance on Monday

Bless you for the wonderful advice!
If I could only choose one of them-I would choose number 10.

I have a friend that I trust because he has been then through the good times and bad for me. In the bad times I can always count on him to be there for me.

To my best friend-Bette Midlers "wind beneath my wings"

I think that in a way they both used each other. You should never divcorce because of another person and assume that the grass is greener on the other side!
For her-she woke up and realized that she doesn't have to make a commitment and jump into the next fixed relationship. It is unfortunate that she promised to be in one with him-but it was the right decision for her.
For him-he needs to come to the same realization and open his horizons and spend some time healing and then move on to find the right person and not just one to comfort him through a divorce.

In life there are some things you can live with-a great person who is not your intellectual equal is one of them.

On the other hand someone that lies you-run! Trust in an incredibly important part of any relationship!

Don't try to second guess yourself or think about giving him another chance, you need to focus on the important parts and be firm!

Walk away and let the divorce finalize and tempers cool and emotions resolve (for everyone!)

I suspect you would very much regret what happens if you got involved with her right now!

If your still interested several months from now-maybe!!!!

I do still believe in them, try to have them and love to find other people that still have them too!

ziegfeld

winston

I must have gone into the wrong forum-I thought this was for jokes and not true life experiences!

Its one of my favorite names-gotta say David!
Dave is just too short of a name.

"They only need enough to live happily with a few extras."

Amen! Never sought to be rich, always been willing to work a little harder if I needed more in order to accomplish anything.

I have a friend that married a man that was ten years older than her-but she was 21 or 22 when she met him. They are still happily married after 25 years. I would say that she was the exception though. I see guys in their mid 30's persuing 17 year olds because women his age are "too immature". There is definitely something wrong in that particular scenario.

So in general I'd say 10 years younger-yes if they are mature and in their twenties's...

Good thing you let me know! I was planning this whole grand scheme to get your attention and interest!
I now know that my best laid plans will fail and I should seek greener pastures elsewhere. Thank you for the timely heads up!

RUN!
You would only ending up getting hurt in the long run and hating yourself.
But if you keep ending up in a similar situation you might need to stop and find out why?