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Sat 09/06/08 05:56 PM
I think it all depends on the approach that you took and what reason I had for turning you down. I'm fortunate in that I have never had to tell someone directly that "I'm just not interested in them". Typically there is something that stands out that I can use to let them down gently and not hurt their feelings.

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Sat 09/06/08 07:09 AM
Just kung fu classes and some errands...

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Fri 09/05/08 07:04 PM
Still working on plan D but nothing is happening yet!!!
Wrong bait?

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Fri 09/05/08 03:27 PM
Hmmmm, what did you do???
If I know the person well enough then I might question them about their post or presume that they were having a bad day. I don't think I'd let one bad post stop a friendship...

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Fri 09/05/08 03:24 PM
Welcome!
Hope you find someone wonderful here!
Or at least a lot of good friends along the way!

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Fri 09/05/08 03:14 PM
I'd like to be with one of my friends right now!

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Tue 09/02/08 04:49 PM
I'm trying!!!!!

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Mon 09/01/08 05:52 PM
That explains it!
I've only tried bringing food!

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Sun 08/31/08 06:39 PM
I think I'd be a Elf in the style of Tolkien.
One steeped in knowledge and lore.

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Sun 08/31/08 01:49 PM
Went to kung fu yesterday (several hours) and played a game on the computer.
Went to yoga today and then cooked for a friend and I.
Tomorrow is either hiking or projects....

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Sun 08/31/08 11:31 AM

A hero is someone that sacrifices something of him/her self for the good of someone else, without an expectation of tangible reward. A teacher can be a hero, so can a firefighter, and so can you. Just do something to make a difference.

Couldn't have said it better-so I won't even try..
It is great when you can meet a hero in everyday life!
They tend to be shining examples of how to live and function as constant reminders to help bring out the best in yourself!

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Sat 08/30/08 09:17 PM
Oh yes!!!

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Sat 08/30/08 10:45 AM
mmmm, black bean burrito!

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Thu 08/28/08 06:56 PM
In general I'd say stronger,
Unless they were with you and they had no self confidence previously... then they might feel so good that they go exploring other avenues.

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Thu 08/28/08 05:23 PM
I think I'm trying to forget my first car!
1971 VW bug!
But I do enjoy my '79 280ZX!

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Thu 08/28/08 05:20 PM
I like it!
Have to remember to do more of them!!!

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Thu 08/28/08 03:54 PM

I need a date too, but the trash etc was not exactly my idea of a great first date... I think I'll keep looking...

Just to clarify, I just read your "name", I am looking for a guy to date!

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Thu 08/28/08 03:52 PM
I need a date too, but the trash etc was not exactly my idea of a great first date... I think I'll keep looking...

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Tue 08/26/08 08:22 PM
I feel my best when I feel like I have contributed something useful or helped someone!

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Sun 08/24/08 11:06 AM


I think I've got a unique solution!
I am learning to be a vegetarian and I have a really good friend that is one also.
Every time I make a new dish I call him up and share!


That's nice.flowerforyou

I know what you mean though!
I wish he was interested in me instead of just hitting my house for take out food!
But at least its nice to share!