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Sat 07/05/08 03:54 PM
No-all the games happened during the marriage-they ended when the divorce started.
Then it was just get through it as quietly and quickly and cleanly as possible and move on!!!
There were one or two really tense moments but that was right before he moved out.
I think it crossed his mind that he didn't have to worry about hitting me because what would I do-divorce him??? That was already happening.
And no-he decided against that option.

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Sat 07/05/08 03:49 PM
Alaska sounds good for all of the reasons you gave!!

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Sat 07/05/08 08:16 AM
I think that I'd be afraid to open it at first.
Then I'd have to get myself in a serious mental framework to open it after promising to enjoy the rest of my life to the fullest.
Then after a while (weeks later) I'd open it.
Or I'd shred it at that point, but I couldn't take the suspense of second guessing my decision to not peek!

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Fri 07/04/08 06:11 PM
Scares the heck out of me!
Like you'll track me down and kill me if it doesn't work out between us....

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Fri 07/04/08 06:09 PM
Guess that is one thing I'm trying to recover from post-divorce

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Fri 07/04/08 09:13 AM
Anything that they put a lot of effort or thought into and made for me!

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Fri 07/04/08 09:08 AM
Yes!
Off on my adventures today with him.
Been then through the worst and best for me... and I try to do the same for him too!

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Fri 07/04/08 08:17 AM
partner

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Fri 07/04/08 08:13 AM
intelligence

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Fri 07/04/08 06:52 AM
Congratulations and best wishes.
We are all hoping for a happy ending to this story!!!
I think all the guys are going to start carrying scrunchies and hoping to meet women that need one now!

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Thu 07/03/08 12:48 PM
Star Trek Exhibition with a friend!

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Thu 07/03/08 12:39 PM
Nepal and Mt Everest!

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Wed 07/02/08 09:16 PM
Thanks for the evening of fun and hope all is well in your world!

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Wed 07/02/08 09:07 PM
Nothing-each person is unique and I can't lump the flaws of one person to the entire group!

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Wed 07/02/08 09:03 PM
I'll take a nice one in San Diego!!

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Wed 07/02/08 09:00 PM
Now I'm curious about all the questions...
Something up or are you just terribly bored this evening????

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Wed 07/02/08 08:55 PM
Never!
The rest of your life is too long to waste on the wrong person.

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Tue 07/01/08 08:20 PM
Maybe you had a really good one that you let slip away...?

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Tue 07/01/08 08:13 PM
I just realized that I never kicked one to the curb (unless you count a divorce)noway
If you count the divorce-No Regrets!

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Sat 06/28/08 06:01 PM
yes, except that he has been happily married all this time.
Ah well, at least I had good taste in men...