ok, a kid i grew up with had been married, i've been friends with both him and his wife for awhile. well recently they split and are getting a divorce, he is acting like a little kid and getting mad cause i'm still friends with his ex. so he band me from ever being his friend again *ridiculous! lol* and is acting very immature, well here's the problem, his ex now wants to meet up and be i guess what you would say (**** buddies). and i'm no longer friends with my buddy, and i dont think i could do that to him, but then again, she is very good looking and any other time i would get w/her. so i'm in a tough spot! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!?

walk away. nothing good will come from that.

screw her brains out..then pick them up off the floor...and put them into your head....it might help you "wise up"

Stay away from both of them!!! It sounds like a Jerry Springer episode!!!

what if she is using you to get back at him.......dont always think with the little head!

NO! You don't date a friends ex for ANY reason! That is just wrong!

Walk away and let the divorce finalize and tempers cool and emotions resolve (for everyone!)

I suspect you would very much regret what happens if you got involved with her right now!

If your still interested several months from now-maybe!!!!

ooohh.... noooooo.... i sense SERIOUS trouble on your horizen

I second that one...

You lost one friend because of this. DO NOT add to the grief by losing another friend.
She is rebounding and you are a safe catch....watch your back side!

choose the one that you will have the most fun with long-term.

Never never never never and did I say never? Date a friends ex. This is asking for trouble in a major way. And don't use your friends childish behavior as validation for doing something you said yourself you feel is wrong. Just because he is being a jerk doesn't mean you have to follow him to the bottom of the bungee jump.

You ought to keep her as a friend. She may be a little dense, wanting to stir things up like that. If you and her start screwing around, pretty soon no one will be friends. It will just be too damned complicated. Is a hot piece of ass worth losing a friendship? I am referring to you and she's friendship as your boyfriend seems to need time.

Yep, and if he's really your friend, he'll come around, and stop being childish.

I agree with the rest, stay away from her. If the sex was that good, he would have never left her. If you decide to do it with her, im sure you are going to be in some bitter situation with her soon. I would find another piece of good looking a*s ( I know you can do it)

ah, i know what ya'll are saying, and thats how i feel too, i'm just confused about it all and kinda just lookin for some advice. ugh! this is ridiculous lol

You can't be serious

ummmmm divorce is hard..and lotsa people get immature during and after the whole process.
I know i did.. and my ex still hasnt stopped being immature..


ever think about a trial seperation from both of them???

I think it an incredibly sexist stance to take, believing if any friendship should be salvaged, it is that of the guys.