fast hard and painfully

interesting way to put it but i would have to disagree.
i dont think it takes special skills to mold the two together it just takes time and i think that if a girl asked me that question i would probably give her a confused look. i respect most women the only ones i dont respect are those that lose my respect by asking me to be the father of their kids in the first 10 min of talking. they just plain scare me. i think that most men need the physical attachment before they can feel the emotional attachment. me personally i just want to know that someone wont pull away from me trying to hug them before i wil open up my feelings. its never bothered me when i hear bad things about ex's or girls because its just something that the girl is going through...
thats all ive got for now

lol

i thought so too thats why i put it up but i dont think very many people agree with you and me

here is some good advice for when a breakup happens i found it and thought id share

1. Ride Off Into The Sunset

In college I took a class called "American Western Movies". Give me a break, ok? It was summer session. But this class did teach me something. I learned I wanted to be a cowboy. They are so cool, collected, never play their hand, never look rattled, and they are always confident.

One thing they all did was ride off as the sun set on the horizon after their business was done.

Riding off into the sunset keeps our dignity. When a girl breaks up with me, I will say:

"OK, it was great getting to know you over the past (insert length of time).You take care."

My business is done.

Then, I will figuratively ride off into the sunset. I won't tell her how much I miss her. I won't tell her she made a mistake. I won't call, email or text. I won't mention her to mutual friends. I'll be gone from her life.

Suddenly, it will dawn on the girl that she is not getting her money's worth for this breakup. It is true: people who do the breaking up have an air of power to them. They like being the decision maker, and having the control. But after I walk away like it's no problem, she'll start to think:

"Wow, why isn't he shaken up over this? Did he even care that I broke up with him?"

Or even better, the ever-popular and coveted:

"Did I do the right thing breaking up with him?"

That's when you know you're in business.

2. Apply the Wizard of Oz Effect

Of course, most likely, we are in total pain and anguish after a break up. But, we can't let that show. Remember:

"Pay no mind to that man behind the curtain?"

We can, behind the curtain, cry, complain, yell, be angry, and hurt. But, we must craft the appearance on the outside of being fine with everything. We need to look happy on the outside to the other person 100% of the time we see them post-breakup.

This also gives the illusion that you might be seeing someone else, or that you've got other things going on. Of course you're miserable and there's NOTHING going on in your life, but they don't have to know it!


Make It Quick?

Make It Quick?

3. Enact the Verb in "Breaking Up"

Get rid of all evidence of them -- put it all in a closet, under your bed, or anywhere. I'm a sucker for a strand of hair or her shampoo smell left on a pillow after a girl is over. After the breakup, this must go: wash the sheets! Remember, in breaking up, to think of it like a guillotine: make it fast.

On a guillotine, you'd rather have a sharp blade slice your head right off than a blunt blade repeatedly cut and cut until your head finally fell off.

If it's a break up they want, make it clean for them. It will look good, and it will be easier on you. Flush them right out of your life immediately, and completely.

4. Don't Look Back

It's hard to accomplish this. We know not to look back, just like we know not to look down when someone says don't look down...but we still look down. But, make it easy on yourself: looking back and saying stuff like:

"Gosh, just two weeks ago,we were out to dinner and she stayed over here and we were so close..."

...will just make it more painful. You can't look back until it's time to look back when you're truly over it.

5. Remember You'll Get Over It

The best thing about breaking up is those following mornings you wake up after you've truly gotten over someone. You're renewed, alive, and ready to see what the world has to offer. Keep pushing through for this feeling, remember all those people you thought you'd never get over (you know you ended up getting over them), and as Jim Morrison once crooned: "break on through to the other side!"

Well I don't know about you, but after going through all that, I'm inspired to get dumped!

So, do you agree with these rules? Do you have any nightmare breakup stories? If a guy you dumped followed these rules, would you start reconsidering? Would you be annoyed if you dumped a guy and he didn't get upset?

best of luck to her and if he hits her again i think he needs to be hit with a truck.
<----or grab his head and do this

i just dont like seeing people get hurt

i would strongly suggest that she have someone with her just to be safe because the phone wont save her from getting hit

you should have her take someone with her so that she can get it all in one trip and so he cant hurt her again

what a prick were did she find a jerk like that?

thats easy many men just want to have sex so thats what they go for and they dont care for long term.
that doesnt fit me but it fits most of my guy friends

i may know a lot but i think thats from my life experience and i know i will make a good husband once i get a solid chance but thats not likely but im ok with that too im a good boy

the joke is allways on me

actually i get about 38 on the highway and about 28 on the backroads

i have a xB and i love my toaster

you have a good point and that was my joke.

going to make me rework my equations are you?
hmmm then ill have to study your new method muahahaha

i show mine off then i get dumped

if any men out there have questions ill be happy to answer them

lol newbie?
i think not but whatever
i still got my calculations right