Topic: Long Serious replies Please
SimplyElla's photo
Fri 08/22/08 02:54 PM
I Have been reading that.................




If you REALLY want to impress a man who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"


Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you....

Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "****", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you.... Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her.... This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good....

Too much physical contact, especially in public.....
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him....

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well....

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want... In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected....

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF....

Can I get a few opinions from the men here about this... Do you agree or disagree with this ....



flowers Thank you in ADVANCE for reading all of this... I greatly appreciate it...

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Fri 08/22/08 02:59 PM
When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.


AtrueOne's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:01 PM

I Have been reading that.................




If you REALLY want to impress a man who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"


Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you....

Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "****", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you.... Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her.... This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good....

Too much physical contact, especially in public.....
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him....

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well....

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want... In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected....

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF....

Can I get a few opinions from the men here about this... Do you agree or disagree with this ....



flowers Thank you in ADVANCE for reading all of this... I greatly appreciate it...


Yer very welcome...it is true we are more than just sex addicts....sometimes we are football addicts...other times we are TV addicts....the one thing you definitely don't want to ask is what we feel....cuz we are either hungry, thirsty or too busy to talk about what we feel.glasses

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Fri 08/22/08 03:01 PM

When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.


the only words that i saw was,"big tits."laugh :tongue:

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:02 PM
Your welcome!

short_stack's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:03 PM
Yes I agree with you bout this....Not all men are just out for sex...hard to believe i know....but most of us are trying to find that one woman who connects with us and makes us feel like we are the one.

bad mouthing past relationships...to get it off your chest is one thing.....to bash someone till theres no tomarrow is noot what we want to hear....because what are yall saying behind our backs?????

The biggest thing i know with me and my group of friends....its not sex....it's not money......it's not who has what or been through what....it's that connection that you make that no matter what happens....you're happy to be with that person....both of you are happy.

SimplyElla's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:06 PM

When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.




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Fri 08/22/08 03:08 PM
Sorry Ella flowerforyou

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Fri 08/22/08 03:09 PM


When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.




rant
I thought it was funnylaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

SimplyElla's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:10 PM

Yes I agree with you bout this....Not all men are just out for sex...hard to believe i know....but most of us are trying to find that one woman who connects with us and makes us feel like we are the one.

bad mouthing past relationships...to get it off your chest is one thing.....to bash someone till theres no tomarrow is noot what we want to hear....because what are yall saying behind our backs?????

The biggest thing i know with me and my group of friends....its not sex....it's not money......it's not who has what or been through what....it's that connection that you make that no matter what happens....you're happy to be with that person....both of you are happy.


I like that... thanks for your input

jtip1977's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:10 PM

When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.




laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 08/22/08 03:12 PM
Seriously, I agree with your post 100%. You nailed it! drinker

short_stack's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:14 PM


Yes I agree with you bout this....Not all men are just out for sex...hard to believe i know....but most of us are trying to find that one woman who connects with us and makes us feel like we are the one.

bad mouthing past relationships...to get it off your chest is one thing.....to bash someone till theres no tomarrow is noot what we want to hear....because what are yall saying behind our backs?????

The biggest thing i know with me and my group of friends....its not sex....it's not money......it's not who has what or been through what....it's that connection that you make that no matter what happens....you're happy to be with that person....both of you are happy.


I like that... thanks for your input



You're wellcome!

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Fri 08/22/08 03:15 PM

When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.


:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 08/22/08 03:15 PM

I Have been reading that.................




If you REALLY want to impress a man who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"


Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you....

Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "****", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you.... Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her.... This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good....

Too much physical contact, especially in public.....
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him....

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well....

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want... In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected....

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF....

Can I get a few opinions from the men here about this... Do you agree or disagree with this ....



flowers Thank you in ADVANCE for reading all of this... I greatly appreciate it...
Nicely done, also if someone keeps talking about there Ex it makes you wonder if they are truly over them yet. JMO

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Fri 08/22/08 03:17 PM



When I was 14 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time, and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things, and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 40 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground. I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am older and wiser and am looking for a girl with big tits.




rant
I thought it was funnylaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I think its funny too!!:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

SimplyElla's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:17 PM

Seriously, I agree with your post 100%. You nailed it! drinker


K, I forgive you... a little whoa

chriswantstocuddle's photo
Fri 08/22/08 03:21 PM

I Have been reading that.................




If you REALLY want to impress a man who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"


Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you....

Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "****", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you.... Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her.... This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good....

Too much physical contact, especially in public.....
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him....

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well....

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want... In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected....

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF....

Can I get a few opinions from the men here about this... Do you agree or disagree with this ....



flowers Thank you in ADVANCE for reading all of this... I greatly appreciate it...


interesting way to put it but i would have to disagree.
i dont think it takes special skills to mold the two together it just takes time and i think that if a girl asked me that question i would probably give her a confused look. i respect most women the only ones i dont respect are those that lose my respect by asking me to be the father of their kids in the first 10 min of talking. they just plain scare me. i think that most men need the physical attachment before they can feel the emotional attachment. me personally i just want to know that someone wont pull away from me trying to hug them before i wil open up my feelings. its never bothered me when i hear bad things about ex's or girls because its just something that the girl is going through...
thats all ive got for now

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Fri 08/22/08 03:27 PM
Edited by No1sLove on Fri 08/22/08 03:28 PM
I wholeheartedly agree with most of this...but exs, especially if they are sharing children together, are a part of their life and will need to be understood by the other party to some extent if the relationship is going to continue very far. They can't just be pushed out of daily life just because they are not a pleasant conversation to have. Talking about negative issues does not have to mean personally badmouthing the ex though.

There are way to many women out there with prettier faces and sexier bodies than me for me to allow that to get me flustered if he looks. I know what we have and it's not something a pretty face can disconnect so easily.

I like PDAs personally, but not overdone. If I feel like giving him a kiss on the street, I probably will. But I don't have to be folded up and put in his pocket either. laugh

I have never been with a man who was only driven by sex, so have no reason not to agree that they are not...in fact I think men can be more emotionally driven than women at times. They just don't always have to say it like we like to when the mood strikes. I used to catch my ex watching me set the dinner table and ask him what he was thinking...nothing. Yeah, right. :wink: I saw that look. laugh

I have hoped that sex might put some zing back into a relationship, but have never been under any delusion that it would create any emotional bond that is not already present. Anyone who thinks this, is looking in all the wrong places of all, if you ask me.

Did I cover everything? :tongue:


Great topic (((Ella)))flowerforyou and terrific insights too. happy