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Chris ... Just a hunch... which may be way off... but it sounds as though this girl has been pretty sheltered. Is it possible that her mom is fearful about your chosen profession...and the potential danger of it ... and is just wanting to protect her?

Okay, so you've been talking to each other for months and now started dating in person for a little over a week. I'm just throwing this out there but do you think it's possible that maybe, just maybe, she's decided that now that she's been with you in person, you're not what she really wanted and is getting her mother to do her dirty work of getting rid of you? Could this be a possibility?

I don't think you can expect an 18 year old girl to settle down anyway. She should be out with her friends; not hanging out with a boyfriend.

Listen sweetie, 1 thing Ive learned from relationships, if 2 people REALLY wanted to be 2gether, whether 1family hated the other, whether they were millions of miles apart, whether they would be outcastd for being 2gether, they wouldnt care if they really loved eath other, they would go against all odds even if in the end every1 else was right and they got broken hearted by their partner. It sounds like you are the only 1 fighting for this relationship if she gave up so quickly. Like I said b4 you guys are just too young for all this. Im 30 and I think Im too young to be in a relationship where I have to fight to be 2gether, but if I was really in love I would fight tooth and nail. Im sure its not that she doesnt care for you but I think deep down inside your GF might agree with her mom that she might be too young. If shes only 18 she just became legal and im sure she realizes she still have a lot of living to do. Ur nice looking just move on, if anything stay friends with her, give her somoe room and if you guys were meant 2 be she would come back to you.

let her go. you can't make someone want to be with you.

if she really decides she has to be with you
believe me, it will happen. if not, you cannot happily be with her.

Ok, what the hell does strange mean? Women do not like strange. Strike that!!!! Some women send love letters to Charlie Manson and use to send them to Jeffrey dullmer in prison...so very few like strange.
What I mean is some women like sexy strange but most do not like missing persons strange. If you like freaky Goth chicks and S&M that's your thing but this girl you like she no like so much strange ..me Thinks.

Because they want to find out if your a mental case that stalks women. Women try to read between our lines. Your response to their questions tells them "emotionally" if you are a danger.

Example:
Q. "why are you single?"

A. "Because My last girl friend wanted some space"

Woman mind:"I need space is code for : He might suck in bed so she started screwing some other guy or He must have done something to drive her away; like maybe emotionally smothering her etc.
See women have a series of seemingly innocent questions that they will casually drop into conversation to get a lock on who you might be (they are very good at this).
I don't know if you have ever taken a physiological exam or not but the test ask you the same questions over and over again in different ways to see if your lying. Most women do the same thing.

I would be extremely leery of a guy that got emotionally attached to my daughter in a week. Can you say "future stalker"?

But I wouldn't have to tell my daughter to stop seeing him because the instant attachment thing would creep her out and she would kick him to the curb.

It takes months to get to know someone long enough to really tell if you have a future together. YOu can't learn much in a week. It's just fantasy.

I DIDN'T SAY YOU WERE OBSESSING BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU GOT REALLY ATTACHED IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. If her mom wont talk then the hell with it all. Do yourself a favor and hang out with other girls. Go on a few dates my man..Keep it friendly. I know you will be thinking of her but try to enjoy the company of other ladies. If you do date around do not bring up this girl. Its disrespectful and it makes you look weak to women.

Look , if she was in to you like you are in to her she would find a way to see you. Sounds like she is using her mom as an excuse.
Do they have money and you don't-do you have a job? It could be a lot of things.
Hell just ask her mother why. Its best to get it out in the open. What ever the reason do not..I repeat do not obsess about this girl!!!!There are a lot of women in the world looking for good descent men ...just go to PLENTY OF FISH.COM and you will see.

Well, sounds like you've got your mind set on trying to keep it going, even though odds are against you.

Good lucks, I guess.

Is this young lady going to college, if so maybe the mother doesn't want her to get attached to you only to get heartbroken when she leaves for school.

I went through some what the same thing with my ex and her parents, we ended up getting married and 23 yrs later she walks out on me. BTW her parents think im TOPS and I miss them dearly.
Might be her mom thinks your rushing in to it, or your driving a Van

For 1.Seriously A WEEK, it takes me about a week to get a special cake order, can u really be that IN LOVE in a week? And 2.She's only 19, she needs to be dating and seeing whats out there not being in a committed relartionship, shes too young for that, especially still living with mom and dad. She should get a chance to be an adult, live on her own while single, not going from mom and dad house to living with a man. Too much too soon, but ur young too, u should be doing the same & that is the reason her mom doesnt want her dating u.

Good Luck.

Don't push it.

If you upset the mom, you'll likely upset her as well. Let it be her call.

mom is trying to protect her. when your still that young you don't know what your going to do or be in life.

yes this is something to think about here...I agree