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Topic: Ok guys out there...
SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:15 AM
Ok guys out there... This issue seems to be more prevalent about your sex then mine..

How or why would you date...become involved with a woman if you NEVER had any intention of really getting a serious relationship started with her?
Why waste your time? Now, by that I DON'T MEAN that things happen, and feelings change, etc...
But why become emotionally and physically involved with someone that you KNOW IN YOUR GUT, FROM THE START you will NOT STAY with???

Why do that?

I never understood this about men..

Jill298's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:16 AM
agreed. Please... do tell

DirkGently's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:16 AM
i was never into that. i rarely dated up until i met my ex at 24.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:16 AM
I have never done that in my life....lol

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:17 AM
YEAH, BUTTHEAD!!!

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:18 AM

i was never into that. i rarely dated up until i met my ex at 24.


You are killing me today, Dirk!! Poetry, and now you tell me this!!! MARRY ME!!! :tongue:

ziggyzogy's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:19 AM
Dedede.....duh....
to get u naked and find out if your good in bed..
sorry if this offends you but, its the truth .
although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!!

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:20 AM

Dedede.....duh....
to get u naked and find out if your good in bed..
sorry if this offends you but, its the truth .
although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!!



Huh, Hmm.. Thank you for your honest there Ziggy!!

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:21 AM

Dedede.....duh....
to get u naked and find out if your good in bed..
sorry if this offends you but, its the truth .
although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!!



You could just ask!! We've been known to want to get our needs taken care of, too, without attachment!! You may get a few slaps from some, but eventually, someone will just say, "SURE!". laugh laugh laugh

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:22 AM

Dedede.....duh....
to get u naked and find out if your good in bed..
sorry if this offends you but, its the truth .
although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!!



Thank you very much for imparting this little tidbit of information about yourself. :smile:

GhostDavis's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:22 AM
Bewcause men are shallow fools who base their self worth on the number of sexual conquest that they have had.


Sorry Guys....didn't mean to out ya'll

lilith401's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:23 AM

Dedede.....duh....
to get u naked and find out if your good in bed..
sorry if this offends you but, its the truth .
although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!!



Yep... and the better head you give the longer you stay around... or if you don't talk too much, or call too much. Being freaky counts extra too.

Thanks for being honest, guy.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM

Because men are shallow fools who base their self worth on the number of sexual conquest that they have had.


Sorry Guys....didn't mean to out ya'll



:thumbsup: Love it!! Thank You!

So sad and yet so true... wow..

ahuhalicious's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:25 AM
well maybe its that type of guy your attracted to not all guys are like that maybe up your standards or try dating someone you normally wouldent flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:27 AM

Bewcause men are shallow fools who base their self worth on the number of sexual conquest that they have had.


Sorry Guys....didn't mean to out ya'll


WOW!!!! I never KNEW that.

Holy sh*t!!! I haven't had enough " conquests " to be worth anything.

So THAT'S what the problem is!!!slaphead

BobbyJ's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:29 AM
I've never done that myself, but I know some some guys that do.

With some guys, it's the old "bird in the hand" deal. Guys sometimes will connect with a woman to occupy their time while awaiting what I'll term a "trade up". Sometimes their habit of "trading up" can involve several relationships until they meet "Ms. Perfect" for them.

With other guys that do this, it's fear of committment. They will not give of themselves completely because they fear that once they do, the relationship will end and they will be hurt again. This seems to be some sort of way to protect themselves.

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:33 AM

I've never done that myself, but I know some some guys that do.

With some guys, it's the old "bird in the hand" deal. Guys sometimes will connect with a woman to occupy their time while awaiting what I'll term a "trade up". Sometimes their habit of "trading up" can involve several relationships until they meet "Ms. Perfect" for them.

With other guys that do this, it's fear of committment. They will not give of themselves completely because they fear that once they do, the relationship will end and they will be hurt again. This seems to be some sort of way to protect themselves.



1st statement: basically the "grass is greener" syndrome.

2nd statement: You will never know if the relationship IS truly the one unless you do commit yourself 100%. If you're not going to give it your everything..why bother at all? That's not fair to women. (or men)

kboysmom's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:37 AM
laugh I love it! One honest guy!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:41 AM

laugh I love it! One honest guy!


Oh of course. The " honest guy " is the one that comes out and says that it's all about the sex.

What a crock of sh*t that is.

It may be true that for the majority of guys, it's all about getting laid. But that's not the case for all of us.

Once again, one guy says what most women think is true, so the guys that it doesn't apply to get the short end of the stick.

Wonderful.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 08/20/08 09:42 AM
Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship....

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