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Mon 06/22/09 12:12 AM





i had until i met bk12 on here she has given me a reason to keep trying.


Awww flowerforyou

But you're too young to have felt that yet anyway!
ur never to young or old to feel anything! we all have feelings, right or wrong there our feelings


Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuse me! Maybe the wrong choice of words, but I think you know what I meant?
i do just messing with you cause your pretty and you want to quit:smile: :wink: flowerforyou


thanks for the support littleike.


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Sun 06/21/09 07:38 PM
i had until i met bk12 on here she has given me a reason to keep trying.

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Thu 06/18/09 02:35 PM


lol i only freak out when someone answers my phone if im waiting for a buisness call otherwise i dont care lol i normally ask my gf to hold it for me since she has the purse.


I think that would fall into the category where it's not something new to your behavior. That's something that was pointed out earlier is that it's a sign when it's a change in someones normal behavior...

Unless the b@stards been cheating on you from the start laugh j/k



hahhahaha

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Thu 06/18/09 02:24 PM
love is a drug thats so highly addictive that it effects even the most cold hearted individuals

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Thu 06/18/09 02:22 PM
lol i only freak out when someone answers my phone if im waiting for a buisness call otherwise i dont care lol i normally ask my gf to hold it for me since she has the purse.

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Wed 06/17/09 01:17 PM










Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...


....and you will quickly gain a reputation as a doormat. True story.





agreed man i know the feeling im always like that and it doesnt help.
props to you for saying it first


Thanks, I think it has become something of a tradition around these parts!





yea unfortunately the nice guys finish last is too true for comfort eh?


It removes any incentive one might have been harboring to be, or to remain, a "nice guy," at any rate.

I liken it to walking down a street where a piano regularly falls on your head whenever you're there. At some point, you really need to find a new route.






yea how many times does it take before you change your ways?
you would think that after 8 tries i would give up the nice guy thing but i hate being mean oah well.
heres to being stuck single foreverdrinker


It took me a LOT of times -- more than I care to remember -- and I'll admit, I still have thoughts about what it would be like to find someone worthy of the sort of attention, etc., I could offer them.

But realistically, I know that won't happen. Times have changed. Women don't want an author -- they want a goat.




maybe they just want a ba-a-a-a-a-ad boy


it's not that we want a bad boy. we just don't kno what the hell we want.


hun i know what you want tho :wink:

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Wed 06/17/09 10:38 AM
yea its possible but it sucks when that happens

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Tue 06/16/09 06:20 PM








Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...


....and you will quickly gain a reputation as a doormat. True story.





agreed man i know the feeling im always like that and it doesnt help.
props to you for saying it first


Thanks, I think it has become something of a tradition around these parts!





yea unfortunately the nice guys finish last is too true for comfort eh?


It removes any incentive one might have been harboring to be, or to remain, a "nice guy," at any rate.

I liken it to walking down a street where a piano regularly falls on your head whenever you're there. At some point, you really need to find a new route.






yea how many times does it take before you change your ways?
you would think that after 8 tries i would give up the nice guy thing but i hate being mean oah well.
heres to being stuck single foreverdrinker


It took me a LOT of times -- more than I care to remember -- and I'll admit, I still have thoughts about what it would be like to find someone worthy of the sort of attention, etc., I could offer them.

But realistically, I know that won't happen. Times have changed. Women don't want an author -- they want a goat.




maybe they just want a ba-a-a-a-a-ad boy

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Tue 06/16/09 06:17 PM


if today was my last day i would try to make as many people happy as possible

flowerforyou Exactly. I see it everyday here on Mingle. Some people offer hugs, words or encouragement, laughter, and just plain entertainment. I don't think that they realize that those interactions could be someones lifeline.flowerforyou



thanks i try my best

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Tue 06/16/09 06:16 PM

yea unfortunately the nice guys finish last is too true for comfort eh?


Nope, I find that to just be a cop-out for whiners. You are responsible for your OWN actions. If you're a decent guy, then at least you have that knowledge of yourself. It's up to OTHERS to see that trait. You've lost nothing when you keep your self-respect and remain true to yourself.

In regards to all the rest of the OP (aside from the being hung up on part), I can agree with it.



it may be a copout but it seems to true but that doesnt mean that ill stop being nice just that ill be single forever drinker heres one for you toodrinker

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Tue 06/16/09 06:14 PM






Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...


....and you will quickly gain a reputation as a doormat. True story.





agreed man i know the feeling im always like that and it doesnt help.
props to you for saying it first


Thanks, I think it has become something of a tradition around these parts!





yea unfortunately the nice guys finish last is too true for comfort eh?


It removes any incentive one might have been harboring to be, or to remain, a "nice guy," at any rate.

I liken it to walking down a street where a piano regularly falls on your head whenever you're there. At some point, you really need to find a new route.






yea how many times does it take before you change your ways?
you would think that after 8 tries i would give up the nice guy thing but i hate being mean oah well.
heres to being stuck single foreverdrinker

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Tue 06/16/09 06:12 PM

Well, if y'all keep this attitude you will find yourselves remaining single. Just because some people, men and women, can be users, can take advantage of and not be grateful for their partners actions, does not mean that those actions don't "work". You, unfortunately "used" them on the wrong persons.


yea maybe but what else are we supposed to think when we have all tried and we see that all of us have had similar reactions?

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Tue 06/16/09 06:09 PM

Well he has already heard both the bad and the good as has she...they both accept this and just want to play things out because as time went on the long distance boy seems to have announced he can not handle the distance as well as he claimed so he might end it...Possible success on my part.

@Chris Forget about hiding nerdyness as it is very important to be honest with women any way....hence my cosplay pictures XD



lol im very open with people when they talk to me but it seems to sterotype me when im outed as a nerd and then noone taks to me

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Tue 06/16/09 06:07 PM
Edited by chriswantstocuddle on Tue 06/16/09 06:07 PM




Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...


....and you will quickly gain a reputation as a doormat. True story.





agreed man i know the feeling im always like that and it doesnt help.
props to you for saying it first


Thanks, I think it has become something of a tradition around these parts!





yea unfortunately the nice guys finish last is too true for comfort eh?

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Tue 06/16/09 06:03 PM


Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...


....and you will quickly gain a reputation as a doormat. True story.





agreed man i know the feeling im always like that and it doesnt help.
props to you for saying it first

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Tue 06/16/09 12:40 PM
if today was my last day i would try to make as many people happy as possible

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Mon 06/15/09 07:23 PM


jelousy is a nasty thing honey and it never makes sence

Thanks, now I'll stop trying to figure it out... I wonder if it'll give me gray hair...scared


if it gives you grey hair then you can change your hair to any color you want grey is easy to dye

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Mon 06/15/09 07:14 PM

xD Lady luck be kind!


ok youve been playing too much lunar 2 ronfar lol

ut oah i may have just outed myself as a nerd

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Mon 06/15/09 07:13 PM

My ex-girlfriend in 1980 told me this one.

I never meant for us to go this far into a relationship. I only wanted to be friends with you.

We were together for 8 months.


ouch i hate it when that happens

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Mon 06/15/09 07:09 PM



they pretty much just ignore me.


and I go on.


being ignored seems like the nicest way to be let down to me
it probs is


but it dont matter to me,I just go on,someone dont wanna be with me,I aint gonna try to change that.




sounds like you have a good way to look at it

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