Heya there sexy....I'm here!

I've still seen a few here and there :D

lol Don't pay attention to Etrain...he hasn't had his happy pills yet today *snugs etrain* You look like a cutie to me :D

lol by all means my dear...copy away!

that...or they're too shy to msg you. ;)

I usually just send them a msg that says something like:

"I see you see me...I see you too...maybe we should try talking as looking doesn't seem to accomplish a whole lot. lmao"

Or something equally silly and amusing...breaks the ice. :)

Disturbed - The Game

"Tell me exactly, what am I supposed to do.
Now that I have allowed you to beat me.
Do you think that we could play another game?
Maybe I could win this time."

I suppose it would depend on the person, and if you had been friends before you started dating or not...dunno. I know my brother got married after 3 months of dating....my parents got married after their 2nd date...have known a few other relationships that became marriage after just a couple months. So far...all of those are still good, solid marriages, but I don't think I'd recommend the speedy road to marriage to just anyone. lmao

mm...well...these days, it goes both ways. Sperm and egg donors.

But frankly...(having a sperm donor for my 3 children (same father for all of them)) I'd rather he just be completely out of the picture if he isn't going to go the 100% to be IN the picture. Even if he and I split, that doesn't mean he can't be a full time dad. I absolutely refuse for him to bounce in and out of their lives every few months whenever it's convient for him.

So. With that said...in some cases, I think it's best for the children involved that the sperm/egg donor just be gone...completely out of the picture if they arn't going to take care of their responsibilities and do what they're supposed to do. In the end...we're adults and we can deal with these things. But children can't. As the responsible parent that said, "omg! I have a duty to these little life forms I created and love" it's our job to look out for their well-being.

I hope mine stays gone...though last I heard he was back in jail.

Emotional for me...I tend to form those long before a physical attraction, and for me...the emotional becomes physical. Regardless of what the guys looks like. :)

Actually, I personally only have 2 or 3 threads on this board...and as this is a different question naturally it wouldn't be the same answers. And I wasn't asking for "different results" I was asking how someone would go about doing it. Such as with my friends...who weren't sure. And others on here who responded that they would give their testimony on why they believe what they believe and why the bible is so important to them before sharing scriptures that helped them learn that it was the right religion for them, and then of course the other responses



Again....I have only asked 2 or 3 questions. One, being this thread...and the other I know of off the top of my head being the one about billboards (which again...was pure curiousity) Honestly, I havn't seen those questions asked repeatedly, hence the reason I brought them up. I thought they were interesting and never imagined they would be taken in the directions they were. I can understand how answering the same questions over and over again would become tiring...however, as I personally havn't asked repeated questions of you I don't understand your anger at me personally. If there is already a thread that covers my question, rather than get angry with me for unintentionally re-asking something, why not just copy/paste the link to the existing thread for me? I apologize for my unknowningly adding to your frustration with everyone...but I assure you...it was unintentional. As to the "I don't believe it" part...again, these are mere questions of curiousity and intended on a general term. The same as I am repeatedly asked "Well...why don't you believe this?" or "What exactly do you believe?" and etc etc.



I hadn't intended it to be insulting? I was genuinely curious. And again, I didn't realize anyone had already asked this...or that it was silly. I was always taught "there is no such thing as a stupid question". And I'm not frustrated nor did I realize I was using "cop out excuses" to "disregard" anyone. Again...that was not my intention.



Apparently I misunderstood you, then. Because, from the way I interpreted what you were saying I didn't realize I was twisting anything. You're responses, by my personal interpretation, were very angry and sometimes borderline mean natured. If that was not the case then I apologize. It's easy to mis-read things when you can't hear the tone of voice with the words and you can only read the words. From what I was reading, you seemed to be furious with me and taking your frustrations out and misunderstanding what my original question was. I hadn't intended it to be stupid, petty, insulting or anything else beyond pure curiousity. As you've said on other threads..."Sometimes a person has to hear the word of god several times before it finally settles in" (paraphrasing naturally) To the fingerpointing issue you brought up...I wasn't trying to point fingers, persay, again...it was a misunderstanding and I felt that you were taking a lot of anger out on me and misunderstanding what I was saying. By what I had read, I wasn't pointing any fingers and hadn't done any of the things you were accusing me of. Obviously it was a misunderstanding on both parts and I apologize for any that was on my end.

Actually...the original question was purely generalized. I was curious how someone would approach someone like that (based off a previous conversation I had had with someone) and I'm in no way "making fun" of anyone or anything. It's a genuine question of curiosity. I personally never asked to "get" anything nor have anyone try to reveal anything to me specifically. This question came up from a discussion I had with one of my sisters (who claims no religion, like myself) and some friends (who are Baptist) who were having a civil and rather enjoyable conversation on the topic. They were reading us scriptures (all in good, fun loving fashion) while trying to prove a point they were trying to make. My sister had brought up the thing of "how would you convert people if you couldn't use your bible?" and everyone laughed, but it stumped our friends. I thought I would pose the same challenge here to see how others would do it. It saddens me to know you think me so cruel and close minded, even downright vicious as to make fun of other people's beliefs. All of my questions are purely based upon curiousity and a chance to learn something new. I re-read my posts before and after posting to make sure that my responses don't sound mean-hearted or spiteful because that's not my intention at all. I would never purposely hurt someone else. However, a lot of your posts seem to have that pure goal in mind. I'm sorry that you took a simple and innocent question and twisted it into a vicious monster with the intent of hurting you. That thought had never crossed my mind until you put it there.

Nono...I didn't say the trees were the entity...I was trying to use them as an example. Saying that whatever entity is out there is simply there. I didn't say the entity was the tree lol And I never said you didn't have the right to believe how you wanted to? I'll have to go back and very carefully re-read my posts....but as I recall, you were asking us questions and all I did was answer the questions from my point of view...I never never said you couldn't have your own point of view or that yours was wrong or inaccurate or that you were not entitled to it and had, under no choice whatsoever, had to believe my and only my way of thinking. I thought you were simply asking for people to answer a few questions from their opinion.




From my opinion...for me personally....not everyone...just me and only me am I speaking about right now...I don't believe there is a god - persay. So, by my personal feelings, I could not very well pray to something that doesn't exist (in my mind) than you could pray to anything else. Again. I have only been answering the questions from the understanding that you were curious about our own personal opinions and beliefs and were wanting us to answer from our personal view point. Apparently I was sadly mistaken and I apologize.

I was in no way trying to shove my personal view point of my belief on you...I was only explaining why I believe the way I believe the same as you explained why you believe what you believe in the beginning. It was obviously taken very wrong and that was never my intent. Again, I only thought we were discussing but that is most assuredly not the case...please accept my sincere apologies. I never, ever meant to make you feel as though I was trying to tell you that you were not entitled to feel/believe/worship in the way you wish.

erm....who exactly is being called a hypocrite? And as to what is "barf(ed) on these boards" I really think it's in the eye of the beholder as to whether it's trash or treasure.

lol It says a lot for my life...but those are the highlight of my day Just his reaction...he gets sooo happy about fart bubbles, and he'll try sooo hard to do it again. All so he can laugh and point and yell "Bubbles! Mama...bubbles!"

My 2 yr old does that! Then points, laughs hystarically and in between gasps of breath yells "Bubbles!"

I can't pay bills? oh. erm...let's see.

Would probably take my kids to 6 flags and the water park in Atlanta because they've never been...then hit up the zoo (for the same reason), when we got back into town I'd have to take them on a shopping spree. It would nice to walk in a store and tell them they can have anything they want and not look at it and go, "$20...uhm...let's maybe go look at the matchbox cars..they're only $1 and you could get 3!" Probably take them to Orlando to visit all the theme parks down there, basically give them memories they'll be able to keep with them the rest of their lives and a ton of pictures just in case. :D All the things I've always wanted to do for them but couldn't.

Who would have thought one of my posts could bring so many people together

Here's to everyone!!

lol yup! I love it when things can stay light and airy on the religious threads hehehe I'm rather enjoying it

Sadly, America (for the most part) is currently obsessed with obesity. Certainly I can see the medical reasons to wanting people to lose weight...but let's face it. Some people have medical issues that prevent it, or are just big boned, etc etc etc. My grandmother was a 400lb woman confined to a bed for most of my memory of her....but she was one of the sweetest women I ever knew. She and my grandfather had been married 53 years when she passed and (physically) were polar opposites. I've always stood by the opinion that it's not how a person looks...it truely is what's on the inside. Some of the greatest looking people can be complete asses, and some of the "not so" great looking people are the personality type every person truely dreams of. :)

I could barely keep up with one man...let alone 2! lol I have 3 kids...then I'd have 5 >.< The workaholic would always be at work...come home, drop clothes on the floor...shower...leave water on floor, towel on the bedroom floor and flop on the bed to go to sleep. (while leaving mess from his speed-by dinner in the kitchen)

The party husband would leave beer bottles scattered all over the house, several different outfits on the floor (from finding the right one to go out in) wet towel on the bed, water on the floor...a huuuge mess in the kitchen from having friends over to party with and would then crash wherever he fell out at.

The kids leave toys all over, blankets on the floor, trap the cat in rooms (wonderful messes to clean up from that one lmao) get into the food and leave crumbs everywhere lol And in between work husband asking me where his car keys, briefcase and cellphone was, the party husband asking me what my schedule looks like and can so-and-so come over, when am I going to the store for more beer and could I make him breakfast...the kids are screaming about toys and who had what first and when's breakfast and can they watch cartoons and she/he won't let me watch what I want to watch and "kitty kitty! kitty kit...ooowie!!! waaaah!" yup...I would run away. mmhmm lmfao