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brooke007's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:39 PM
how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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Queene123's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:40 PM
beer talking:tongue: laugh drinker

Alterego1961's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:40 PM
At least a year, probably two. :smile:

YourLove1's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:40 PM

how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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23 mins ? bigsmile

lgo's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:40 PM
a very.....long time.

Engraven_Image's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:41 PM

how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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A few minutes would be nice.ohwell

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:42 PM
I couldn't put a specific time on that. I'd at least have to be 100 percent sure about the way I felt. No Doubts whatsoever.

Scinn's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:42 PM
I suppose it would depend on the person, and if you had been friends before you started dating or not...dunno. I know my brother got married after 3 months of dating....my parents got married after their 2nd date...have known a few other relationships that became marriage after just a couple months. So far...all of those are still good, solid marriages, but I don't think I'd recommend the speedy road to marriage to just anyone. lmao

Peccy's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:48 PM
Me love you long time, get married not part of deal!

Peccy's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:48 PM

I couldn't put a specific time on that. I'd at least have to be 100 percent sure about the way I felt. No Doubts whatsoever.
what she said!

TheShadow's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:50 PM

how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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At least 5 years:smile:

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:53 PM
My parents dated for 4 years before they got married and are divorced. I have recently been told a story about a couple who got married after 6 weeks and they have been married for 51 years. happy Who knows...if it's right it really doesn't matter it seems. flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:55 PM
Until I say so!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

brooke007's photo
Sat 06/21/08 11:58 PM
woooooow...noway noway noway
from minutes to 5 years....
thats a huge differance..

im leaning towards maybe 1-6 mths that would be enough time to know it would work and you would be happy.

invistatech's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:05 AM
Is the measurement of time is really a variable? If so, how long does it take you to fall in love? Then you would have to be in love fo X amount of time before you will get married?

I have never been married but I assume that my partner and I would know when it was right. Wether it was 1 or 10 years...IMHO

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:19 AM

how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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At least 4 seasons. After that, I'd more than likely know their winter of discontent, the joy of spring, the thunderstorms of summer, and the wild colors of autumn. I don't plan on marrying again unless we're together for at least that long, but you never know, I could have another relapse and fall in that familiar mentally ill condition known by many who claim to be sane, as falling in love, at which point, all rhyme and reason vanishes. laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:21 AM

I couldn't put a specific time on that. I'd at least have to be 100 percent sure about the way I felt. No Doubts whatsoever.


I didn't have a single doubt... Last time. I learned something new to check for in the process, and most of the marriage was good, but not enough for an 'until one of us dies' marriage.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:22 AM

woooooow...noway noway noway
from minutes to 5 years....
thats a huge differance..

im leaning towards maybe 1-6 mths that would be enough time to know it would work and you would be happy.



Lean past 6, really. You have a kid that diserves the stability, even if you think you don't.

brooke007's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:22 AM


how long would u want to know somebody BEFORE you got married???

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At least 4 seasons. After that, I'd more than likely know their winter of discontent, the joy of spring, the thunderstorms of summer, and the wild colors of autumn. I don't plan on marrying again unless we're together for at least that long, but you never know, I could have another relapse and fall in that familiar mentally ill condition known by many who claim to be sane, as falling in love, at which point, all rhyme and reason vanishes. laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


four seasons...thats what my friends aunt told me..
it takes BEING with somebody four seasons to truly love them

brooke007's photo
Sun 06/22/08 12:23 AM


woooooow...noway noway noway
from minutes to 5 years....
thats a huge differance..

im leaning towards maybe 1-6 mths that would be enough time to know it would work and you would be happy.



Lean past 6, really. You have a kid that diserves the stability, even if you think you don't.


heck i dont even have a boyfriend..im just asking nosy questionslaugh laugh laugh

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