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Fri 10/14/11 09:49 PM
Edited by ybcat1 on Fri 10/14/11 09:51 PM

Thanks, to all ya'll. Even KC.

I agree. If, I like/love who I am, no amount of what others think of me, will have an effect.

Sometimes, it helps to be acknowledged as "perfect just as I am".

I read this thing today and didn't get analytical(sp).

I went with how it made me feel and passed it on hoping, if there was some woman out there who hasn't been validated in a long long while and it touched their soul, then, great.

It did it's job.


I could say a lot about being heavy, because I am myself. No one could know what it feels like unless you have been there. I like the post. Not everyone is strong, but whenever you can support in a positive way I think that's great.


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Fri 10/14/11 10:54 AM
Wow, I agree, you have been busy. You've been searching for 3 years now and haven't found the right woman. Some of us women have been searching for more than 3 years for guys who fianlly step up to the plate and be real men who are willing and ready to be in committed relationships. You quit to easily.

In all those relationships I wonder if any of those women really were into you and wanted a long term committment with you. How many hearts did you break? I'd hate to be in a relationship with a man, caring about him and loving him, not knowing that all the while he was just playing me. He was just there for the fun. Quitters never win, and winners never quit. Keep searching, she out there.

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Fri 10/14/11 10:25 AM
I asked one of my male co-workers this question, and his answer was there is no one general anwser that one can say ok all men fear this one thing. Like women men can have many fears depending on what the situation is at the time. His first thought was losing his kids, that's what he feared most at the time I asked him. They may not always show it because men are suppose to be and looked at as being the stronger sex, but still they are human just like us. Don't you just love, em? love love love

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Thu 10/13/11 08:43 AM
Edited by ybcat1 on Thu 10/13/11 08:48 AM
“Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive”

http://www.myfoxboston.com/dpp/news/local/man-allegedly-scams-women-out-of-200000-20110817#ixzz1VK4JCZNJ







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Wed 10/12/11 08:43 PM

Can your right hand whisper softly in your ear all the good things you want to hear?


Good one! :thumbsup:

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Wed 10/12/11 10:08 AM
I'm still single, but are some guys on this thread that make me wish I were taken by them. tongue2

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Tue 10/11/11 11:25 PM
I love his whole CD, but this one most of all. He's so dang cute too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBsv3ED3W3s

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Mon 10/10/11 02:52 PM

I'm sorry hotbtm4i64 but thats not bragging and I would not tell anyone that you never pay. Thats just shows that you are a moocher off woman.



I think he's messing with us. laugh




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Mon 10/10/11 02:39 PM

Get club, hit on head, drag to cave.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl I'm weak!

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Mon 10/10/11 09:32 AM

You morons....

You are all supposed to be arguing about who wants to have sex with me....

Jeezus...




drool drool drool drool drool drool drool

Just kidding, I play around a lot. laugh

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Mon 10/10/11 09:28 AM

Are you one of the few who really know your trajectory in life? How do you feel about it?

Sometimes you have to take a deep breath, let EVERYTHING go, and regroup to start over.


I am satisfied...


Trajectory? huh Wait a minute let me google the meaning first, then I'll tell you where it's located.

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Mon 10/10/11 09:19 AM


Sometimes I wonder if the profiles on this site (particularly the female profiles) are even real.....

Generally speaking, lack of response or no initiation at all is an indication of such things...but that's just me.

I used to use the internet A LOT for online dating...and it used to work very well during the initial phases of the internet coming online...now it's all business.


Says the guy who blocked out his face in his picture. If you can't be real with people, how can you expect others to be real with you?


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 10/10/11 09:15 AM

Hey guys thanks for your thoughts on the topic, great stuff!

Also just a quick thankyou to the lovely lady (I won't mention your name here) that sent me my first Mail.. woo hoo!!! Proud to say im officially no longer a mail virgin lol

Keep em coming please..

:)


Hey TonyTC I just sent you an email. happy

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Sun 10/09/11 10:54 PM
I bet you'll switch to Motrin now uh? :smile:

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Sun 10/09/11 10:00 AM

Is it really important to have a partner with good face, sexy body, wealthy, and excellent education to make a person happy? Sometimes we miss happiness by looking too far. What is important to you? Please answer me. Thank you, kindly. :smile:


I don't have to have a man who looks like he came out of a GQ magazine. For me, it's all about what kind of person they are. I would rather be and can be happy with a guy who is kind, honest, share the same values that I do, than be with a guy who has great looks and a sexy body, but is insensitive. I know people who choose who they date solely on what a person looks like and what they have, doesn't always means they will be happy. Each person sets their own priorities and they have to live with them.

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Sun 10/09/11 01:01 AM

There are a few, but I'm currently emailing back and forth with one in particular so we'll see how this goes. :wink:


I hope it goes well, I love hearing about love connections.

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Sun 10/09/11 12:58 AM


i would just keep going and act like i didnt notice him unless he said something... if he decided to initiate contact, i would smile, be pleasant, and be BRIEF and be on my way...


Wise girl!


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Sun 10/09/11 12:53 AM

Yeah. Phuck all you mutherphuckers who hate on everything....which goes double for those of you who hated on the 8 track player. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!


laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 10/08/11 01:00 PM
All my life I have been sensitive about my weight, struggled with it and hide behind it. Been my worst critic about my looks. Well I just want to say thank you to all the Haters (and you know who you are ) old and new who have come on Mingles and have made negative statements about the women on this site. About our looks and sizes in threads.

There are many beautiful and bright women here who have a lot of love. Many women on here who are a great caught! I of whom am one, thank you very much. So thanks to the haters who had given me a new attitude. :banana: :banana: :banana:

Mingle women Rock!!!!!!!!:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


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Sat 10/08/11 12:37 PM


Some spookky lookin' women here!!!



noway huh huh


Don't you just love when they come on here and bash the women?

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