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Fri 02/03/12 10:47 PM

I don't like anything about me at this point of my life.


If you have ever touched someone's life in a positive way then you have something about yourself to like. You have a beautiful smile too.

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Fri 02/03/12 10:41 PM

I'm going to go out on a limb here.....

I'm going to (just assume) that we all have tried to look at ourselves, "from the outside, looking in".

What do you like?

(please move topic as fit mods :-p)


I like my personality. I'm kinda quiet, a good listener, I also like to talk. I'm a morning person, and I like singing all the time. I think my best features are my lips, I think they're cute. laugh

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Fri 02/03/12 03:40 PM

I think I have given up & I am not sure how I feel about it.
I was married for many years. Divorced, than had a HORRIBLE relationship with a man for 4 years (held on with all my might so afraid to be alone)...then dated one more guy for a few months and it just didn't work out.
So now I am on my own....kind of enjoying the peace and quiet. "One less egg to fry" if you know what I mean. No Drama, no wondering, no worries other than my own personal ones.

I feel like I have been freed from myself in the sense that I always wanted "the one"...But for now I feel good being alone.

I still have the worry about growing old alone, and wonder if this feeling of peace will be broken one day with that lonely pang many of us know all too well.

Just looking for some feedback,are you happy being alone?




I am happy. The only thing that sucks is when I want my physical needs met, and I got no man. tears tears tears

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Thu 02/02/12 11:17 PM


Ugh... that's not a bright move.
Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that
you know now.... only older.
jmho
at least they wont cheat or give me hard times!


I know a guy who's 55, on his third marriage and cheating now. I feel so sorry for the third wife, me and the second one could have told her, but I don't interfere in other people's lives. smile2

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Sun 01/29/12 07:53 PM
The only problem I have is with certain people who feel the need to challenge others points of view. @ Kat1974, I can understand the discrimination you've endured, after all I'm a woman of color. Not saying you do this, but straight people get bashed and looked at as being haters against gays when they believe differently and voice it.

I have nothing against gays. If I did, I would start with my sister first and other family members in my family who are gay, and that ain't happening. I love my sister, respect her decision to live her life as she chooses and I'm thankful she respects my beliefs as well. Respect goes both ways. Sometimes I just need to ignore those who challenge others in the forums, and mind my business. happy Nice to know you Kat as apart of the forum. :smile:

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Sun 01/29/12 03:39 PM
How do you add testimonials to someone's profile?

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Sun 01/29/12 03:28 PM
For some reason I always check out a guys nails. I don't like long, dirty nails on men. Other things would have to be bad breath, unclean clothes, and body odor.

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Sun 01/29/12 03:28 PM
For some reason I always check out a guys nails. I don't like long, dirty nails on men. Other things would have to be bad breath, unclean clothes, and body odor.

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Sun 01/29/12 03:24 PM

I'm sorry but overweight is a big turn off for me. I have short arms and I need someone that I can get my arms around.



laugh laugh

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Sun 01/29/12 03:01 PM
Edited by ybcat1 on Sun 01/29/12 03:02 PM

So I'm meeting my ex tonight but this time we're going out to dinner. Something we didn't get around to doing last time. I know we're not going there but I can't help but think this might sound like a date. I guess I am agreeing to meet him at this restaurant tonight. Last time we saw each other it was so short, but it was fun, you know, no pressure at least of getting dolled up or what have when you go out in public.

But I find myself getting ready for it as I would a date. Is this weird?



Doesn't sound weird to me. You want to look your best, and it sounds like a date to me. Hope you by the time you read these you had a good time. :smile:

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Sun 01/29/12 02:04 AM




Men like flexibility, don't they?

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Sat 01/28/12 12:59 AM
Some people just can't stand when you have your own values in life and think you should just accept anything and everything that goes on in the world. I think everyone by now knows someone who is gay, or have a family member who is gay. My sister is gay, I respect her choice to live her life, and she respects my Christian values and we leave it at that. I love her and I don't past judgement on her, nor anyone else who is gay.

But I have found that many gay people I know in the work place get very upset when you don't accept their way of life, and or think your homophobic, or you are anti-gay cause you don't want to party with them. That's my experience. I don't care who you're sexin, that's your business, but please don't always think that because a person doesn't want to get to know a gay person that something wrong with them. I've never seen an attack on gays in the forum, so why the OP as you guys call them brought up the subject I don't understand.

Please don't reply to this to try and make me understand, cause there's one person in the forum who always, and I mean always has to challenge someone's thoughts on a topic.


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Thu 01/26/12 10:50 PM
Ain't got nothing against you. But let me say I'm proud too.



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Wed 01/25/12 11:27 PM


Will you clean my house if I put on a tutu and heels?


I would LOVE to see that. LOL.


Me too, oh and how bout some black net stockings and a sexy top. drool

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Tue 01/24/12 10:10 PM
Thinking that there are a lot of cute guys in my area, why don't they ever join the forum?

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Mon 01/23/12 11:02 PM

Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


I just got out of a relationship just like that. Love him very much but it wasn't meant to be. But I learned a lot from him, and will always be grateful he came into my life.

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Sat 01/21/12 04:03 PM

I knew a guy that use to walk up to complete strangers at a local beach bar and simply ask, " Want to F...?". Needless to say he got slapped across the face about 10 times a night. The surprising part is he left with someone about half the nights he went there. noway


Hope he and the other person used protection. Random strangers, wow.

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Sat 01/21/12 04:00 PM
Good responses everyone, I was just looking at the negative side of it. I forgot there's a positive side of meeting someone new, having fun making a new friend. Just when you're looking for boyfriend material and a mate learning that other persons ways and them learning yours is something I hate. Thanks for the feedback everyone.

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Sat 01/21/12 03:45 PM
A candlelight dinner.

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Sat 01/21/12 03:42 PM

I met this guy for the first time at a nice family resturant. Kids running around, and as the waitress was walking to our table to take our order he asked me, " Can I crawl under the table and lick your Cl!t?" I got up and left. Can't make this stuff up folks.



OMG, (mouth wide open)

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