All my life I have been sensitive about my weight, struggled with it and hide behind it. Been my worst critic about my looks. Well I just want to say thank you to all the Haters (and you know who you are ) old and new who have come on Mingles and have made negative statements about the women on this site. About our looks and sizes in threads.

There are many beautiful and bright women here who have a lot of love. Many women on here who are a great caught! I of whom am one, thank you very much. So thanks to the haters who had given me a new attitude.

Mingle women Rock!!!!!!!!

Don't worry, haters' hate, even when they find their skinny "dreamgirl" they won't take long to find something they hate about her too.

Here's to hoping everyone starts loving themselves more and more and starts hating others less and less.

I hate haters!

I would love to grab em by the neck and give them the beating that thier worthless, piece of schitt, failures of parents never did.

Cause I believe in peace and love.

Don't make me feel left out...if you are gonna make time for the haters...then you gotta make time for the lovers too Baby.

I never did no such thing.

ybcat1
You tell them girl.
Haters just don't understand what its like to battle with "imperfections". In the long run we are stronger than they are because of it, so in the end its their loss for not wanting to know us. They are the ones that are the losers!

Oh and Krupa we do appreciate and love you for your understanding.

thanks for saying what we have all been thinking, girl!

Yeah. Phuck all you mutherphuckers who hate on everything....which goes double for those of you who hated on the 8 track player. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!

Ive struggled with my weight my whole life and Ive encountered my fair share of haters. It took me along time to realise that its not me they hate . . . its themselves. I feel sorry for people who are too shallow to look past the wrapping . . . they just might like what the find if they did.

Personally, I could care less what someone's opinion of my weight is. I am who and I am and if a guy thinks I am overweight; then he is free to find a thinner woman. I stopped worrying about that crap years ago.

There are always going to be threads made by people whining about fat girls. But, there are also always going to me men who aren't so picky about weight. Be confident in yourself and you'll find those who aren't so worried about weight.

A thick girl who loves herself is way more attractive than an insecure skinny girl whose always seeking validation.

you're welcome.

finally some appreciation.


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I always figure if someone is so ignorant and self-righteous that they have to run their mouth about what THEY percieve as imperfections in others; especially weight; then they are just making it easy for me to winnow the wheat from the chaff.

Been more than one that was deleted from a favorites list when I saw them showing their real charaters in forums on various sites.

When they fall on thier own sword I just add them to my Frog Prince Association List=blocked and I no longer have to deal with them.

Something I might add I did to the same kind of jerks that fell all over themselves in the early years when I had the "brick house". Funny how they are still the same old sad lonely hound dogs year after year after year.