Topic: What do you really need to be happy?
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Sun 10/09/11 07:41 AM
Is it really important to have a partner with good face, sexy body, wealthy, and excellent education to make a person happy? Sometimes we miss happiness by looking too far. What is important to you? Please answer me. Thank you, kindly. :smile:

machug's photo
Sun 10/09/11 09:09 AM
Mutual respect, sense of humor and kindness. It's important to let the other person know how you feel by doing nice things for them, acknowledging them, complimenting them and romantic, sexy surprises.
(But, BOTH people need to do these. Otherwise, you become a doormat)

soufiehere's photo
Sun 10/09/11 09:22 AM

What do you really need to be happy?


Realization.
That you alone are responsible for it.

ybcat1's photo
Sun 10/09/11 10:00 AM

Is it really important to have a partner with good face, sexy body, wealthy, and excellent education to make a person happy? Sometimes we miss happiness by looking too far. What is important to you? Please answer me. Thank you, kindly. :smile:


I don't have to have a man who looks like he came out of a GQ magazine. For me, it's all about what kind of person they are. I would rather be and can be happy with a guy who is kind, honest, share the same values that I do, than be with a guy who has great looks and a sexy body, but is insensitive. I know people who choose who they date solely on what a person looks like and what they have, doesn't always means they will be happy. Each person sets their own priorities and they have to live with them.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 10/09/11 10:35 AM
i dont even need a partner AT ALL to be happy! Give me my puppy dogs and I'm happy!


But if we're talking about being happy with a partner...

They dont need to be model material (and honestly, a lot of the times i see guys walk into work who look like models, and everyone else will swoon over them, but i think its a turn-off)... I DO need to be attracted to them tho... but its more important that they treat me right... and SOOO important that they can make me laugh!!

kelp1961's photo
Sun 10/09/11 10:53 AM
peace of mind...serenity

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 10/09/11 10:53 AM
I like a partner that can give good face. Face value is the first thing that I look for. Because lets face it if the face doesn't turn you on then whats else really matters. The face is what I will remember. Does the face ever smile? When I am with the face does it laugh? If I draw a mustache on the face will I still like the face? Does the face light up the room when I am near it? Does the face look my way when I am facing another way? Do I remember that face when I see other faces? If I am in a line up would that face see my face first before it looked at the other faces? If I asked that face for help would it be there for me? How does that face look beside me in a picture? Would it still be a happy face?

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Sun 10/09/11 11:06 AM
I Like Partner Who Only Loves me!

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Sun 10/09/11 11:11 AM

peace of mind...serenity


Snap. I would also add laughter

Rusty_Knight's photo
Sun 10/09/11 11:13 AM

Is it really important to have a partner with good face, sexy body, wealthy, and excellent education to make a person happy? Sometimes we miss happiness by looking too far. What is important to you? Please answer me. Thank you, kindly. :smile:


Her bringing me coffee in the morning totally naked, would probably put a smile on my face pitchfork

kelp1961's photo
Sun 10/09/11 11:14 AM


peace of mind...serenity


Snap. I would also add laughter

laugh yep feels good to laugh for sure.

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Sun 10/09/11 11:40 AM
Respect for self and others,a very good sesne of humuor,being open and easily reachable in terms of communication,are all far more essential than the physical attributes of a partner ,in my opinion.Allowing time and room for breathing space is also very important in any relationship.Looks dissapear as time goes by ,personality and character that make up an individual don't.
















hotbtm4u64's photo
Sun 10/09/11 01:25 PM
Foot massages and baths ! :heart:

navygirl's photo
Mon 10/10/11 08:42 PM
What I really need to be happy is a lot of money.bigsmile

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Mon 10/10/11 10:04 PM

What I really need to be happy is a lot of money.bigsmile


rofl rofl rofl

I'm already happy. I am responsible for my own happiness. But I would prefer a partner who will treat me as well as I treat him.

pyxxie13's photo
Mon 10/10/11 10:37 PM
A computer, books to read, and food. Yep..I am set :)

josie68's photo
Tue 10/11/11 05:31 AM
I am happy without a partner,

But having a partner who i can relax and be myself with is the most important thing to me.

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/11/11 02:44 PM


What I really need to be happy is a lot of money.bigsmile


rofl rofl rofl

I'm already happy. I am responsible for my own happiness. But I would prefer a partner who will treat me as well as I treat him.


I am already happy too but would be a lot happier if I didn't have to go to this mindless job. A partner will never make me as happy as money. May not be romantic but at least I am being truthful. bigsmile

msharmony's photo
Tue 10/11/11 02:46 PM

Is it really important to have a partner with good face, sexy body, wealthy, and excellent education to make a person happy? Sometimes we miss happiness by looking too far. What is important to you? Please answer me. Thank you, kindly. :smile:




Faith/hope, good health, financial security

with those three at the foundation, nothing can be that 'bad' anymore,,,at least not for me

RhonLynn's photo
Tue 10/11/11 02:49 PM
Wonderful Family & Friends!!!