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Topic: First date...who pays?
auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 08:51 PM
Ladies, do you expect the gentleman to pay? Guys, would it offend you if the girl says "let's go dutch?"

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Sat 10/08/11 08:53 PM
I always have enough money to cover my half and will always offer to pay my half. If they insist on paying, that's up to them.

auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 08:55 PM
Gosh I must be old or old school, one! haha I've paid for dates but only after dating a while when it was my dates birthday or some special occasion. I don't mind it though.

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Sat 10/08/11 09:08 PM
When it's the first date and we really don't know each other, I don't expect him to pay, so I always offer. My offer is not always accepted, though.

Later on, we'll switch off on who pays sometimes. Depends on who plans the date!

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Sat 10/08/11 09:09 PM
I always like to pay for myself and don't mind paying for others others....but first dates I always make sure I can pay just in case his card is declined laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:10 PM
usually I will let them pay (let's say for dinner) and if we go out for drinks or something after, I will say it's on me.



pyxxie13's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:11 PM
I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:13 PM

I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol


never thought of it that way lol....hmmmm maybe I should ask someone to go on a date on a cruise laugh

markecephus's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:14 PM

I've always been old school, i guess. I think if a man asks a woman for a date, then he shouldn't expect her to pay.

Good to see you posting, Connie. :smile:

auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:15 PM

I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol



LOL good point!

auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:15 PM
Hiya Mark...good to see you.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:15 PM


I've always been old school, i guess. I think if a man asks a woman for a date, then he shouldn't expect her to pay.

Good to see you posting, Connie. :smile:


hey Mark....wanna go on a cruise??? laugh

pyxxie13's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:17 PM


I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol


never thought of it that way lol....hmmmm maybe I should ask someone to go on a date on a cruise laugh



lol don't forget the person who planted this genius idea!!!!

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:18 PM



I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol


never thought of it that way lol....hmmmm maybe I should ask someone to go on a date on a cruise laugh



lol don't forget the person who planted this genius idea!!!!


maybe we can double date

rofl rofl rofl rofl

pyxxie13's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:20 PM




I have always believed that whoever invites should be paying. Would be silly if the girl said HEY lets go out to a movie and dinner and then a show or what not..then make him pay ..lol Id have to say "hey lets go to France" in the case lol


never thought of it that way lol....hmmmm maybe I should ask someone to go on a date on a cruise laugh



lol don't forget the person who planted this genius idea!!!!


maybe we can double date

rofl rofl rofl rofl

hmm..that means we would have to find two suckers! lol

auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:21 PM
Well, it ain't ME! I'd throw up the whole time!!

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:24 PM
surely there are 2 single suckers in this world laugh

I will even stick with what I originally said. He pays for the cruise (or for Connie....a trip somewhere lol) and I'll buy the drinks laugh

auburngirl's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:27 PM
NOW you're talking in my good ear! laugh

pyxxie13's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:28 PM
Ok I'm in! And auburngirl can go with too. Just have to bring a bag for the moment. Can't let a little vomit get in the way of free cruise!

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 10/08/11 09:30 PM
ok so we need to find 3 suckers....ummmm I mean old fashioned guys :tongue:

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