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Sex Sex Sex Sex ........and football. How about sex during football...wait what a man wants...football during sex...okay there we go Foreplay during the game and sex at halftime. Yea! 
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 18
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Single, won't some nice guy please take me!
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WHAT DO YOU WANT?!?!?!
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What do you want right this very second??? 
sleep 
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What do you do if your ex show up on your door step (they need a place to stay for a nite), and both of you are not angry at each other anymore, is there such a thing of "just having sex" with them and not falling all over again? or will you just up for another heart break???  
If you still have feelings for him you're up for a heartache again I say. Don't open the door and tell him stay somewhere else. I know me and if it's been awhile and I haven't had any, and he's looking good and smelling good and,  ... well you know what I mean.  I say no, it's not a good idea.
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Never I can't stand coffee.................... The coffee is metaphorical. Choose any other drink. Or something else altogether. Do you invite them over for conversation? To watch a movie? Something else? Something visual or tactile or oral? 
What are your expectations? 
Does anyone really have a set time frame for when they do this? Probably not. I would guess it depends on how the date(s) have been going. I know for me, it's different with different people. I'm sorry I was not clear enough maybe in my initial post. I did not mean to ask for a time like 8 hours or 45 days. I meant when as in "under what circumstances" do you ask.... but "under what circumstances" did not fit in the topic line So, to rephrase it... Ladies, under what specific circumstances do you..... of course when it feels right - but I was looking for a more interesting answer like "when I feel <insert your description here>" or "when he has <insert description of what he has done here>" or "when we have <insert feelings or actions here>" etc. etc.... I am also interested to find out how you ask them up...if not for coffee then maybe for some nice V8, kefir, jack daniels, movie, dinner, dessert, kentucky fried chicken...you know... How does the decision to invite them in happen for you and how do you extend the invitation and what do you expect in general? 
I will not invite any guy that I'm only dating to my home for any reason. Until I'm in a committed relationship with him he doesn't need to know where I live. I have a young son so I keep my life private because of that. Now on the other hand when I feel comfortable I'll go to his place when I'm ready. |
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to join you for a cup of coffee at the conclusion of a nice evening? I only drink Coke. And after a nice evening he should go home and take a cold shower. |
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What IF
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i understand there can be good money in selling illegal drugs Yea, but don't make the mistake of thinking you can't get caught. I know a person who was living real good, got caught and spent 25 behind bars. Missed her kids growing up and everything. She got out last year I think, uhmm, I wonder if she has a legit job now? |
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What IF
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What if you met your date,,and found them to be someone you felt was GREAT in looks,,,,GREAT in conversations,,,,but they let you know they liked to do some drugs that were illegal and you felt them to really be into them......we're not talking pot here,,,, 
Would you be cool with that,,,or would you let them know you weren't into doing ANY DRUGS,,,except pot,,and that was like having a drink once in a while NOT an everyday pleasure.... So,,where would you stand with knowing their going to use their's and you know you will never use their's? Stay and walk that walk with them?,,, or say sorry,,can't handle that?,,,, He'd see smoke at the back of my azz, that's how fast I'd be out of there. I don't do drugs, not even weed. |
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My point was being raised in a different time and generation i havee never had to pay for anything when going out on a date, i've always but times have changed and things are very different in the dating world now . I not looking for sympathy i was stating my opinions thats all 
To be fair, women can be confusing these days. Ive seen women yell, scream and curse out men for holding doors open for them. Ive heard women say "I can pay for myself, thank you" and things like that in a very rude tone to shocked looking men in lines....Guys can get confused these days
HOWEVER, I think what the OP was saying was there was a cheap "vibe" about the guy and the way he went about it seemed creepy and she felt uncomfortable because she isn't used to that sort of thing. He should have just said to you "Hey, I'd like to take you out to the movies but money is tight, I will pay for the flick but how about we get some snacks and sodas and bring them in, are you comfortable with that or do you want to do something else?" Or anything along those lines. There's a way to handle these things and based on the guy and his ways, it could have been something perceived as fun, clever and frugal, but this guy sounds like he just botched the whole thing. On the other hand, if I was flat broke and wanted to take a woman out, I would save every penny I could to make it enjoyable and if I felt I wasn't able to offer that, Id simply wait a week or two to plan the date until I had enough cash.... Money or not, liberation movement and all, women still want to feel special and appreciated and that they are worth the little bit of effort to make the date enjoyable and if its the man who invites the woman, he should consider that. If the woman invited the man, its a little different and I think thats what it basically comes down to and why the OP felt let down. I still go by the way I was raised and base my principles around the way in which my Grandfather treated women...And to be honest I watched a lot of old movies as a kid which left an impression upon me.
Dates dont have to cost anything to be a blast but if you take your date to Black Angus and only have enough for breadsticks and water.... You guys get the point. Im giving OP benefit of the doubt on this one 
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equal dating opportunity?
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I believed in equal opportunity dating. I believe all women should have the right and opportunity to take me out to try to woo me or seduce me......or just use me for a while. But, apparently you women did't see it that way. So now, I only give my real soul love to one woman. Ya'll got no one to blame but yourselves. hehehehehehe OMG! I can't believe you women pass up such a hottie.
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equal dating opportunity?
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Maybe next time, if I'm asked would I like to go out for a drink, I'll just say, sure I wouldn't mind having a drink with a new friend.
But if there's a second asking then I'm going to say, are you aking me out on a date?
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equal dating opportunity?
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Interesting replies. I guess it would depend on the definition of date. Do you mean go out to dinner, a movie, and a few drinks with romantic intent with someone I'm not attracted to? No, probably not. Do you mean go out to dinner, a movie, and a few drinks as a friend with someone I'm not attracted to? Sure would. I don't have to be attracted to someone to go out and have a nice evening with them. I do mean as a potential romantic interest. I am similar in my thinking with msh, as I think attraction develops. I worry that if its not there online, I may discount potential that could emerge in person. thats wher I think people put too much emphasis on the strictly physical and 'romantic' I think we miss out on great friends when we make romance the goal right off the bat,,,, I really like your answers on this msharmony and misteranderson. I can see your point. I found this at About.com Guide: A large number of the emails I receive from readers ask me to define what a "date" is. If the guy at work asked me to coffee, is it a date? We hang out almost every day, but haven't kissed yet - are we dating? Does having sex mean we're now a couple, or are we just dating?... and so forth. A recent discussion in the forums (The Definition of Dating) also debated this same question recently. What on earth is a date? And does the definition of dating differ depending on the circumstances of the two people involved? (i.e. sexual orientation, age, culture) In my opinion, a date refers to an activity two people share together with the intention of getting to know each other better on a potentially romantic level. This differs greatly from 'hooking up' which usually describes a casual get together between two people that may or may not be sexual in nature. Two people who are "dating" therefore, have shared several dates together and have made it clear to one another they are interested in more than just a friendship - even if so far the exchanges have been purely friendly in nature. Dating is, essentially, getting to know someone over an extended period of time to determine if a relationship is something worth pursuing. So I would ask this question. If someone ask you out and you are not neccesarily attracted to that person how do you make sure that person doesn't get the wrong message? 
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equal dating opportunity?
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Would you go on a date with someone you are not attracted to? I ask because I would want to give everyone a chance. Otherwise I may miss out on the unexpected. Well, thats the theory. So initially I would have said, "yes." On the other hand, I could be accused of leading someone on, by going out with someone Im not attracted to...even once. It inspires ruffled feathers, even if we go 'dutch'. People think that I am playing with them. I would never say that Im attracted to them if Im not. The date is purely in a 'lets see how it goes' place. No lying or leading on that Im aware of. What do you do? My first response would be no, but then again you are right I could be missing out on the prefect guy for me. If you go out with them they might think they have a chance, and I never want to mislead someone. |
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Just asking.
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I have been in the forums for awhile now, and it's cool and all. I've received some good advice, learned some things and laughed at a lot of things said as well. I know Mingle2 is a dating site and after reading the about us section found out it's also a place to mingle and meet friends.
I guess what I'm wondering is how many people who go to the forums are really interested and serious about a LTR. It seems most are content with being alone, just here for friendship, joke about a thread thats been posted or rag on someone who ask a serious question regarding meeting someone. I keep reading the way to get to know someone is thur the forums, but I see the same people all the time posting and they aren't the one looking for a relationship it seems. I'm I missing something? I'm I in the wrong place on Mingles? Just asking. |
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LADIEZ WHAT PISSES YOU
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There are things that men do and it really gets into your nerves,you just wish to turn them into little kids and getting a piece of them.Ladies let it out...-ghrrr. I can't stand a lier! Men who lie. Just tell the freakin truth and be done with it. Some men think all they have to do is tell a woman what he thinks she want to hear and everything is alright. At some point in time the truth will come out. Don't string a lady alone with a bunch of bull. There are more women in this world than men and believe me they can always find a women who will grant their every stupid wish. Gosh, I can't stand men who lie for thier own benifit. 
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REALITY AND FACTZ
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Getting married right out of high school.
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Black people mingle?
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Wow, you guys can get really rude on here.....
Just a few, right? for those that questioned my "light skinned" description
I think that was just steve. Pay him no mind. Stay and enjoy the site! Hi massagetrade. How's it going? I agree it's just steve4life who's being difficult, but I don't know if he's just playing or if he's serious. I suppose it doesn't matter. I sincerely hope you stay, cherylb01. This is actually a really good community with many supportive people who take a real interest in others. Don't let the occasional rotten apple spoil the entire bushel. You're gorgeous and you seem like a really nice woman from what little I've seen of you, so I'm sure you'll soon have your pick of men — black, white, hispanic, or whomever. Enjoy your search, and enjoy the community. I agree, this forum consist of a lot of different people, debators, insensitive ones, know it alls, jokers, and many who really understand, give good advice and want to help. Don't worry about the haters, just lick your tongue out at them and talk about them behind the screen.  It's ok to be attracted to who you like. I like Asian men, like wow!
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I'm siiiiiiiick :(
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Don't know what it is, but it sucks. Stuffy head, congestion, painful sinuses, upset stomach. No fever (yet). 
I hope you feel better soon. |
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REPEAT OFFENDERS
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I swear most these women been on here and have had the same pix for years, I wonder how many are still alive?....lol Repeat offenders? WTF? Is that a wig you're wearing? I swear some of the things that are said make me weak. 
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Topic:
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I am not sure what to say... for some reason men think I am their sucker so that they can ask me for money. I am not interested in keeping a man up. I want a man for serious relationship that could lead to marriage and children. I will be 30 soon and my clock is ticking about getting into a serious relationship. Do I come across to harsh in my profile? thanks for the advice, tips and info ahead of time... I don't think your profile was to harsh at all. You were to the point about the kind of relationship you want. Any man or woman who depends on the other to take care of them is nothing but a user. Each person should come into the relationship with the mind of giving equal responsibility to each other. That is one thing that just rubs me the wrong way, and that's when a man ask me for money. If you don't have a job you'd better get your hussle on and I mean in a legal way. |
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