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This is a first for me. Just a little bit ago, I came across my ex from three years ago on another dating website. Since curiosity often gets the best of me I decided to check his profile out.    
His profile was disgusting and worth reporting. He claimed he had little to no baggage in his life. He took 8 years off his age, claimed he has no children and he ended his profile by stating quite clearly that "No fat chicks are allowed. Not fair? Life isn't fair. Go to the gym." I feel physically sick because he's 38, he has 2 of the greatest kids who's mother (he's still married to her. He never told me but his mom did)is a crack whore on the streets of kensington. He also states he is undecided/open about having kids. Such a lie! and to top it off he's mean when he drinks sometimes.
I'm just so disgusted and don't want any other women to have to deal with what I went through with him. there's don't date him girl dot com. 
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why ladies?
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whats up with women in this place? i mean,its so funny to me ,cause when i go out i could have 15-20 women ,all of whitch would mean nothing to me. i get so much attn. its border line sickning! im looking for something real,and have alot to offer and on dating sites,just like this one all these women are fake~!!!!! theres no truth behind any of you peroid! your all prolly in relationships(hence) the no forward action with anyone on here. your obviously bored with your current standing s and you hop on here ,but yet dont have the guts to go for something better,so you tease and sulk here. its rather do do ~! i also find it weak and un attractive~! not too mention some of you really need take a step back and look into the mirror,not only are you trying to fool yourselves ,but many of you looks like you've just let go with (looks,dreams,etc).im looking for that someone real,and someone thats looking for a long term relationship filled with many things that almost 98% of you ladies would be looking for,is it that its over the internet? is it that your cheaters? is it that your afriad,of leaving current standings with someone your involved with? what is it ladies. if you havent struck why im upset yet, then you should go back to being oblivious,and done botehr responding to this. ugh~ so frustrating,( met this 1 lady here,she tells me she found out she just got pregnant, well lets just say some other interesting things also. i mean whats wrong with the women in las vegas???? This good guy is OUT~! i dont do fake and dont bother with drama games! rather get used for what i am ,out on the scene than try for something real on a fake site filled with ladies that arent really looking for something ,but bored and are playing games! johnny vegas~ Look everyone, I'm all that and a bag of chips. I can have any man I want. I got it going on, I'm for real, I'm single, fine, i got a lot to offer, when I go out I got men all over me, but it don't mean nothing so what up with all you mingle men who ain't hit me up online, ya must be fake, ya game players, some of ya need to take a look in the mirror and fix ya self up, ya ya ya. Now that I've pretty much disked all ya, I'll be expecting a lot of positive responses. Peace out! |
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why ladies?
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Damn, do you have a chip on your shoulders. You come on here and disk every woman and expect for one to want a man like you? I think you're a nice looking man, but damn your attitude sucks!
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I've never dated outside my race before, as they say, but I am very attracted to white guys (I'm black by the way).Do you think people still have a problem with interracial relationships? If you are in one or have been in one, how did people act towards you? There is still a lot of prejudice out there. You being in Alabama (or Texas, Mississippi, etc) would make it tough on you I think, IDK. I know it is more liberal in CA though. I live in California and it depends where you are. Smaller town you can get a lot of stares, bigger cities they don't care. My last bf was of a different race and we received stares. I think largely because seeing a black woman with a white, Asian or Latino is still kinda rare. In case some don't know brown sugar is sweet too. 
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 Usually a few extra pounds are anywhere from 5-10lbs. That's what the majority of women think as a "few extra". Sure looks are important to a degree and sure it would be nice if we were all "Barbie dolls" or "Ken's", but isn't it's what is inside the person that counts, their feelings, their thoughts, compatibility with the opposite sex!!!
so if i told you how hot you are, you wouldn't believe me? BTW, welcome to mingle 
I'm more than a few extra pounds. Do you think I'm hot? 
beauty is more than just looks and weight, beauty is thought patterns, they way women present themselves, the way they talk to other people. and i have never seen any ugliness in you...so yes, your a hottie!
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Men how do you feel when?
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I never knew guys could get nervous like we do. I always thought guys were thinking, ok I like her now I wonder how fast can I get the goods?
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Men how do you feel when?
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Men how do you feel when you meet a woman that you really like? You've meet her, the vibes were great and you want to spend more time getting to know more about her. Describe what the feeling is like inside when you're meeting her for a date, or waiting for a phone call from her. I know how we women describe how we feel, but I want to know how you describe what you feel. When I was younger, there was sometimes a tremendous sense of anticipation, the amazing wonder of a potential yet to be explored. It was irrational, illogical, sometimes even insane, but when I would meet someone I really liked, I wanted nothing more than to do whatever it took to get to know as much as I could about her, to spend as much time as I could with her, and to let her know that I wanted to be a part of her life, and have her be a part of mine. There was an underlying sense of "what this could become"....with a little luck, and patience, and persistence. Those were the days.... Dozens of relationships later, I am more likely to feel more doubt and skepticism than anything else. No matter how much I like her, and no matter she seems to like me, it's only a matter of time until she starts trying to change me. It's inevitable. And, as much as I would love to feel that sense of anticipation and wonder and hope again, I just don't think it's feasible. They don't want me, they want the me they think they can turn me into. Lex, as I read the first part my heart felt so warm. I was thinking ahh, how sweet and tender, then the last part, well....  I believe there is a woman who will love and never want to change you because you are unique just the way you are.
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Men how do you feel when?
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... men have feelings?? 
That's what I'm trying to find out. Come on men, get in touch with your feminine side for us. |
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If you fell in LOVE here
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I believe at some point in time you have to make sacrifices in love. Moving to a new location might be one and there are other reasons. I sacrificed 5 years in a long distant relationship.
I made it clear in the very beginning when we met that was not the kind of relationship I wanted, and we should just call it quits, but he convinced me he was moving to start a new life where I lived and wanted us to be together. He was suppose to move but he didn't. Year after year he just made excuses for why he couldn't. So as much in love with him as I was I had to make the sacrifice of letting him go. I believe that two people have to be on the same page with each other about what they want in a relationship in order for it to work. If you're honest enough with each other and love each other you can bend and make sacrifices that are right for your relationship because in the end you are both reaching for your goal as a couple. |
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Usually a few extra pounds are anywhere from 5-10lbs. That's what the majority of women think as a "few extra". Sure looks are important to a degree and sure it would be nice if we were all "Barbie dolls" or "Ken's", but isn't it's what is inside the person that counts, their feelings, their thoughts, compatibility with the opposite sex!!!
so if i told you how hot you are, you wouldn't believe me? BTW, welcome to mingle
I'm more than a few extra pounds. Do you think I'm hot?
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Men how do you feel when?
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Men how do you feel when you meet a woman that you really like? You've meet her, the vibes were great and you want to spend more time getting to know more about her.
Describe what the feeling is like inside when you're meeting her for a date, or waiting for a phone call from her. I know how we women describe how we feel, but I want to know how you describe what you feel. |
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First cut
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Make her forget ...my friend!! OOOh, I like that answer. This is a man with confidence. 
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Do you see your grown kids very often? Do they live close to you? How about grandkids? Since the recession, my daughter lost her job, my son lost most of his hours so they're home living with me. It's great, my kids and I have a good relationship. |
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Getting to know each other
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Three Names I go by 1.Ybarra 2.Bearcat 3.YB Three Jobs I have had in my life 1.Office assistant 2.teacher 3.mother Three Places I have lived 1.Texas 2.California 3. Three TV Shows that I watch 1.CNN news 2.The Nanny 3.True TV Three places I have been 1.New York 2.Hawaii 3. People that e-mail me regularly 1.no one on here 2.personal site family and friends 3. Three of my favorite foods 1.tacos 2.pizza 3.fries with a icy coke Three friends I think will respond 1.N/A 2. 3. 3 Things I am looking forward to 1.to starting my own business 2.going to Seoul, South Korea 3.Meeting and marrying the man of my dreams |
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Friends
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Friends are like panties... Some crawl up your butt. Some snap under pressure. Some don't have the strength to hold you up. ... Some get a little twisted. Some are your favorite. Some are holey. Some are cheap. Some are naughty. And some actually cover your butt when you need them to. And they are always "nice" to have. All the above are true, but unlike friends I change mind daily.
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Been on here off and on for 2 yrs. Beside two one night stands, nothing. I have more luck at the coffee houses or when I am at the gym Does anyone every hook up on here? For one nights stands or something long lasting? |
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how do I ask?
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unfortunately she's only a figment of my imagination on a boring Sunday afternoon(which I thought you'd probably get) thanks for the advice tho' :) Wow, that's wasn't nice. You had me believing you. |
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how do I ask?
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I've been talking to a girl on here 3 or 4 times a week and every time the conversation comes to a close she always says 'you get me wet 3 times a week,do you fancy giving me a wax and polishing me off?' I always avoid answering because confusion for me lies in that I work in a city centre car wash with a lot of regular customers and although I dont recognize her photo could she be talking about me polishing her car or polishing something else? How do I ask without sounding either presumptuous or naive? :) I think that's her way of flirting with you. I don't think she talking about her car at all.
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Well I did my good deed last night... Was coming home from a BBQ on a dark country road this older man was broke down on the side of the road. Turned back around and went offered him a lift to the nearest store which I was driving right by anywhere.. The times I have done such things the only thanks I have told I wanted was to return the same kindness to another in need...
A dark country road? Wasn't that kinda risky? |
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Pix of a young me... lets see... 
Took karate' class from 6 mo. till 17 when I joined the military. Literally took my first steps in Dad's fighting school.Did a few years of fighting beyond that. I grew up to be shy and conservative... 
Ain't my fault that the rest of my family is short, barrel chested and hairy... 
(old pic but, good example) What's up with the hair dude? 
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