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Sun 11/06/11 10:19 PM


i just need replies.
i would say no. you should look into Spanish Latina or black girls.


No, no, no not black girls.

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Sat 11/05/11 11:53 PM


anyone else notice that some people on here, and other places think that average weight means two or less fat rolls, and a few extra pounds means "i cant see my feet". if you are not able to be honest with yourself, then how can you expect anyone to take you seriously?


Haven't you made threads whining about fat women before? If you're that worried about how fat someone is, look at their pictures. If they are not attractive to you, move on. Simple.



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Sat 11/05/11 07:06 AM
@latheman03

Thanks for the really uplifting words. If this thread sounds a little like I have a defeated attitude I really don't. Darn hormones, some times I feel like the prefect love for me is just a moment away and other times I feel like wow, I've waited so long and I'm getting older what's the use. frustrated Just give me a HWB, (husband with benifits). laugh

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Fri 11/04/11 10:52 PM

My first time watching this show. Maybe someone can get some pointers.:smile:



http://www.vh1.com/video/misc/704227/bonus-clip-test-date.jhtml#id=1673017

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Thu 11/03/11 08:57 PM

Ladies please.I have been on this site and other sites to find the "ONE"and yet I have Failed.1 I have two kids who live with me.Even thou they are 14 and 12 and can take care of themselves and me.They can cook,clean brush thier own teeth,have 140 IQ's.I am independant and have been in karate most of my life,I'm 54 and very active,still go to school,I'm starting to volenteer at the Veterens hospital a few hours a week to do my part.I'm a former Marine,and yet I'm not good enough for you.This really pisses me off.My last girlfriend was 24.We broke up a couple of months ago.I put her thru her last year of college,Talked her into trying to go into the Air Force.Remodeled her house.For Free.Yet being a nice guy is like a sickness.What do you all want?Someone who will treat you as a queen or someone who will fool around on you and when you find out beats the hell out of you?????


No woman with self esteem wants a man who will beat on her and fool around on her. Many men who encounter women like this and it turn out to be a bad relationship seems to think all women are looking for a bad boy. You just picked the wrong woman sir. Sorry that this happened to you, but don't give up the faith.

I've been waiting for the right man to come into my life for 27 years. I've had a couple of relationships within that time, fell in love and though we were meant for each other. Things didn't work out. You go through the hurt and move on. Keep a positive attitude, learn from the past so not to repeat it in the future and never give up if true love is what you're seeking.

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Wed 11/02/11 11:11 PM

hi.....chat wit me



offtopic WTFreak?

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Wed 11/02/11 11:05 PM

OK, so let me get this straight;

Wemens want a guy to "help them get through those lonely nights"
But they don't want any sex.
Except sometimes they want sex but then want him to leave after it's over.

They want control over the remote.
But the only channel they watch is the Oprah channel.

They don't want to cook for him.
But they claim to be excellent cooks.

They want their freedom.
But they don't want to go anywhere alone.

They love men.
But they don't really want to hang around with them for too long.

Have I got most of this right so far?

No wonder we men folk are confused.


Well let me correct you on a few things regarding myself. Yea, I want sex and I'll give it to him when he wants it but after it's over just give me my space.

Yes, I want to control the remote because I like watching what I want to watch. I don't like Oprah.

I hate cooking and I'm awful at it.

The only reason I don't like to go anywhere alone is because I'd rather not drive.

And as long as you don't get on my nerves you can hang around.

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Wed 11/02/11 10:54 PM





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Wed 11/02/11 10:46 PM
frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated Gosh, will the subjects of being gay ever end. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Tue 11/01/11 10:28 PM

Does it really matter where you find happiness and satisfaction? Same sex relationships or heterosexual relationships?


It matters to me. I am a straight woman. Even if a gay woman found me attractive I just couldn't go there.

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Tue 11/01/11 10:24 PM


I received these reasons many times over:

- he was a widower

- his wife died of breast cancer

- he gives a non-existent phone number

- he was very eager to get a phone number/email address

- he was an Engineer in the US based/on contract at the UK

- he has a very out dated/blurry/distorted/solitary picture on profile




yup and he has a daughter

this is a UK scam that has been around for about 3 years



Yes, a daughter who needs a mom. He sends a picture of her to you, God knows where he got it from. His mom and dad are deceased, he inherited his dads gold mining company and the list goes on. laugh

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Mon 10/31/11 10:33 PM

The other day, a friend of mine, who is 35, came to my parents' house and cried over a guy (age 36) who treated her like an ***! This guy has his own place, make good money, driving a Benz, travels the world, he got it made but cant treat my friend like a queen! I told her to go out with this other guy, who is 24 years old, no "big" job, no car, no own place but goes to college and make little money but treats all women with respect and class and treats them like queens. Now ladies, would you prefer a man who has everything but treats you like crap or a man who has very little but going to school and treats you very good and nice and will never, ever hit you...ever!!?? Which one will you pick and comment on it!

Thank you ladies and have a good day!!


I would never be with a guy who treats me like dirt. While the guy who has little might treat her better it doesn't mean they are meant to be together. My ex treated be very well, waited on me hand and foot, not that I took advantage of that, he just wouldn't let me lift a finger and help out with anything. He lost his job after awhile and didn't have much to offer but that wasn't why I left the relationship. There were many other factors that came into play. She needs to see her self worth, meet someone who she can love and care for and that will do the same for her. Together they can make a healthy relationship by giving to each other 100%.

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Mon 10/31/11 10:20 PM

Get away from my car you trick or treaters!




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Mon 10/31/11 10:05 PM


I wonder sometimes if I'm really ready for a steady bf, or husband for that matter. As I get older, I become more set in my ways. I like doing what I want, when I want. If I don't feel like cooking I don't want to cook. Cleaning is a different thing, I can't stand a dirty house. But sometimes I think, wouldn't it be great if I could treat my relationship just like you would a grandchild or my neighbors kids. When I'm tired of you I can just send you home. Any women ever feel like this?


I am with you girl! It seems like when I meet a man, they just want one thing, but that is not what I want. I want to just be with someone on those lonely nights, go out with when I feel like it, and just feel that compassion. I am set in my ways, and I cannot stand a man telling me what to do or try to change a channel on t.v. when I am watching it because there is a game on. NO WAY! I do want someone that I can be comfortable with but sometime I just want to be alone. Like you said, that is when it's time to send them home. No obligations whatsoever, and I definitely do not want him just for sex, there's got to be someone out there that understands, I mean a man that understands.


Yes, you understand where I'm coming from. :smile:

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Mon 10/31/11 10:03 PM

If it's just a boyfriend and you haven't moved in together, you still have your own space to get away when you need to do so. And who says you have to cook for him all the time? If you don't feel like cooking, don't cook. laugh


I know what you mean. But here lately I've had convictions about sex outside of marriage. Some women marry for money, maybe I can marry for sex, and send him on his way when we finish. laugh laugh

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Sun 10/30/11 07:56 PM
I wonder sometimes if I'm really ready for a steady bf, or husband for that matter. As I get older, I become more set in my ways. I like doing what I want, when I want. If I don't feel like cooking I don't want to cook. Cleaning is a different thing, I can't stand a dirty house. But sometimes I think, wouldn't it be great if I could treat my relationship just like you would a grandchild or my neighbors kids. When I'm tired of you I can just send you home. Any women ever feel like this?

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Sun 10/30/11 07:34 PM

WittySmartMouth
Thats what people say about me...

I take that as a compliment...IMO witty=Smart, Smartmouth = smart...

So say something to me and be prepared for a comeback, but the rules are no whining and reporting if your feelings get hurt. Dont play with fire unless you want to get burned.


My mom use to always say, "A smart mouth makes a soft azz."

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Sun 10/30/11 03:01 PM

How come you dont have a chat room I am new.
Michelle


A chat room would be nice. Maybe in the future there's be one. With the forum you can post things but unless you see them in the search you wouldn't know their logged on.

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Sun 10/30/11 11:15 AM
Edited by ybcat1 on Sun 10/30/11 11:18 AM










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Sun 10/30/11 10:50 AM



I'm cut a hole in a potato, stick it on my thing and go as a dicktater!


OMG, you're going to get arrested. :laughing: :laughing:

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