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Just date millionaires daaaaaaahlink!!!  
Could ya help me find one...? 
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There are a lot of men out there who see themselves as failures if they can't provide completely for their significant other and it is a sore spot if that person can do so when they can't. I believe this is what happened to the gentleman in my past. 
There wasn't anything I could have said that would have given him the support he needed to feel like a "man". I think he was a little bent I could provide for myself and didn't "need" him...Maybe that is why he was intimidated...He knew I could provide for myself and I could walk out at any given moment. I don't put up with BS. 
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Do you want to support him as well???? I think they mean they would like to be "able" to help with their share, especially if they live or are married to you. 
No ma'am but why would that stop someone from pursueing what may be a great love. I get that they would want to "help" but why does it means things would change financially...? If it were me, he would continue to pay for his and I would continue to pay for mine. |
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M & M Candy...
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Take five and Chocolate covered Almonds.
I'm a big fan of coconut too. |
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I would like to know what’s up with the guys that use the excuse of not being "financially secure" enough to pursue a relationship...
I, myself, have had that told to me once but I also know of a few women that have told me the same comment was made to them.
I'm a big girl and I have been supporting myself and my boys for quite some time. I do not need the assistance of a man to pay my bills.
Is this your new cop out? |
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Maybe this was the answer he needed to a question he has been praying for. Maybe he needed a new start and this was the best that could be done for his situation.
I am very sorry for your house. 
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have any of you seen her?
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Sounds like your best bet would be to find her in a country bar
Good luck
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Are you kidding me?
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I HATE SLANG!
Especailly when the guy using it is trying to hit on me. 
I hate "what it be shawty...yo baby...itz all good princess..." ...And the rest of the broken english I get through the net... 
Don't try to talk to me if you speak broken English (on purpose) 
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your opinion
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DROP HIM!
...Not only is he BROKE, he is inconsiderate! |
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My eyes and my lips
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I know it can't be healthy...but I kinda like it. i can relate I'm definetly not an a$$ about it...it is what it is. I don't intentionally hurt people
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I have a detachment issue.
I can drop just about ANYONE at a moments notice. ...It doesn't hurt either 
I know it can't be healthy...but I kinda like it. I don't have the issues that the rest of the women post when they say their hearts are breaking...They met a nice guy but don't know what to do...someone pissed them off but they don't want to leave...
Drop em! 
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I got another one for you...
Edited by
Voluptuous
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Sun 10/12/08 08:38 PM
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From the same "Stupid cell"... What if you, a friend and your younger children were grocery shopping. Your friend became distracted in an aisle and the kids stayed along their side. As soon as the distraction was over, your "friend" walked away from your kids but made sure they took their own child with them... 
How would that sit with some of the parents here? Why would you leave your kid (or hers) with her when she's "distracted." Obviously, if she's distracted, she's not paying attention.  And, jmo, they're your kids, not hers, therefore your responsibility, not hers.
I agree.... Especially if you were right down the same eisle..Just because YOUR kids wanted to walk with him and his son, doesnt mean he agreed to babysit... JMO REEEEAD people...REEEAD
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I got another one for you...
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My apologies, I did miss the post where you said your friend was a he. But, I did go back and check and no where, until you responded to me, did you say that he had offered to watch your kids. That, of course, does put it into a new light. Had you said that upfront, I wouldn't have responded the way I did, the circumstances were vastly different. I didn't mean to come across as harsh, I apologize if I did
I apologize too Suzin.
I was short with you and I shouldn't have expected you to know the whole situation. I got short because I dedicate my life to raising my boys the best way I know how...So much so, I have "lost" myself in the process. 
The one time I drop my guard with someone I thought was a friend and have that happen to me is upsetting. 
Thank you for the reply
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I LOVE my nail salon!
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Sorry! I was off the Pedicure chair and getting the nails done when you posted this
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I got another one for you...
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From the same "Stupid cell"... What if you, a friend and your younger children were grocery shopping. Your friend became distracted in an aisle and the kids stayed along their side. As soon as the distraction was over, your "friend" walked away from your kids but made sure they took their own child with them...
How would that sit with some of the parents here? Why would you leave your kid (or hers) with her when she's "distracted." Obviously, if she's distracted, she's not paying attention. And, jmo, they're your kids, not hers, therefore your responsibility, not hers.
Ok Suzin, If you're going to make comment on a thread, try and keep up... A- Not "her"- it's a guy B- He knew the kids were with him, He told me it was ok, he would keep an eye on them. I was further down the aisle when I watched him pick his little boy up and walk away leaving my 2 kids standing there looking at the Hot wheels cars. I brought it to his attention right away and I told him it was screwed up for him to make sure he had his kid before he walked away after reassuring me he would keep and eye on all of them. He apologized. I know they are MY kids. I happen to be one of the most responsible parents you could ever meet. I don't EVER "leave" my kids with other people just so I can "go do my thing" We were supposed to be friends. We went grocery shopping together because our boys really like each other and they get along. I told my boys to come on, I wasn't going to buy them any cars- HE said, "No it's ok, I will keep an eye on them"...shortly after the grown up was no longer entertained, he picked up his kid and walked away. ^ That, you don’t do.
I didn’t ASK him to watch the boys. He offered. |
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Edited by
Voluptuous
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Sun 10/12/08 12:45 PM
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am searching for a honest wife honest wife: isn't that an oxymoron? (kidding of course) Papersmile, I absolutely LOVE your photo. 
So sweet. It shows a lot of love and tenderness. 
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Honest?!?!
YOU want "honest"
...How about you get back to your wife and have the "Honest" conversation with her. 
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I don't care what color or race...
As long as I am attracted to him and we love each other- 
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What should I do?
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You need to leave him alone because he is MARRIED!
So what if he isn't "in love" or having a "hard time" in the marriage- It isn't your place to try to fix it or even talk about it.
He needs to discuss those matters with his wife. |
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