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Sat 10/11/08 02:24 PM

I found a picture arsenal. I uploaded new pictures. It was hard to pick them because I have so many, but here they are. Enjoy.


You're a little hottie flowerforyou

Good luck finding the one of your dreams:wink:

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Sat 10/11/08 02:16 PM
I'm not sure how long you have been single or the amount of times you've been hurt BUT it sounds to me like you haven't spent enough time alone learning to love yourself.
If you love yourself, it is easier to walk away from someone that is hurting you AND much easier to grab on to this man that thinks the world of you and say "I deserve this".

Good luck to youflowerforyou

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Sat 10/11/08 02:07 PM

leave them, theyre not friends. flowerforyou


Done :banana:

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Sat 10/11/08 02:05 PM

why would I be walking away from my children?


My boys wanted to walk with him and his son.
I was further down the aisle
Thank you

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Sat 10/11/08 02:02 PM
Edited by Voluptuous on Sat 10/11/08 02:04 PM

Sounds like not a very good friend but then I don't expect my friends to babysit my kids when I am right there. Maybe she is trying to tell you something in a subtle way rather than make a big issue out of it.

It is a "he" and He can't say ANYTHING bad about my boys.
Everyone that has ever met my boys have told me the were the best behaved kids- EVER! They are well mannered, very polite and considerate of others
I am such a proud momma.smooched

I asked this question as a part 2 of another topic:
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/171785

He wasn't trying to tell me anything...He is a selfish, inconsiderate individual and I just needed others to voice their opinion to help him realize- the rest of the world around him isn't crazy.
He has to come to terms he is the one with the issuethink

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Sat 10/11/08 10:49 AM
I sound like a chipmunk thats having an "O" ohwell

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Fri 10/10/08 11:25 PM
I agree.drinks

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Fri 10/10/08 06:43 PM

Good!


Thank you:wink: flowerforyou

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Fri 10/10/08 06:42 PM
From the same "Stupid cell"...

What if you, a friend and your younger children were grocery shopping.
Your friend became distracted in an aisle and the kids stayed along their side. As soon as the distraction was over, your "friend" walked away from your kids but made sure they took their own child with them...spock

How would that sit with some of the parents here?

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Fri 10/10/08 06:37 PM

Only if you don't mind being used.

Let's face it, if you fully realize what is happening then, it is not about the needy (yet selfish) friend, it is about: are you willing to let yourself be used as a convenience?

Some people don't mind being used or taken for granted. Some people do.

Ya gotta decide this one for yourself.


SOOOOOOO NOT the type to allow others to take me for granted

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Fri 10/10/08 06:36 PM



I'm thinking, why would you want to be friends if they said they don't want you around. What the point?


THANK YOU! drinks

Now all I have to do is email the link to this thread so he can fu@k off...


Knowing a little bit about you. Why would you put this kinda time and effort in somone like this. I don't see it unless you got caught up in a part of it and didn't catch it till now.


Mike, you are absolutely right.
...I do not tollorate sh!t.

The first time those words came out of his mouth, I was GONE!
He didn't know what the hell hit him.
He thought I was unreasonable.

I promise you, I was GONE the second he said it.

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Fri 10/10/08 06:34 PM

I dont think I could be, I have had friends that do me that way, but such is life. I just have to realize that they are never going to change and move on with my life.:angry:


Such may be life but we have to choose to want better for ourselves.
We have to be good to ourselves because we already know we can't count on others to hold us with precious regard.

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Fri 10/10/08 06:32 PM


Then they are just trying to make you feel low, bad in the hopes that you will rethink what you did so that they don't lose you. I mean, once a user loses someone that they know they can "abuse" then they have to look for someone else to fill that role.


...EXCELLENT POINT TO BRING UP!

I said the SAME thing.

I am so happy he will read it from others perspectives

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Fri 10/10/08 06:29 PM

Did they say the words, "I don't want you around?"

If so, I think you know the answer to this question.


Our conversations consisted of him calling , whining and saying, "I don't feel good...come over...watch a movie with me..."
I did all of these things because I enjoyed the company. It was nice having someone to hang out with.

One morning I woke up with a HEAD ACHE and told him I don't feel good to which his reply was "Oh, you can't come over here"
...surprised

Are you fu@kin kidding me?:laughing:
I AM DONE!

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Fri 10/10/08 06:24 PM

I'm thinking, why would you want to be friends if they said they don't want you around. What the point?


THANK YOU! drinks

Now all I have to do is email the link to this thread so he can fu@k off...

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Fri 10/10/08 06:23 PM

Know that you see their true colors, its your fault if you allow yourself to get caught up in theur selfish worldspock But i guess the Drama is to much too pass upwhoa


No I dropped this person as soon as their selfish words came out of their mouth.
I can't stand DRAMA and I know good and damn well NOT to be used.

The only issue I have is this person thinks I'm the one in the wrong. They think I "flew off the handle"

I wasn't even mad; I calmly said "I'm done".

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Fri 10/10/08 06:20 PM

I couldn't. I had this happen before, and while I tried to still be friends with them, all they did was keep using me, taking advantage of my kindness. I finally just broke away from them and never looked back. It stressed me out, made me insane at times, and when they were gone my life got a little easier.


THANK YOU!drinks

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Fri 10/10/08 06:18 PM



keep on using me,until you use me upbigsmile


Not for sex, foolnoway ill
its a song, i can read,foolbigsmile

:laughing:

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Fri 10/10/08 06:16 PM
Edited by Voluptuous on Fri 10/10/08 06:17 PM
I ask because I know someone that is stuck on STUPID and believes their actions are justified.slaphead

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Fri 10/10/08 06:15 PM

keep on using me,until you use me upbigsmile


Not for sex, foolnoway ill