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Sure...how about you send me your Nigerian account number...I will make sure to get that right out to you
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How many men and woman would be comfortable and accepting of a potential spouse digging up your past and gathering information on your credit...?
Someone brought this interesting comment up: "Listen, what I would do if I really wanted him is I would dig into his past and see how long he can hold a job and how long he can hold a buck. I would see if he is one to borrow money without payback or borrow money with payback, but ideally you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that borrows money at all. The frequency of borrowing money really matters here. How long has he been without a job? Remember this is a recession so it may just be a temporary financial matter. What jobs did he hold? How much income does he make per year? What's his salary? " ^^^^ What do you think? 
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some guys just don't want the responsibility that they believe comes with dating a woman with children... That's DUMB! ...I can see how some of that may be true...Some women out there with children have used, drained and abused men. I personaly know of an IDIOT that does this. I wish I could knock some sense into her 
I've been there.....done that!! The receiving end that is..... So sorry for your troubles. You need to make sure it's a lesson learned. |
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Of course I wouldn't mind because I have nothing to hide. If i'm supposed to trust you as a wife, then I would show you anything, not necesarily give you access to it though 
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Would "I have herpes" work better? Or is that too much detail? No, I got one...I'm missing both arms and only have 7 toes. That one is ace. 
You poor thing...See a doctor for the Herpes. ...I'm sure you will find a woman that will love you and appeciate you and your seventh toe. They have herpes dating.
Better chances for you to find someone 
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Sorry, in this day an age you can't jump into anything on faith alone. A husband is an investment. The more research you do on him, the safer the judgment you make will be. Are you serious? You would look up someones account history...? You wouldn't mind if it were done to you? |
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Would "I have herpes" work better? Or is that too much detail? No, I got one...I'm missing both arms and only have 7 toes. That one is ace.
You poor thing...See a doctor for the Herpes. ...I'm sure you will find a woman that will love you and appeciate you and your seventh toe. |
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some guys just don't want the responsibility that they believe comes with dating a woman with children... That's DUMB! ...I can see how some of that may be true...Some women out there with children have used, drained and abused men. I personaly know of an IDIOT that does this. I wish I could knock some sense into her
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Listen, what I would do if I really wanted him is I would dig into his past and see how long he can hold a job and how long he can hold a buck. I would see if he is one to borrow money without payback or borrow money with payback, but ideally you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that borrows money at all. The frequency of borrowing money really matters here. How long has he been without a job? Remember this is a recession so it may just be a temporary financial matter. What jobs did he hold? How much income does he make per year? What's his salary? If he is always in debt, you better run your ass off because once he has access to your bank account, it's like poking a large hole in a bucket of water. If I have to "dig up" all of that information- He isn't worth the time. Besides...you would be a psycho of sorts if you did that.
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   Noooooooooo forget him~~~!!! Lets date millionaires instead!!!!
I've lost several million dollars..... working on my 3rd now!!! The thought alone makes me sick to loose that much money 
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i think men say it cause they either arent interested or the woman in their eyes,by talkin to them seems money hungry or to high maintenance. 
So sad that he would think such because I am as reasonable as they come. How much more humbled could I possibly be... A single mom, widow, with 2 boys... I have been slapped with a serious dose of reality. I appreciate people on a genuine level |
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i have a 748 credit rating. you wouldn't want me I will think about it...Mine is 762 |
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His pride is battered. If you really like him ask to meet for coffee & talk about it. Oh no... He has been out of the picture for well over a year. I brought the topic up because my best friend is having the same thing done to her. I can only speak from my experience...I don't have many details about the other guy so I shared my story with you. |
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How many kids do you have???? Like someone else here said.......maybe he can barely take care of himself let alone you and your children. And if he wants to date you....then there is the possibility of marriage sometime up the road.....yes>>?>??? a + b = C
Yes, Marriage was something he wanted from me... I wasn't ready for any of that. I was trying to deal with and UNDERSTAND the issues at hand... I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life reassuring a man that he IS actually a man. 
He has to figure out and come to terms with that crap on his own. |
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Heck, money isn't that much of a big deal. Let's go for a walk in the park, or rent a movie.... THANK YOU! 
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Maybe the idea that you would walk out spooked him. Guys don't like getting dumped so they beat you to the punch? Who knows. The whole Stepdaddy thing is a big issue for some folks. I am not sure it is all money but it is a lot to take on a whole family even if the partner is capeable. It was TOO early in the game for my kids to have even been an issue for him. Besides...he claims to have loved me. He wanted me to be his wife but he seriously had issues with the money thing! He was wealthy at one point in his life and lost a lot of it to a partner that embezzled from the company. He seemed frustrated to have met me "unexpectedly". |
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im secure enough with myself to tell you im flat broke
I admire that. I'm broke to but Blessed with enough to pay my bills
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maybe he's not financially secure enough to even take care of himself, let alone go out on dates. If that's the case then more power to him for taking himself out of the "dating pool" to help himself first. I get what you're saying but then why do they pursue a woman in the first place? If you don't have the means to go out and spend some time with a woman you are interested in, then "why bother getting in the pool if you can't swim "
...NOT if they are using it as an EXCUSE not to pursue a relationship! |
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I am recently divorced. I take care of twin seven year old boys and myself but I don't have a lot of money. I met a woman (not on here). She was nice and everything but 3 months in a relationship she said" You don't have the resources to be with me" and that was her exit gambit. However I thought I let you know . I saw few profiles here specially in California with headings like "Au digger" (for the uninitiated Au is the chemical sign for gold) or "Are you rich enough to be with me?" or the one which says "I have an expensive taste for dinning" I can go on for ever for some of the ladies on this site. Of course not all are the same.
I can see why a man would say that .Though I am not putting a sign of approval.Men you can think it if you wish, but say "thanks but no thanks " is more graceful. I agree. I am not a gold digger...I don't even ask to go out for dinner dates and such because I am a single mom...I am also prior military- leaving me in a state with NO family for support. Some women may be out to drain other men but I am not one of those people. |
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maybe he's not financially secure enough to even take care of himself, let alone go out on dates. If that's the case then more power to him for taking himself out of the "dating pool" to help himself first. I get what you're saying but then why do they pursue a woman in the first place? If you don't have the means to go out and spend some time with a woman you are interested in, then "why bother getting in the pool if you can't swim "
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